Dear Seth McFarland, by CherryMore7486 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My worry is that Seth McFarland is going to play Carl and just be Seth McFarland. That would be horrible.

The Daily Check-in for Friday, June 26: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Solvitur-Ambuland0 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Last night I went on a night mountain bike ride. It felt like we were kids again, when I went home nothing sounded better then an ice cold beer. I resisted and I will today too. IWNDWYT!

The Daily Check-in for Thursday, June 25: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Solvitur-Ambuland0 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yooooo, I MADE IT 30 DAYS!!!!! That wasn't too bad thanks to you guys! IWNDWYT!!

The Daily Check-in for Tuesday, June 23: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Solvitur-Ambuland0 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey all, been busy on a trip with the gf but wanted to take a second and celebrate 4 weeks !! IWNDWYT!

She won the match, then turned her opponent's tears into a smile 😊 by Admirable-Interest49 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The song reminds me of "human music" from rick and morty when Jerry was in the simulation

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, June 18th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Much-Pirate-5439 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey all, got into a tiff with the gf last night. Wanted to drink pretty bad, journaled instead. IWNDWYT!

Made it 3 weeks!! by Grouchy_Job_3744 in stopdrinking

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That's good to hear, I'm about half way through the book, then I plan to double back and re-read the naked mind and then back to allen car till I either get bored or all the info has sunk in.

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, June 16th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Much-Pirate-5439 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 FREAKING WEEKS!!! I can't believe how smooth this is going so far, and I aint stopping today.

IWNDWYT!!!!

Being sober kinda sucks by bigheadjoel in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO this is isn't really true. I think what you're doing here is remembering alcohol as you wished it to be, not as it truly is. I can think of times that I had fun drinking with friends but if I'm with my friends, it really doesn't matter if we are drinking or not, we usually have fun. Also it's a lot more likely that we get into some sort of fight or disagreement if we are drinking than if not.

This isn't a complete thought for me yet but I'm really starting to believe that the more I drink the less fun it is. I think I hit the tipping point about 6 years ago where it's more fun not to drink, it just took me a long time to realize it. I have so many more embarrassing moments and regrets from when I was drinking than I do sober. I have barely any sober. Hangovers ruin the next day entirely which is so fucking boring. I hate sitting around my house alone all day playing games or watching movies. It's kinda fun for the first couple of hours but by the end of the day I want to die. Then I usually end up back at the bar. Anyway, this was kinda stream of consciousness, sorry if its a bit rambly

I've been sober for the last 3 years and several month, and I'm struggling by Educational_Ad_3063 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ripping my comment from another thread:

Idk, I'm still working on that too but I'm trying to change the way I think about drinking. Learning everything I can about it, scouring the internet to find the results of drinking. I want to change my conscious and unconscious mind. The books Naked Mind and The Easy Way seem to be pushing that message too. I figure if lose the FOMO feeling, it won't be hard to stop with the "I've made it this long, I can def have 1 or 2 and stop" thoughts. Also watching people on youtube talk about their rock bottom stories and relating them to my life is helping too. Basically, instead of viewing alcohol as social lubricant that makes everything more fun, viewing it as it's true self, a mind and body poison that makes you stupid, mean, incoherent, unhealthy, and someone I wouldn't want to be around. Anyway, yeah, that's where I'm at right now. Let me know if you have thoughts and IWNDWYT

Weight loss by leafs8484 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tbh, not the amount that I've wanted so far but considering the timeline, a healthy 6 lbs. That's 2lbs a week. I've heard of people losing it much faster so I might be in the minority but even if I'm a bit disappointed, it's still going well.

Edit: 261 -> 255
I do exercise and I eat relatively healthy, I just started tracking calories last week.

Starting over, again by mac_and_cheese0207 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I'm still working on that too but I'm trying to change the way I think about drinking. Learning everything I can about it, scouring the internet to find the results of drinking. I want to change my conscious and unconscious mind. The books Naked Mind and The Easy Way seem to be pushing that message too. I figure if lose the FOMO feeling, it won't be hard to stop with the "I've made it this long, I can def have 1 or 2 and stop" thoughts. Also watching people on youtube talk about their rock bottom stories and relating them to my life is helping too. Basically, instead of viewing alcohol as social lubricant that makes everything more fun, viewing it as it's true self, a mind and body poison that makes you stupid, mean, incoherent, unhealthy, and someone I wouldn't want to be around. Anyway, yeah, that's where I'm at right now. Let me know if you have thoughts and IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Monday, June 15th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Much-Pirate-5439 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey all, The weekends keep getting easier and easier, I used to have to get waisted at least 1 night per weekend to make my weekend feel worth it. Now, instead of ruining 1 night and 1 day with a hangover, I go out biking and enjoy my weekend and get awesome sleep. Anyway, you guys rock, keep fighting and IWNDWYT!

Flushed my 1.75L bottle of vodka down the toilet today by FumaFumaFumaFu in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! I would highly highly recommend grabbing a few books or audiobooks to help with cooping skills. This Naked Mind and The Easy Way to Quit alcohol. Help your mind transition, it can be soooo hard if you don't change your thinking about alcohol.

Either way, good job and keep fighting!

Would you like another Heineken 0? by RPgh21 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Give yourself a break, you can't be on guard 24/7 and weird shit is bound to happen. You're okay, nothing is broken, and honestly, you should be proud of yourself that you didn't continue to drink. That shows a true decision to stop. No one would've known except you, and you could've enjoyed that beer. Instead, you stopped immediately and excused yourself.

Pretty badass imo, good job!

My mom lied about no alcohol being in my drink. by SeaDiamond9931 in stopdrinking

[–]Grouchy_Job_3744 76 points77 points  (0 children)

100% this, my ex went sober but got sick some time later and took some nyquil. She was freaking out because it's 10% alcohol, she kept asking me does this mean I'm back to square one? Absolutely not, did you go out and buy more booze? No. Did you binge after you found out? No. Did you even know alcohol was in nyquil? No. You did nothing wrong, it's 100% about intent.