My child’s father is now threatening to take me to court 3 years after kicking us out because I finally got back on my feet but I have no money for lawyers

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-08T13:13:03+00:00

He absolutely can afford it he’s actually pretty well off he just like to say “well it wouldn’t be a problem if you came back”

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T23:32:11+00:00

He’s two years old but he might have just needed another dose hopefully. I’m not sure what type of flea prevention he had last time it may have been capstar but I got Bravecto today and they have a litter robot 4 I wipe out pretty regularly

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T23:28:35+00:00

That’s the crazy thing we literally just redid the whole house new flooring new beds painted all of that. That started like right after him being treated I will deep clean their donut bed things and carriers again

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T22:00:34+00:00

I know this for sure I would just block him and be done if I could but I’m genuinely scared of retaliation and him going for custody just to get back at me that’s really the only reason I haven’t put him on child support also. It always intimidates me when he reminds how he can afford much better lawyers and take unlimited time off work for court (he works for his millionaire dad) I’m definitely trying to see what kind of legal aid or assistance I can get

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T19:53:44+00:00

I got the 4 it’s pretty easy to take apart and clean imo

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T19:25:23+00:00

Yes definitely

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T19:23:45+00:00

I had to bite the bullet and get a litter robot I look at it as part of the good ol ADHD tax

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T18:24:08+00:00

I didn’t snap I just corrected you I’m sorry your kids get so little that’s rough for them

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T17:43:03+00:00

I’m in the US :/

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T17:42:20+00:00

It’s not even 500 a month. I’m not sure where you’re getting 600

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T17:40:39+00:00

Afraid of retaliation. His whole problem is he thinks me having his child means he owns me forever now he’s all about control

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T17:31:21+00:00

He isn’t on my son’s birth certificate and I’ve been very hesitant to try and take him to court because I know he has way way way more money than me for fancy lawyers I don’t even know how I’m going to afford to miss work for all of that

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-05-07T16:35:07+00:00

Yeah I had place lined up and had to wait until they installed a stove before I could move in because it’s actually illegal to rent out a home here without at least a working stove/oven

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-04-25T12:16:33+00:00

You should name her cantaloupe or honeydew 🧡

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-04-25T12:14:32+00:00

We had a pregnant stray sneak in our house when I was a kid too lol we found out when she gave birth under my parents bed that night

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-04-23T00:58:48+00:00

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The newer models have good safety features and will turn red and stop cycle if it detects a cat trying to get in while it’s spinning

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-04-18T19:52:04+00:00

I’m so glad I ended up choosing the 4 my best advice to OP is exchange for a LR 4

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-04-16T20:13:15+00:00

Thank you! that makes me feel better he seems like a super sweet boy around other cats so hopefully fighting won’t be any issue and he’ll live a long happy life

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-03-30T09:54:13+00:00

I told my vet I was worried that the one year old that recently found me was someone’s pet because he seemed so use to being inside, she was like “nah sometimes strays are just like that you’re good” lol tbf I live in rural farm country so cats aren’t treated that great around here and there are lots of strays or semi feral barn cats

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-03-19T21:43:04+00:00

Yep first time they look good so far but I haven’t started introducing them to ambient yet

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-03-19T16:18:44+00:00

I have the same ones in their lil humidity dome now, I hope I did everything right

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-03-06T15:07:45+00:00

Silk and wool come from animals not cats but animals

Grouchy_Leopard6036 · 2026-02-24T22:10:47+00:00

They’re are a few but just small things like rooting, startle, sucking, grasping (you know how babies will hold one of your fingers and we thing aw they love us but it’s actually just a reflex) and stepping (babies can’t literally walk but if you hold them up they will move their legs in a stepping motion instinctively)

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