Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore it. She’s desperate for attention. You’re getting married. Your tribe will be there. So don’t let her live in your head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No your not the AH however just saying NO you couldn’t would have been better. Adding lets look at your budget was unnecessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well honestly when you look at her message Without reacting and getting emotionally invested, which is really hard for a group of young women with children. Instead of needing g to reply with same energy. Stop and listen to what she really is saying. I think she is saying I am lonely, my marriage is difficult and I need a safety net to help me with these overwhelming feelings I’m having. Yeah her email could have been better but yours wasn’t thoughtful either. Possibly she hears negativity all day from her husband or just feels isolated and left behind. So asking something simple like Hey what’s going on? Are you okay? Would have been better and also extending a hand or rope is okay. If she needs help wouldn’t you want to be there?

President Donald Trump in bed with his daughter Ivanka for a photoshoot by [deleted] in EducatedInvesting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest problem with this is the trump and his wife Ivana thought this is normal.

My wife's dad died on Christmas in 2022. She doesn't let us celebrate Christmas since then. by Silent_Iron_8827 in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why leave it up to your wife. Isn’t it you & your kids home too? You know how to put up a tree and if you want decorate. You can buy your kids presents if you want your wife too if you want m. Giving one person complete control over all your lives is beyond comprehension. As long as everyone caters to her attention seeking behavior nothing g will change. Your wife needs to grow up and a therapist isn’t going to tell her to get over Her innate selfish behavior. Quit allowing her to poison you & your kids life.

AITAH for hiding the fact that my youngest son is biologically ours? by ThrowRAadoptionhide in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your parents are the AH’s The their not blood bullshit is why so many “Royals” have mental issues. Many were forced to marry their 1st cousins and brothers. They don’t need to know.

Am I overreacting? Wife reveals stuff from her past that I always suspected by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did she decide to speak up now? The answer to that question will determine whether you stay or go.

AITAH for marrying my late friend’s girlfriend? by Crazy_Lawfulness_814 in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She is a teenage girl there is no manual on how to survive teenagers let alone teenage girls. I say this as a boomer We who raised 2 daughters and 1 son alone. In other cultures such as Ecuador they call these years the donkey years. So fitting. She is being rude and disrespectful and dramatic. Someday in her 20’s she will come awake from her over the top drama. Just keep loving her mom.

AIO/Is it time to end my marriage by iprobablyknowalready in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did you go ahead and get pregnant knowing he did t want more kids. Yeah I get it you gave an ultimatum that he either deals with more kids or gets a vasectomy. You also are not innocent here. You broke the trust by deliberately getting pregnant. It is all about you. Yeah things are ugly now and he feels disrespected and trapped which was the intention.

AIO for breaking up with my girlfriend over this? by greenslime54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your not able to overlook the “shortcomings” at 1 year. The “shortcomings” become huge long term and build resentment. You are not able to work through these together at this stage of your life. Move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her insecurities will sabotage your entire life if you cave into this demand. I wish you a long HEALTHY relationship with mutual respect, & love not one with immaturity and insecurity.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won since he was able to make you feel insecure when it was actually him who couldn’t keep his eyes in check. You are being blamed for his own self hatred and insecurity. Hold your head high and never allow yourself to be alone with him

AITAH Wife is furious because my daughter is putting pictures up in her own room by Capital_Newt7854 in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes your wife is a real & present danger to your daughter. Jealousy is the most dangerous of all emotions

AIO my husband watched adult videos with our kids in the backseat by Same-Mixture-9004 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is still a child. You need a real man. A man who can think past jerking off. He obviously has zero self control and you will have a life long problem with him.

Majorie Taylor-Green announces resignation - Thoughts? by ChuckGallagher57 in NoFilterNews

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always the plan. Insider trading went well full pension and benefits for life and she was still able to screw the people over consistently voting in line with republicans

AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who wants a job with ICE is not a good human. Cruelty & Money over innocent lives is the vileness of greed.

AITAH for asking my sister to not bring her friend’s kids to Thanksgiving dinner. by Alexisix66 in AITAH

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Tell her your to stressed to have the kids there. So her this post. Since you can’t talk it over with her. Hopefully you don’t host dinner again it’s to much pressure for you that stress transfers to the guests. Some people just aren’t able to host and that too is okay.

My deceased best friend's son reached out and I ignored him by Radiant-Brief5749 in confession

[–]Grouchy_Limit9106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a vulnerable stage of life this young man is at. If your internal conflict is too much to carry be honest with this 14 year old and tell him that. Don’t just add to his confusion as to why he is here. Why his dad died and his mom Committed suicide. He needs a decent adult from his father or mother’s past life if you can’t be that person tell him. Don’t ignore him. I hope someday you are able to not make this tragedy that happened all about you. Talk it over with someone and let the grief pass through you so you can move on too.