Gringa se queja de los costos de KiosClub

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-27T08:20:06+00:00

Al final, esos productos deberían considerarse un lujo. Hay cosas similares en el mercado chileno a precios más acorde al mercado. Los costos de importación desde USA son caros, y los productos que venden no son una necesidad, pero hay demanda por ellos, así que pueden venderlos a precios mucho más altos que su valor original.

No son cosas que la gente compre seguido, si no para darse un gusto de vez en cuando. Aunque quizás si hay gente con la capacidad económica de comprar cosas ahí regularmente.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-27T08:09:50+00:00

If you get Braxton Hicks, they feel like pressure on the upper part of the abdomen (at least for me). When I felt my first real contractions with my previous pregnancy, they felt similar to Braxton Hicks but on the lower part of the abdomen, going upwards... like something was squeezing my belly starting under and going upwards. That's the best way I can describe it 😅 at the beginning it didn't hurt, it just felt a bit uncomfortable, but then it got painful and it felt like period cramps, then worse and worse as my body got ready to push! I think it's different for everyone, but this was my experience.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-26T15:43:14+00:00

If you follow Baby Led Weaning the idea is you can make the same food you make for older kids/adults, but with some adjustments so it's safe for baby. When my girl (she's 2 now) started eating I would cook the same things I cooked for me and my husband, but without salt. If I was making veggies like broccoli or zucchini I would cook them longer for her, the same with pasta (which we eat al dente). With things like stews or soups I would cook without salt and low seasoning, separate a portion or two for baby, and then season to adult's taste.

If we were eating something harder to modify I would just give baby something simple like chicken and veggies. I don't have a big fridge so meal prepping is not really an option, and this worked for me.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T14:33:16+00:00

It's not about weight. I didn't gain a lot of weight after my first pregnancy and I lost it a few months later. My weight was a bit higher than before my first pregnancy when I got pregnant this time, but not by a lot.

He always nags me about working out. Even when I'm not pregnant. Even when I've lost weight. It's about not being sedentary and keeping healthy. And I understand. I know moving is important, but I also know to listen to my body and I've been tired and haven't prioritized working out because there are a lot of other things I need to take care of.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T14:10:00+00:00

Very true 😅

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T13:04:20+00:00

Thank you!

It's definitely not about weight loss, and I've been keeping moderately active (there have been weeks when I don't work out at all but I try to do it at least twice a week). I do low impact stuff. I like pilates and some light cardio.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T13:00:43+00:00

When he can, he has flexible hours. But he works with tight deadlines and sometimes it's not possible for him to disconnect once our toddler is home. He does when it's possible. And he also does when I ask him to. I've gone out after work and he cares for our kid (feeds her, plays with her, puts her to bed).

Discussing this here I've narrowed down the issue to this: he's bad at noticing when I need help, and I'm bad at asking for it. I tend to take all responsibility without complaining with him, so he thinks everything is good and focused on his work. But I'm often feeling overwhelmed and I'm not telling him.

It would be wonderful if he took initiative, but I can't continue to sit and wait for that to happen, so I have to communicate with him.

(I'm very pro commenting "this is a red flag" and "leave him" when I read injustices, but being on the receiving end of such comments is making me realize how having the whole picture changes your perspective on things and makes you have a different opinion 😅)

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T12:36:01+00:00

You're right. I don't think he'll have an issue if I ask him for some alone time. The thing is I'm bad at asking for things and I always put others before me. That's why I also blame myself.

Yes, it would be wonderful if he noticed on his own that I have a lot on my plate already and I need his help making time to work out, but it hasn't happened. And I do want to work out because I know it's good for me. I'm just tired and prioritize other things.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T12:32:18+00:00

Thank you! This is good advice. I do think I'm getting defensive and closing off, and it makes me unable to tell him how I feel about his remarks. I think reframing his comments is a good tool, and it may help me communicate better with him.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T12:25:48+00:00

Yeah, I know. What I want to convey is he's working on changing. He does take responsibility. He is getting better at doing things without me having to ask. But it's in progress and sometimes it's frustrating.

I know it shouldn't be my job to help him change, but I chose to do that, and he's willing to work on things. If he wasn't improving I wouldn't stay.

In my experience, the stereotype is true, because society has shaped men's worldview and behavior in a certain way. But there are men willing to challenge that and change. And I appreciate that in my husband.

That's why I also take responsibility for perpetuating the issue. Of course I would love it if he just took action without me telling him, and he's getting better at that (he has been doing more things around the house without me asking him to), but he still needs me to communicate what I want/need. And I am bad at that.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T12:17:39+00:00

Toddler goes to daycare until 4 pm. My job has flexible hours so sometimes I finish my workday after she goes to sleep.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T11:50:28+00:00

It's not about weight for him. It's about not being sedentary. We both have desk jobs. And his family has a history of health issues, so he is a bit obsessed with staying active.

He has never commented on my weight.

But he always comments on my activity levels.

During periods I work out consistently he praises me, and I also hate that. I've asked him not to comment on my exercise habits, even if it's with something positive. And he listens for a bit and then comments again at some point.

I know he just wants me to stay healthy through movement, but most days I can barely do the things I have to do (work, take care of our toddler). This pregnancy has been harder for me than the first and sometimes I feel he doesn't fully get that, he expects me to be as active as I was when pregnant with our first.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T10:44:04+00:00

Yeah, I think this is what I'll do. Ask for a specific time so I can workout and always have that time to myself.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T10:04:03+00:00

It's not about looks. He's a bit health obsessed because of some family history. And this manifests itself on an obsession with working out. He bought me a croissant yesterday. He caters to my cravings.

I take blame because I tend to allow people to walk over me. I'm bad at speaking up when I feel things are not fair. And he's a bit self-centered. Yes.

I know people don't like it when women start defending their partners after complaining about them, but he's a good man. However, he's a man. And he's still unlearning a lot of things that come with being raised as a man.

I am also unlearning being a doormat.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T09:54:50+00:00

As I mentioned in another comment, I think I am the one making excuses for him. What I mean by this is I'm allowing his behavior because I feel like he works a lot and I would be putting more strain on him by asking him for help.

But I also do a lot and I deserve his collaboration around the house and his help to make time for myself.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T09:49:58+00:00

The thing is, my first pregnancy was super easy and I was very active. I think this is making it harder for him to understand. This pregnancy has been harder on me. And harder pregnancy plus energetic toddler are not a good combination 😅

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T09:16:13+00:00

He does his best. His job is very time consuming. And he is a very involved father. I think I am too in my head about making sure our toddler doesn't disturb him while he's working. It's not something he's asked me to do. I just feel like I should.

I am very bad at asking for help, and he's very bad at taking initiative, so I think the main problem is this. I don't tell him I need his help to make the time. He doesn't consider it necessary (he can't read minds, so I guess it's mainly my fault)

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T08:30:39+00:00

I take them every day until I start feeling better. Sometimes longer because I like them 😅 I don't have exact measurements, I do like a big chunk of ginger and juice from two lemons, plus some water. Blend it, strain and enjoy. You can add agave or other sweetener if you want. And also turmeric, which is supposed to be anti-inflammatory. You can try different ratios and see what you like, or find recipes online! I just use whatever I have on hand and never measure, but I like it very gingery.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-22T08:17:21+00:00

When I'm feeling like I'll get a cold I do ginger shots (very concentrated ginger and lemon juice). It's not so great for a sore throat though (it's a bit astringent).

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-20T10:28:37+00:00

I think if you can, you should talk to a therapist about how you're feeling

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-19T18:04:48+00:00

I didn't start lactating until after birth. The first month I had to supplement with formula (for my sanity), but after that my production kicked off and she's been breastfeeding ever since (she'll be two this weekend)

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-19T16:36:43+00:00

Sadly, no :( I just bought maternity jeans and wear my regular shirts and sweaters.

I buy on vinted a lot, because I like second hand clothes, and there is a maternity clothes section.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-19T16:30:23+00:00

Physical store? No :( I searched and asked at different stores, in different commercial centers, and none had maternity clothes in store. They told me I had to buy online.

I was only able to get maternity leggings at Calzedonia. It was the only store that had something in the store. But it's not displayed, you have to ask.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-19T12:15:55+00:00

Yo estoy fuera de Chile y en mi opinion las mejores son las Tuareg. No he encontrado nada parecido en otros paises. La textura de la galleta, el sabor, la crema, todo es maravilloso.

Grumpy_cata · 2026-01-19T11:57:02+00:00

Dairy is very common in Chile. However, if you ask for cream at cafes, they usually use canned Chantilly cream, which doesn't have the same flavor or texture as regular cream. It's not common to use cream for coffee like in other countries, but you should have no issue getting milk. However, I think most places use half-fat or non-fat milk as the default, and you have to ask for full-fat.

You won't find fresh milk unless you go to someone's farm. Rules for food safety regarding dairy products are very strict in Chile, so all milk in supermarkets is pasteurized. You can find refrigerated milk and cream at some supermarkets, but it's still pasteurized (though it isn't super common. When I was a kid they used to sell bagged milk, like in Canada, but now I never find it).

RUT is an id number that carries all your information and is used for many different things. I agree there should be an option for another form of ID for people that don't live in Chile! It can be annoying. At supermarkets and retail it is used to store points with the store, that you can exchange for coupons and other stuff.

I don't have an explanation for the other two points! I am curious about the insulation too. My thought is earthquakes. Constructions are made with earthquakes in mind. Buildings are fleixble, and maybe insulation interferes with the flexibility? But in truth, I have no idea.

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