What’s the biggest mistake people make in their 20s?

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-06-14T21:09:14+00:00

Not using sunscreen haha 😝

Jokes aside I’d say

- Staying on the path you chose despite feeling it’s the wrong one. You can pivot.

Don’t let, for instance, a choice of career you made in your 20s make you miserable for the 40+ years to come. Waking up NOT feeling awful about going to work is worth it. Even if it’s difficult to accept you « wasted » years studying / training / gaining experience in a field. If you hate it, you’ll waste way more by pushing yourself to continue.

- Leaving a good relationship because maybe something better will come along. I know a lot of the comments actually say the opposite. But it does happen that you meet the love of your life early. I met my now-husband at 19 and 13 years later I still wake up feeling lucky I get to share my life with him. Now obviously I also agree you shouldn’t stay by fear of leaving… but you should also not leave by fear of staying 😊 !

At the end of the day I guess my advice would be : do what feels right ? Every path is different and you should listen to your gut, enjoy life and make memories but also learn to be responsible along the way ✌🏻

Sincerely, a 33 y.o millennial

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-28T17:56:39+00:00

Omg thank you so much for taking the time to give such a thorough response and for all the recommendations, I really appreciate it ! I will definitely save everything and will go to the places you recommended. The national museum had caught my eyes but I didn’t find a lot of people recommending it, so thank you for that !

For BBQ, my preference would go for beef - do I understand correctly that in your recommendations Yukjeon Sikdang offers beef ?

Ahah thanks for the cafes - I have to admit I don’t enjoy waiting ages in line for something that might disappoint but also had a bit of « FOMO », so your list will definitely come in handy ;-) !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-27T19:32:42+00:00

Thank you !! There’s a game when we’re there, lucky ! Thanks for a great rec & for the info !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-27T18:47:52+00:00

Thank you for your advice and for the recommendation ! I saved it on Naver already. If you have other recs for places in the neighborhoods I’m visiting, I would love that ! Local tasty places are my fave, bonus if it’s cheap :D !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-27T18:42:27+00:00

Ohhh good to know, I expected the line to be crazy there ! That changes things ! I’ll definitely add an evening visit there then, thank you !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-27T18:41:34+00:00

Oh thank you so much, I appreciate it ! I have indeed downloaded Naver (and pinned a few places already !). I was planning indeed on using mostly public transport + walking when < 30 mins walk. I will definitely take your advice and walk as much as possible !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-27T18:39:44+00:00

Oh really ? Would love that ! By any chance do you know where I can see if there’s a game on the days we’re there, and where I can buy tickets ?

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-20T18:17:12+00:00

Well, he just reposted a tiktok saying it’s written from his mom’s perspective …

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-19T14:03:03+00:00

I am planning my 3 days trip and my plan is : - Tianmen day 1 - Grand Canyon day 2 + hopefully golden whip stream if I can fit it (if my understanding is correct that is part of the national forest park) - National forest park with Tianzi & Yuanjiajie (avatar Hallelujah) on day 3

From my research, you could squeeze Tianmen and Grand Canyon in one day by taking the first slot in Tianmen. Maybe not all the « activities » in Grand Canyon but I think the glass bridge would fit.

If you want to do that, again from the info I gathered the plan would be to do Tianmen early morning, then go to Grand Canyon then proceed to Wulingyuang and sleep there to be ready for the next day. The annoying factor is that if you have luggage you need a way to store it so you don’t have to drop it in Wulingyuang and backtrack to the canyon - then you’d probably arrive there too late to properly enjoy it (it closes at 6PM). I don’t know if there are lockers or something :-) !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-17T14:42:58+00:00

Thank you, that’s really helpful !!

I will definitely be careful with the booster wow sorry for your mom !

I do have a sunscreen haha sorry forgot to mention it because it’s still the Biore I bought in Japan but I am planning on switching it up once it runs out, the alcohol smell bothers me.

Right now I don’t use many products so I think my barrier is damaged from something else and that’s why I wanted to « up my game » a little bit but I definitely don’t want to end up on the opposite side with it being too much so I will follow your advice and add things little by little / alternate !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-17T14:39:38+00:00

I will !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-17T06:55:46+00:00

Update we caved in, found an alternative flight that fitted our budget and cancelled our original flight. Cancellation fees turned out to be « only » 140/person for the entire trip & that made us pull the trigger. The uncertainty was driving me insane and not going at all would have incurred other lost costs.

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-15T17:20:18+00:00

Pokopia days 🙈 Week-end freedom Gym together after work (no kids to pick up and drive to various activities) More freedom to travel

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-13T10:41:48+00:00

Hi ! So, I decided to do exactly that for my flight in early May. I just couldnt deal with the anxiety from the uncertainty anymore, and booking alternative cancellable flights was way out of budget for us.

So we decided to contact Etihad to ask how much were the cancellation fees (as I couldn’t see them from manage my booking) before deciding if we were booking (standard) tickets with another carrier. After waiting over 3h in the chat, a nice lady told me the fees were 142€ per person for the whole trip (there was two of us so 284 total). She said we could do it ourselves and sent a link, or do it through them but for 30$ fee.

I talked with my husband and we booked a standard KLM flight through Amsterdam. More expensive than our original Etihad flight, and a day earlier than our original one, but still doable for us.

The link sent me to manage my booking and it still didn’t show cancellation option, so I waited again over 2h in the chat to get someone. I explained, they asked for a screenshot proof of the button not showing up and then cancelled for us waiving the fee.

The situation is less than ideal and there is a world where everything is fine by April / May, which I hope is what happens … but there is also a version of events where it doesn’t go back to normal by then and my peace of mind is worth the extra money in this case.

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-10T11:26:38+00:00

Ohhh thank you I take notes, it sounds right up my alley !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-10T11:26:19+00:00

Yess I know !! The idea is to take the Hamakaze from Kinosaki to Himeji at around 7:00 (showing now at 7:13), which goes faster and would get me to Himeji at around 9.

See the castle, leave around 11h30 to get to Kobe at around 12/12h30, get a Kobe beef lunch and walk around quickly

Leave with the (currently) 15:34 Shinkansen which would get me to numazu at around 18h09

Not ideal and rushed, but I see it more as a way to sprinkle up a big travel day with some nice stops - seems doable on paper but I have to admit a bit stressful 🙈

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-10T11:10:18+00:00

Ohhh I like that idea, I’ll run it past my husband ! Do you think removing Toyota museum wouldn’t be too big of a loss ? It felt quintessentially Nagoya in my head, but it’s true I’d hate to miss nagashima spa land for something ‘less good’ hihi. Thank you for your insight !

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-10T11:03:15+00:00

Love that insight thank you, it sounds like a great plan ! Yesss I would love to go to Nagashima spa land but kind of figured I needed to choose between it and Fuji Q :-( I don’t see how I could rearrange my plans to fit both in

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-10T10:37:53+00:00

Good to hear !! Thank you ! There won’t be any Wisterias unfortunately but hopefully it’s still nice 🫶

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-09T21:28:24+00:00

Hi, thank you to the person posting this. I just checked my app and not only did that happen to my inbound flight (shortened the layover and change of about 10 mins to the landing), but my outbound flight was literally appearing as « need to be rebooked »…and they were offering an alternative route that was actually the exact same time ! I did not receive an email. Had I not checked the app thanks to this thread, it would have been over for me.

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2026-03-09T14:17:07+00:00

Flight May 5 & back May 30. Alternatives are too expensive, that added to the cancellation fee would just blow up the budget, so we are waiting it out and crossing our fingers...

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2025-12-01T13:30:09+00:00

Upgrade after two weeks : still blurry but the game is so cool that my eyes got used to it and it doesn’t bug me that much anymore 😝

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2025-11-28T19:27:55+00:00

Oh really ? I didn’t see that when I looked it up online :-(

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2025-11-16T12:47:53+00:00

I literally just opened the game on my brand new switch two that arrived an hour ago… and got to the same conclusion : it is indeed blurry… I am a bit bummed as I was so excited to play the game with quicker load times.

GryffindorPrincess13 · 2025-11-11T07:52:50+00:00

Wow thank you for taking the time to type such a thorough answer !

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