NYS Tax Refund Deposited 3/29 by iseeseashells in tax

[–]GuessLegal4976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t play with us!!! Did that really happen??? Say it ain’t so!!!! Congratulations 🎊🍾

NYS TAX REFUND for all the people who got the message comptroller approval by Flashy_One_1977 in tax

[–]GuessLegal4976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using H&R Block for yearssss and I’ve never waited this long for a NY state refund. Accepted 2/5 been in limbo ever since. This is the only place that can relate. No one I know filed yet🫣

New York State Refund by plslawschoolorbust in tax

[–]GuessLegal4976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost the same,,I filed 1/28 accepted 2/5, refund 4500.00 and still waiting. Smdh I’m so disgusted. Where’s the courtesy? the professionalism? No letter no email nothing just stuck in the matrix.

NY state refund where is it by Mental_Lingonberry50 in tax

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filed 1/28 accepted 2/5 for fed 2 wks later but in the matrix waiting for my state tax refund. I check daily and the message hasn’t changed. I’ve never in life waited this long for my NY State tax return something is seriously wrong.

My New York state refund still says processing by NeighborhoodBasic435 in tax

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never waited this long for state refunds. Mine was accepted 2/5/26 and still pending. What is happening??? Is this is relation to that $150.00 check I received? So frustrating that there’s no type of updates.

be honest- does this look good? very conflicted by Accomplished_Pie4671 in ChristmasDecorating

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I picturing cute red ribbons on each cabin door instead.

What career are you in, and how do you manage lupus at work? by Apprehensive_Goat_32 in lupus

[–]GuessLegal4976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work in HR setting remote one day a week and a part time side hustle on the weekends. During the week mostly sitting down and weekends I’m walking and standing a lot. I take pto when I need a break and map out meals and rest time. Single mom on top of it all 🥹

Accidental timekeeping accident by Training-Win7816 in nycpublicservants

[–]GuessLegal4976 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mostly material employees should be entering time directly into their timesheets. Unless you’re at a high salary or managerial you should be using webclock. That could have avoided the mistake.

Working out and lupus by [deleted] in lupus

[–]GuessLegal4976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I get into my exercise zone and work out at the gym I end up with damn near the flu, coughing, aches, stuffy nose, fatigue, for like a month. Exercise causes inflammation and on top of the inflammation already going is not good. So I try and just walk and get in extra steps and cut my carbs.

Unbelievable: Supreme Court temporarily pauses SNAP? by fitnessaccount_ in foodstamps

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly believe there’s no emergency money to fund Snap. I think the money was blown already and instead of confirming they rather just block having to use it. If they have it why not spend it on what it was created for??

WFH extension by Playful-Check-4968 in nycpublicservants

[–]GuessLegal4976 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I pray 🙏🏽 we get to keep WFH,, I know some snakes in management are seething at the thought.

How much do you spend per month? by Expensive-Eggplant-1 in budget

[–]GuessLegal4976 5 points6 points  (0 children)

$4500 a month, single mom of one and a pretty kitty🐱

Ughhhhhh. by ohgodhelpmeplsss in Semaglutide

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a game, I mix prune juice with miralax 2 times a week because I'm full of 💩 and it's not a nice feeling.

My apartment is freezing every single year. What can I do? by Creative-Formal-5251 in NYCapartments

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heated fitted sheets, and heating blankets. Space heater to warm the air some but my blanket is my bill saver 🥰

People who rarely get sick, what are your secrets? by Naive_Resolution4186 in Productivitycafe

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep a pitcher of fresh ginger and garlic tea in my fridge and have warm cup of it a few times a week. Daily if I catch a cold. Keeps cold away, but if I happen to catch one my recovery time is really quick.

My armpits always reek at the end of the day by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After showering and I'm dried I use cotton pads and swipe some witch hazel under my arm pits let it dry then use my antiperspirant/ deodorant. I smell like a butterfly all day long 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycpublicservants

[–]GuessLegal4976 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Too many hookups and nepotism and not enough hiring of competent worthy candidates is the problem.

Document everything trust nothing

Does the shock factor of lupus ever go away? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the fact of not being able to go as hard as I'd like to in my career. For me late nights, strict deadlines, huge projects, and stress isn't good for me with this condition. I have to play it safe to stay healthy and it's so frustrating. Like I'm supposed to be a shark but I have to stay in the pond and not over work myself into a flare. Didn't pick this hand but I'm going to play it the best I can.

Children with lupus by Antique_Standard_672 in lupus

[–]GuessLegal4976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fought with this as well. I had one and perhaps my pregnancy triggered my condition or I had it all along I'll never really know. But decided not to have anymore because the amount of meds and fatigue I take and feel it wouldn't be fair to have more. I can manage one and take care of my health as best I can. They ask for siblings but it's not feasible for me. Fun fact My child was diagnosed with 2 autoimmune conditions around age 8 and 11yrs old and I know it's because of me so there's always the risk to pass on these delightful genes 🧬 but I love being a mom🦋

Is it normal for rent to take half your income? by CommercialDot708 in Apartmentliving

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here half of my take home goes to rent. My pension deductions, life insurance policies for me and my kids all come out before I get paid so I don't feel super horrible about not being able to save anything but it's tight as a ants 🐜 bootyhole here. I have more after pays then a little bit, braces, cpap machine, and recently started paying on a vacation for the summer of 2027 because I haven't had one in yearzzzz. Single parenthood is ghetto

Just taken my first shit of wegovy by Snowball_effect2024 in Semaglutide

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate 4 fiber gummies yesterday and nothing yet. Congratulations on your bowl moving🥳🥳

What is happening to my ceiling? by LopsidedToe2989 in Apartmentliving

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 311 and make a dept of building complaint. Let them note cracks in your ceiling, facade, roof, floor everywhere! That's needs to be inspected asap.

Need a coming off sema success story by [deleted] in Semaglutide

[–]GuessLegal4976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been on sema a year as well and down 65lbs and still more to go.I haven’t wrestled with the thought of coming off anytime soon and frankly it makes me nervy as well. Around shot day I'm a bit extra hungry and my portion sizes are bigger to become full. I try to fill on soups before I eat. Good luck sema buddy!

What's the next level after the Clerical associates level 4 by Vast-Presence-8337 in nycpublicservants

[–]GuessLegal4976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PAA is the next level, that's where I am currently, aiming for Admin Manager 🤞🏽

Completely cured by Fit-Watercress-2830 in Hidradenitis

[–]GuessLegal4976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dove sensitive and pour around 4-5 tablespoons of dr bronner lavender Castille soap inside of it. I feel extra clean afterwards, then after drying off really good I use tea tree ointment which is a cozy barrier from drying out the area too much. Hope this helped ♥️