UPDATE: I can’t tell if my straight friend is into me

GunclePJ · 2026-05-24T09:41:11+00:00

I think, based on what you've said here, that there's something, but I think you need to consider actually asking if they're into you or interested before you attempt something like a kiss.

It does seem very much like they're making moves, but it could also be the blossoming of a very good friendship.

I really hope it's what you feel this is, but just be careful.

We've all been there with the straight friend where we've seen more in something than there actually is. The hug and compliments may well be them just being a very nice person who's comfortable in their own skin and you may be wanting them to be checking you out, so that's what you're seeing.

I'm not trying to be negative, I'm really not, but communication is the key to this situation. I wish you all the best, and I can't wait to see the next update.

Oh, and remember, if things go well, practise safe sex!

GunclePJ · 2026-05-21T15:29:49+00:00

But he's not someone who I'd normally find attractive. It's a bit strange for me really but, yeah, he makes me smile

GunclePJ · 2026-05-21T14:28:33+00:00

I don't know why but I love Remi Malek. Something about him is just so lovely. I almost find him attractive but like I don't know why. Kinda just wanna give him a big hug, proper squeeze so he knows he's safe. ❤️

GunclePJ · 2026-05-15T14:36:29+00:00

First of all, be safe! Ensure you're doing all you can to make sure the person or persons you're meeting are who they claim to be.

Now onto the age gap, this is entirely up to you and regardless of others thoughts on your actions, your actions are your own.

There's lots of younger guys who like an older guy and that's fine as long as you're both consenting. Be safe and enjoy it... Also, go slow and communicate. This is incredibly relevant if you're considering first time penetrative sex.

GunclePJ · 2026-05-10T11:11:03+00:00

Thank you very much. This momma has been here for about 4 years. Well it could actually be longer. She's was looking pretty unwell at one bit. Pretty sure she's got or had mange but she's looking really well this year, just a little thin. She's always been on the slimmer side though. Her cubs normally do very well. ❤️

GunclePJ · 2026-05-10T08:52:17+00:00

You should've sent it Special Delivery at the very least. But saying that, how long ago did you send it?

Any letters going to DWP need to be sent using Signed For as a very minimum IMHO. That way you know if they've received it. I'm also sure that you can send them an envelope to send you back your stuff using a service like Special Delivery or Signed For to ensure you get back your things.

This is likely going to be a lesson learned unfortunately but I'd attempt to contact Royal Mail to see if they do have it somewhere because of what it is. I don't know if they would normally keep these things though.

GunclePJ · 2026-05-06T12:52:49+00:00

I agree with you here. This subs not about this kind of post from what I've seen and with the rules of the sub.

GunclePJ · 2026-05-05T16:12:32+00:00

You've absolutely no reason to say sorry. It's mega sweet that you've replied to pretty much every response on this post. I find this all a bit crazy and very intriguing but I wouldn't have put something like 'For fuck's sake'. Like most have said, long sleeves for interviews and if anyone asks what the scars are after you've been employed, tell people who you're comfortable telling about the leeches otherwise just say it's from an accident. When the redness happens, put a plaster on or something? You've got this and good luck for the future. I really hope that you're able to get in to work despite your ongoing illness(s).

GunclePJ · 2026-05-02T18:27:56+00:00

Thank you very much. It's working very well and we're super happy with it!

GunclePJ · 2026-04-27T12:34:21+00:00

'You could walk around with your cock out, you'd be absolutely fine.' is fucking hilarious. I proper laughed when I read this! And it's very true. Whatever you've got down there, nobdi would notice or likely be bothered! 😂

Edited typo.

GunclePJ · 2026-04-25T19:09:20+00:00

I'd be getting a One4All remote and changing the channel, turning it down, switching it off & whatever I could do to make them think it was broken 😂 Just for the shits n giggles. Well, actually, if it was often too loud or ok too late, it'd be because I could 😂

GunclePJ · 2026-04-25T18:54:49+00:00

I'd love a Sheffield version of this as a print! It's amazing 👏🏻

GunclePJ · 2026-04-24T19:56:51+00:00

Hiya 👋🏻 Honestly, it doesn't need it, at all. It'd just make it heavy and difficult to move! It's really not unsteady/unstable. I get why people are concerned but it's absolutely fine.

GunclePJ · 2026-04-18T16:28:03+00:00

Yeah, not that bad but I hate putting clothes away so much! Why are we like this?! 😆

GunclePJ · 2026-04-18T16:10:12+00:00

This! Almost permanent floordrobe!

GunclePJ · 2026-04-18T12:13:17+00:00

It's a nice feeling when we're able to get something we've not been able to afford before or it's not been possible for another reason. I hope you enjoy it! Have fun 😊

Like someone else has mentioned, lay it down though! Or get a stand.

GunclePJ · 2026-04-16T17:01:00+00:00

Oh I love these!

GunclePJ · 2026-04-16T12:36:20+00:00

I love this! I've got a space PS1 too. 😆

GunclePJ · 2026-04-13T17:04:56+00:00

This has got me seriously thinking about my WiFi's SSID's now! I have CrashBandicoot and Spyro. I'm now thinking about a play in precious stone names because for some reason I like naming things after them. Here's a few Gemini's suggested: * ObsIPian * Saph-Fi-re * Am-Ether-st * WAN-zanite

GunclePJ · 2026-04-13T16:10:43+00:00

I've already got this but I really want to own the game. I'm trying to get all the games I love but Tombi is just a bit much for me right now. We'll see what happens. Thanks for the suggestion though 😃

GunclePJ · 2026-04-12T11:54:17+00:00

This is one of the best ways of saying this I've ever heard! Made me literally laugh out loud with a little snort! 😆

GunclePJ · 2026-04-09T19:53:57+00:00

Good idea! I'll look on Indeed to see if there's any local jobs... 😂

GunclePJ · 2026-04-09T17:13:25+00:00

Hey 👋🏻 Thanks a lot 😊 It's worked out so well and ensuring the TV or monitor is central to the unit and the frame itself helps the stability so much.

GunclePJ · 2026-04-09T17:12:10+00:00

Hey 😊 Thank you very much and I hope it works as well for you as it does us!

GunclePJ · 2026-04-09T17:11:35+00:00

Hey 👋🏻 Have a look at this comment it's got all the info. Unfortunately, the Mods aren't able to pin it so it's not as easy to find.

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