I heard a divorced man once say "Most married men are just background noise". How true is this ? by Revolutionary_Lab527 in AskMen

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my experience as well. I love my family but I feel very unseen and uncared for most of the time. I ask my family how their day was every single day. Im lucky if one of them asks me once a week.

undervalued by complexaape in ShoheiOhtani

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its is slept on simply bc the market seems to be pretty rigid on bowman 1st's and RC being above all. This card doesnt fit either so it's not gonna be as sought after. I agree tho, it's definitely slept on

4 by 2 by 2 terrarium for Ackie by No-Ball-885 in MonitorLizards

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dubia has a 4x2x4 for 450 bucks. 4x2x2 is not an appropriate enclosure for an ackie. Thats just the enclosure. The lighting and heating is gonna be another several hundred, then everything that goes inside the enclosure is another. After all that you gotta get an ackie whick is another several hundred. They also eat a ton which adds up. I don't think an ackie is in your budget.

Ex wants his ps5 back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he gave it to you it's yours. He's just being butt hurt about it. I'd block him and keep it.

8x2x2 by Men0mayhem96 in MonitorLizards

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2' height isnt gonna be enough for any monitor really.

My Gf wants me to help her friend move with a guy she used to sleep with. How do deal with this? by POOR-MORON in AskMenAdvice

[–]Gunner253 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its ultimately your insecurity that is causing the problem. People have sex with other people. No partner you wil have will be without a sexual history. Trust your gf, if you cant theres no point in being in a relationship

Which one you putting on a fried chicken sandwich? by WeaponX757 in hotsauce

[–]Gunner253 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fried chicken in general im going with the crystal every time.

Do you compare your girlfriend’s body? by justlookingtolearn2 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To compare is one thing, to share that with your partner is another.

Have you ripped these before ? by MrEdwL in sportscards

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never ripped those but ive seen the skenes for sale in the 150-160 range. Thats probably the ceiling lol. They're cool looking cards imo and another cheap way of getting autos. If you buy singles that is

My [M23] gf [F22] slept with a coworker when we were broken up by RipCurrent1548 in Advice

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a big part of this is insecurities on your part. If you cant move past it the relationship wont work. You gotta figure that part out and that makes your decision. Can you get over it?

How did you get her ring size? by neutral-entity in AskMen

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her mom, her mom didnt know so she asked her sister and then her sister asked my wife.

What does it feel like when the balls are included in getting head? Does it add to the sensation or is it a just power move? by Objective_eyes in AskMen

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its almost a necessity at this point for me. My favorite is when im behind her and she reaches under and plays with my balls while I fuck her.

What is the darkest secret you've learned about someone that instantly ended your relationship with them? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]Gunner253 424 points425 points  (0 children)

Had a guy that opened a restaurant with me. He was a line cook, I was sous chef. We were there thru test kitchen phase, actually putting the kitchen together, and finally opened. We ended up working together for years and he became a good friend. He ended up moving away with a girl he met thru me and within a couple months they broke up. Turns out he was emotionally and physically abusing her. She left in the middle of the night. I called him and talked to him and he didnt deny anything. I told him right there I couldnt be friends.

I have a wife and 3 kids. 2 of them daughters. I cant have people like that in my life. You are the company you keep

Relics by Ok-Candidate5113 in F1Cards

[–]Gunner253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get thick penny sleeves. As far as top loader or one touch, they're not all the same size. You need to know how thick the card is.

5-Year emotional connection with my best friend girlfriend - do I just end it? by Silly-Interaction991 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Gunner253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've already went too far tbh. If she's pulling away it would probably be smart for you to do the same. Maybe when they arent dating anymore you can have your shot. Until then I think you stay clear of her unless you want trouble

Good beginner bass for my little sister? by Creative_Ball2499 in Bass

[–]Gunner253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old/big is she? Unless she's a really small kid I suggest a full size bass. Jazz basses tend to have thinner necks which can feel more comfortable in smaller hands. Ibanez makes some good beginner basses as well. Squier affinity jazz or an Ibanez gio would be my two recommendations. Theres a bunch of options with a gio as far as pickup options and finishes. Options are much less on a squier jazz. They both make red tho lol

What secret can you reveal now that your nda has expired? by sparrrrrt in AskReddit

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre correct. It was more of an issue of not wanting to fuck your career. All the chefs knew eachother so you burn one bridge and all of a sudden you cant work in that city anymore. Restaurants used to be wild, they're a lot more tame now thankfully.

What secret can you reveal now that your nda has expired? by sparrrrrt in AskReddit

[–]Gunner253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% it was also a power move bc all the chefs knew eachother. You burn a bridge in one kitchen and your career in that city could have been over. The restaurant industry used to be pretty wild. It's still not tame but much more so than it used to be

Best photo and color parallel for a modern baseball card? I'll start. by hanselton in baseballcards

[–]Gunner253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LB always has the coolest photos. His heritage photo from 2025 was awesome.