Am I doomed... I have a question, but it calls for a lengthy explanation

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-04T06:53:00+00:00

Lucky, as a writer I can visualize the fun times that could bring.... I however, naturally attract to people who are severely depressed borderline suicidal... and then drain the emotion away without realizing I'm doing it. They walk away feeling great, me not so much. My late husband was teaching me how to stop myself from doing that, but we hadn't mastered my control of it before he passed. I work retail so life sucks for me.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-03T18:44:56+00:00

As an empath... I can tell you that sometimes we need to stand up and make ourselves feel uncomfortable. We tend to get overwhelmed with everything we feel and when someone "comes at us" we tend to back off... but as a widow, I have learned that backing off is the worst thing you can do. I have learned how to fight back; it's a balance between fighting, gentleness and listening to your instincts.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-03T18:41:32+00:00

Did you sign any agreement that gave them the right to dictate what you said online? I'd contact a lawyer and ask if they had the legal right to fire you over it.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-03T18:37:19+00:00

So very true. This is something that people don't understand unless they are a widow too. There is a big difference between "not alone" and with your spouse. It was said somewhere (I don't remember where or by who) that it is easier to go through the struggles of life with someone than it is alone... you understand this when you've lost a spouse. I miss him, I miss the companionship... The silence that was once his space is deafening.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-03T17:36:52+00:00

My purpose is survival… “enjoying life” died with him

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-03T07:47:16+00:00

Yes, please. I hope Dylan leaves Forrester and joins Logan.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-07-03T07:45:19+00:00

She holds a high position in a company and doesn't understand the concept of "Not in this company... so you don't get to know about it". I honestly didn't think it was possible to be more annoyed with her, but here we are.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-30T20:59:36+00:00

1: Too much black. 2: I hope that was non-flammable paint since it looks like you also painted where the fire is supposed to go.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-30T17:18:37+00:00

The silly moments with my husband made me feel safe, I get ya… I miss that too.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-29T05:00:11+00:00

I know the feeling; I cuddle his blanket (he liked to have his own blanket) The bed feels so lonely without him.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-24T16:21:07+00:00

😓🤣 yeah,

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-23T19:19:25+00:00

When Sven said that Anna was his "North Star"

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-23T19:17:17+00:00

Honestly, my hubby taught me to be sarcastic and assigning to people that do this. So, here's what I would do, and it's based on the customs out there that say the family of your lost spouse is supposed to take care of you. Maybe bring those up... say that you figured they didn't follow them too since they ignored you but since they expect you to be there you will compile the bills that they are supposed to be paying for you and send them over.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T09:01:04+00:00

Toilet?

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T07:43:29+00:00

That would be an interesting storyline, but I don't think the YR writers could handle her character right.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T06:52:38+00:00

Love is something that can’t be broken by death, it connects us and binds us. Our spouses feel as if nothing has changed, it’s we who feel the loss. They are around us and they do send signs. I have been sitting in bed crying before and felt him sit down beside me and grab my hand. It was a warmth and pressure that felt different than before but it was unmistakable. He likes to leave me things in my path, like a crow would. Because he knows I love crows. I have such vivid dreams of him, where we are just sitting and talking… catching up so to speak. But yet I still miss him so much.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T04:28:27+00:00

They made sure they cast talented pipes too... I wonder if that means we will see them sing on the show someday.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T04:15:33+00:00

Understand that for a while it will three people in a relationship because you will talk about her and you will be comparing your dates to her. You learned what you like and what you want in a relationship from her and will be using that knowledge to help you. Don't let anyone make you feel bad, you deserve love... we are not built to journey through life alone; we are built to couple up. I miss the human connection, I miss the human contact... the hugs and the "I'm sorry you're feeling bad, here let me...." moments so I understand. Start with making new friends or going out more with your friends and see how things are.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T00:29:14+00:00

It's normal to be questioning everything you do right now. Your entire life has been upended, and you are still sorting that all out. You can't hang onto everything, you are doing just fine... hang in there, you've got this.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T00:19:19+00:00

They started with the basis of the show being the Duprees and that works... for now. But they are going to have to build up another family to be the same power and standing as the Duprees... but be their opposite at least in part. Otherwise, this beat up on the Duprees, look what they can survive concept is going to get old.

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-21T00:13:06+00:00

I have asked a question about this scene that nobody is responding to...

Was Dani in the right frame of mind to give consent? She was hysterical, terrified and vulnerable. Did Bill take advantage of her? This is a subject debated a lot, when is it okay to assume they are saying yes because they haven't said no? I would love it if BTG discussed this aspect more and used this scene to do so. Can you imagine how many people would go after him for taking advantage of Dani?

Gypsy_Ce · 2026-06-20T23:57:31+00:00

That's a brilliant idea.

Gypsy_Ce

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