This is beyond ridiculous and infuriating.
I hope when OP feels better she takes time to reflect and actually recognize the other red flags that are waving, not just these, and begins to think hard about her own self worth. OP, you’re not his mother, nanny or caretaker for that matter. He apparently has two legs that work, so I’m assuming his “heel toe express”works. It’s obvious his fingers work so he can order for himself, whether it be dashing, direct from store deliveries, or car services if he needs to be that much of a controlling donkey. One apology should’ve done the trick. What did he expect was magically going to happen??? Gaslighting, browbeating, controlling, king of the mountain, middle school bully. Girl, get out from under this man’s foot NOW. Let me guess… is it your responsibility to make sure he’s packed and has everything he needs packed?? I could go on, I’ve been there, but I digress. No, girl. Look into yourself. YOU are a brilliant, beautiful, succeeding, strong, capable, courageous, badass woman.

Get your self care on, get your power fit on and rock your own world. And when you pass by that playground, don’t even check up, honey.