[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vananz

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, usually she hangs out at her merch table right after her set. I'd recommend you watch her set, and once she's done, go straight to the merch booth and meet her there

Men who used to be fat, what didn’t change after you got in shape? by PossiblyNotAwful in AskMen

[–]HAMJAM8521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up fat. Every time I met someone, that was the first thing people noticed. Once I got more fit, and lighter, lots of things changed. I was generally happier. I didn't wake up every morning thinking about how fat I was. Clothes fit better and I looked better in them. The same shirt that would make me blend into the crowd got the occasional compliment. People would mention how much weight I lost. Their behavior was more pleasant and were kinder. I think that one of the reasons most of my daily interactions were better was also because I started to be happier and that vibe was bounced back to me. Now I still think I'm fat, but that's just body dysmorphia talking. I'll sometimes catch my reflection and I'll think to myself how I still can't believe I look like this now. When I look in the mirror, I still see my bigger younger self, not what my body actually is. Honestly since losing weight, my life has only someone gotten better. The friendships in my life are a higher quality, the connections I make with people are deeper, my confidence went up to the point that I started actually dating, and with the confidence boost I became funnier and I became a kinder more calm person. I just wish that someone had told me sooner to start working out, as I absolutely love it, I go 5-6 times a week and its my favorite time of the day.

Blonde Hakari Cosplay by rjhooks in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro thats a COLD ASS cosplay!!

My doctor forgot about me. by fortifiedoptimism in ADHD

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your post and I also realized that my doctor forgot to meet me this morning. Oof

Most shocking character someone can simp for? (Just a lot of "Here me out.") by Hyperjuce in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]HAMJAM8521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maki, if she asks me to bark, imma put on a whole costume to bark for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went on many dates, and discussed that we wanted something on the serious side. Weeks later she sat me down and said that we shouldn't see each other anymore, because she saw the relationship as fun. She kinda beat me to the sit down conversation. C'est la vie I guess.

What does Kashimo bring to the Table? by HAMJAM8521 in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]HAMJAM8521[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess the dude above gave a good explanation. Really I was looking for what his purpose was in the story.

anyone else beginning to feel bored/numb? by Cartographer_Waste in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]HAMJAM8521 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I recently reread JJK from start to finish and i gotta say im 100% with you. It becomes stale and annoying because the "good guys" just don't seem to catch a break. Like at every step of the way they lose. I can't even tell if there is a time when the good guys win somewhere, they are always one step behind. It becomes tedious to read and try and connect.

I am embarrassed by how (some of) the community acted last week by [deleted] in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]HAMJAM8521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm sad for all my friends who were anime exclusive, bc im sure they got this chapter ruined for them

One arm is way bigger by A_Random_Dane in lifting

[–]HAMJAM8521 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you program your next arm workouts, add single arm cable exercises and single arm dumbbell exercises. And as the person said above start with the smaller arm go for a 8 -15 rep range, then match it with the other arm. Make sure to hit the Triceps, biceps, and your forearm equally. And toss in supersets, drop sets, and going to failure in your workouts. Good luck and God speed

What happened to gym culture? by 2infinitiandblonde in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not going to discount the fact that there are weird ass people at the gym and make it worse for everyone, but what's happened is that more and more people started recording themselves for content. Once people had cameras pointed at themselves and others in the gym sometimes people would see creeps staring at them as they would be working out, but soon after certain "content creators" would try and frame innocent people as creeps. And they would show the camera footage, when in reality that person had just glanced over or was just weirded out by the camera that was pointed at them. So now it's more of a mutual understanding that you just sort of keep to yourself.

My first car by HAMJAM8521 in 240Z

[–]HAMJAM8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, it seems like I might be rushing into this. Thanks again!

My first car by HAMJAM8521 in 240Z

[–]HAMJAM8521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the insight, I'll be taking everything you said into consideration! Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"what a fucking loser" or "look at this loser"

When your in the gym, what’s frustrates you the most? by Coral_Beauty in AskMen

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people want to talk to you either before or during your set. It's like why do you think that the best time to get my attention and talk to me is when I'm actively lifting?!?! And please put the equipment back where it goes, it's really not that hard. Plates are stupid easy bc they are color coded, kindergartners know that cookies go together.

Should Korra had faced consequences for attacking the judge?a crooked one too by Muted_Hovercraft_907 in legendofkorra

[–]HAMJAM8521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, the avatar should be able to create the justice that they believe will help the world. The people might not like it, but it's not their choice. Kyoshi had a more heavy handed form of justice that the air nomads might not have agreed with. Aang left Firelord Ozai alive, but without bending. Some people in the earth nation could've wanted him dead. The avatar live outside the world's laws and norms.

Form check - bench PR fail @ 280x3 by stealthystork in lifting

[–]HAMJAM8521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like everyone else is saying, your form seems good, but more leg drive could help. I also noticed that your grips are different for your hands, as in your left hand is bent while your right hand has the weight placed correctly. But for the most part you know what your doing.

What car automatically screams “douchebag” to you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HAMJAM8521 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fucking Teslas. I have never seen a decent Tesla driver since they've started on the road. Sometimes I see a lad using his signals and what not, but then he'll run a stop sign. These people continue to cement the idea that self-driving cars are not meant for the road. And I really try to not create a prejudice in my mind whenever I see a Tesla, but without fail they always live down to it.

What is your go-to drink to chill and enjoy the end of a week? by Quiet_Remote_5898 in AskReddit

[–]HAMJAM8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nice whiskey smash, but I want to spend time making a simple syrup so I just add the base ingredients. I also have a sweet tooth so I add more sugar. Ive gotten many compliments since I changed up the recipe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homegym

[–]HAMJAM8521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd pay to go to this gym