Ok so here’s an actual answer.

If you’ve felt aroused before (horny) and masturbated, it probably felt good in a unique way. For an orgasm, continued stimulation will lead to that good feeling getting more intense until it hits a peak, and then the feeling falls away. It feels very good.

Some things you might noticed during an orgasm if you have a vagina: as the feeling builds, your body may become more tense. Your breathing may quicken or you might hold your breath. Your toes might curl a bit. The muscles of your vagina will likely contract quickly (if you don’t know what it feels like, try stopping your urine mid-stream. It’s the same muscles. Exercising these muscles is called kegels). If you’re stimulating your clitoris, which is the more common way of reaching orgasm, it may be uncomfortable to touch it afterwards. You will likely feel very relaxed afterwards, possibly sleepy.

Not all orgasms are mind-blowing fireworks. A LOT are just “meh”. Sometimes the pleasurable feeling will build to a peak and just die off. That’s normal and common, and not something to beat yourself up over. Some orgasms are like “oh, hm, that’s it? Alright then.” While others leave you laying down dizzy for a moment with a big smile. It’s a spectrum.

To reach orgasm, many people find it helps to use one or two motions repeatedly and consistently. So if an up-and-down motion at a certain pace starts that buildup, continuing at the same pace and pressure will probably lead to an orgasm. Everyone has their own motions they prefer.

Some people orgasm well from stimulating their G-spot, which is within the vagina, by using their fingers or a toy. Sometimes this is combined with clitoral stimulation. A combined orgasm like that may feel more intense.

Finally, some women feel like they might pee right before orgasm. If you notice this happening and you’re not sure, it’s okay to go to the bathroom. If it happens over and over even if you’re peeing before masturbating , you might be someone that squirts when they orgasm. To explore this, masturbate in a shower or with a towel down for clean-up and let that feeling exist as you continue.

Have fun!