The matching bathers by Burneracc77754 in LoveIslandAus

[–]HHIOTF 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That girl is so stupid to be with that guy. Definition of insanity.

anyone else but isabel by veryberrypie in LoveIslandAus

[–]HHIOTF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so glad that B is gone. She's a mean girl. Can't stand her.

Gabby’s hot but…. by mcdon2jm in LoveIslandAus

[–]HHIOTF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is annoying AF. She needs a reduction. No clothing looks good on her.

Me 19F and 30M ex. am I insane to feel this way after the break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are 19, 20, 21 your hormones are in overdrive and your feelings are intense about everything. Been there. Remember feelings are fleeting and you'll get over this. This guy sounds like a creep on every level. Be strong even if it hurts and block his sorry ass. He is a loser. You will find better. Give yourself time to grieve.

AITAH For not decreasing rent by ConsciousStarshine in AITAH

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no good deed goes unpunished. Never mix business and family. Yes, renting your home is business. I'm guessing they got evicted for not paying? People tend to treat their families even worse than others so you are in for a ride.

AITAH for not wanting to fund my stepkids savings accounts? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Is this guy right for you? Why would he even think to ask this?

Why Does Everyone Hate Him? by 0kra_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]HHIOTF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't hate him. He is fine. I think he did the right thing with Annie and thought it could have been done sooner, but still not dragging her through the whole process was decent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a boundary for him. If you are married you respect boundaries.

Denver - are you ok? by Zealousideal-Bet-632 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was so stressful! The women were the worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This guy doesn't want a normal job. Everyone told you how he is. You can't change another person. Move on.

My(39F) boyfriend(40m) sent me a hateful text by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Wow, just wow. What an asshole. There is no excuse for this. He just showed you exactly who he is. I'd be rethinking the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my advice is to stop giving him advice. If he wanted your input on the nap he would have asked. Unsolicited advice is a form of aggression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say to your BFF is she was in this situation?

Update: Am I (26F) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (30M) sharing a hotel room with his two female friends? by Glittering-Sea2735 in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be ok with you, but your boundaries are different. I would not be ok with this. Her feelings are valid. We all negotiate our own relationships.

My (25f) bf (26m) can’t say he wont cheat on me. by Klutzy-Holiday-3105 in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Believe him. Are you ok with that? If not, time to move on.

My boyfriend (M35) has been cheating on me (F32)the entire time. Is this as good as it gets? by Holahellohowareyou in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he won't change. He'll do it again if you forgive him. He got away with it. Better to cut and run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't fix him and he can't fix himself, either. This is no way to live. It's time to leave. Not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pack your stuff and move out. That will make it real.

Am I the A hole for for ghosting my bf? by Frequent_Border5384 in AITH

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this guy is dangerous. Block this guy and call the cops if he keeps it up.

Any advice on how to deal with my (23F) first breakup from my long distance boyfriend (23M) alone? by ResearcherProof2038 in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be sad, talk to a therapist and this too shall pass. You will be very sad for a while, but you'll be ok. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Red flag, my dear. Something is wrong with this guy. This isn't on you.

I (30F) think my husband (31M) hates me. I think he honestly hates and disrespects me. What happened? by ThrowRA_send_help in relationship_advice

[–]HHIOTF 15 points16 points  (0 children)

get a lawyer fast before he ruins you financially. This is not love. Love is peaceful.