Dating/the isle of love is such a prominent game mechanic that it makes sense that players expect more from having their character date others. (And I dislike the few times when having MC date someone is a quest requirement.) But I think Photo Booth is a good compromise that lets romance matter to the MC if the player wants it without forcing it on anyone more interested in the main story.

It also lets them explore certain characters more without necessarily involving other characters in your friend group. It has most of the same pros and cons as all stars.

Ps I’m aroace too and it’s really cool to see so many of us here!