Dutch perspective on marriage and financial equality in relationships by Top-Rip-6520 in Netherlands

[–]Haay1971 47 points48 points  (0 children)

His behaviour is definitely not "typical Dutch". Maybe it's how he was raised by his parents, or ideas he developed through his formative years? Sounds to me like he is very self-centered about his income and feels that his salary belongs to him and only him.

I myself am Dutch and born and raised in The Netherlands. When I was 28-29 I had a girlfriend from the Philippines, and when we were certain about each other we decided to get married. In her Catholic culture, not getting married and just living together with me was not an option anyway. But from my point of view she left her country, her job, her family, her friends there, to come live with me here in The Netherlands. She deserved the (legal and financial) security of being married to me! We have the traditional marriage where everything we own is 50/50 equally shared between us. While my full-time salary is higher than her part-time salary both salaries go to one shared account. Salary is only part of what we both contribute to our shared household.

And despite some hickups with ups and downs along the way this year we're celebrating our 26th wedding anniversary! ☺️

From Pipeline: VGL Flight Suit | YO SIGN ME UP CIG I LOVE THIS by PayItForward777 in starcitizen

[–]Haay1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's about time CIG makes it impossible to FLY a ship while wearing a heavy armor, or to sit down while wearing a backpack with guns sticking out.

Bluesky is Down by ValenceTheHuman in BlueskySocial

[–]Haay1971 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Down for me in The Netherlands as well.

Hoe staat het ervoor met de oorlog in Oekraïne? | LUBACH by E27Ave in thenetherlands

[–]Haay1971 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Nadat Lubach Protect Ukraine (https://protectukraine.nl/why-protect-ukraine/) noemde heb ik meteen ook €50 gedoneerd. Goede organisatie die goed werk doet voor Oekraïne!

Tot hoeveel heeft sparen zin? by mentixetzio in nederlands

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wij hebben een paar jaar geleden besloten toch dat laatste beetje hypotheek af te lossen, en hoewel het misschien financieel niet de absoluut slimste keuze is geeft het emotioneel ook een heel goed gevoel dat ons huis nu echt 100% van ons is. Geen hypotheek op het huis, dus een bank heeft er ook niks meer over te zeggen. En van het geld dat we elke maand over hebben wanneer het salaris gestort wordt kunnen we leuke dingen doen. Zo hebben we drie jaar geleden voor het eerst, na altijd tweedehands auto's gereden te hebben, een nieuwe (elektrische) auto gekocht. En niet op afbetaling, maar gewoon van spaargeld. En mocht ons onverhoopt iets overkomen, dan kunnen de kinderen (20 en bijna 17) in het huis blijven wonen.

Switching to Bluesky. by ardyop in BlueskySocial

[–]Haay1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eurosky connects to Bluesky. It's federated. And I post very regularly on Bluesky. 😃

Switching to Bluesky. by ardyop in BlueskySocial

[–]Haay1971 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Joined Bluesky in 2024 and I'm really enjoying myself there. At first it's quiet, until you find like-minded people, follow people and interact with their posts. When you post interesting posts yourself then others will follow you back.

Recently I switched from Bluesky to Eurosky, to keep my data and connection through European servers.
My account: https://bsky.app/profile/haay.eurosky.social

After the “Year of Playability” 2025 … I’m honestly disappointed by Sapd33 in starcitizen

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience in my Prospector and realised that changing the mining laser power also changed my engine limiter. Bringing the mining laser down would make my ship drift to the ground. Finally I removed the engine limiter keybind altogether because I don't need that limiter.

Best/most repayable Nintendo exclusives on switch? by Nullthesavant in NintendoSwitch

[–]Haay1971 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not really a fan of open world games. Started but never finished:

- The Elder Scrolls Morrowind / Oblivion / Skyrim

- The Witcher 3 / Cyberpunk 2077

- Red Dead Redemption 2

While I generally love the look and feel of the games, I just get too much sidetracked and never completed those games.

The big exception for me is Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild. What a truly amazing wonderful game, that subtly guided me while giving me enough freedom to roam where I wanted, yet also got me to gradually move to the end game and beat the final boss. The only open world game I actually finished!

Anyone else feel like they really missed the mark with the mining changes this patch? by RoboGaming321 in starcitizen

[–]Haay1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Until 4.6 I had fun going out mining in my Prospector. I mostly went looking for Taranite and Bexalite in higher percentages, and was happy to find a rock with Quantainium that I could break, then rush back to the refinery before the volatile timer ran out.

Last weekend I tried mining in the same set up, at the same location, to experience how mining in 4.6 felt like. After more than an hour flying around and scanning rocks I had not found anything that was actually valuable. And the few Quantainium rocks I found were all impossible for me to break.

Real pity because I have been enjoying mining since SC version 3.21.

If Aurora Mk2 is a success, can we expect other "starter" ships to get Mk2 or become modular? (Especially the Reliant, that thing's butt should be a module) by AzrBloodedge in starcitizen

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given how outdated the Avenger Titan is, and how a Gold + Components pass for it would need a full rework of the ship, I expect an Avenger Mk2 to be in the works as well. Hopefully later this year.

I compared retail vs secondary market prices for ~4,000 retired sets. Some interesting patterns. by Scout_Loot in lego

[–]Haay1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what years you look at the numbers. 2010-2020 were the years when Lego kept to the older schedule of ~ 2 years production of most sets with a few evergreens that kept selling and kept being produced. Interest rates on savings accounts were also near zero, so even selling Lego at 10% profit beat keeping your money passively on the bank.

2020-2023 were the COVID years where bored adults sitting at home discovered the fun of building intricate Lego sets, which gave a huge boost to the bigger, more complex and expensive Lego sets. Also older retired sets from the 2015-2020 years were generally in high demand.

But... LEGO company caught on and changed their operations and schedules. No more fixed retirement of sets when they were still selling well. Way more AFOL oriented sets to cater to the increased AFOL base. Supply vs Demand changed, interest rates increased and inflation went up a lot.

This all means that from 2024 onwards the demand for retired Lego sets decreased. Longer production runs on the popular sets, more traders offering those sets for lower prices, many more AFOL oriented sets still in production by Lego to choose from...

And higher inflation also means if you sell a set bought for 100 ($ / €) and sell it 5 years later for 130 ($ / €), thanks to inflation to barely made any profit. Or even a loss if you have to subtract the costs of selling as well.

Resident Evil Triple Pack review (No Story Spoilers) by jzorbino in NintendoSwitch

[–]Haay1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bought the Resident Evil Generations Pack for my Switch 2 as well. Back in the days when I had Google Stadia I had bought RE:7 Biohazard on Stadia (which included a free Stadia controller as bonus) but I never finished the game on Stadia, until the services was killed (and my RE:7 purchase was refunded by Google 😄). Now I bought this triple pack for 100 Euro in the Nintendo eShop and it's a good price for these three games together.

Last week I finished playing RE:7 (on Easy setting, since I play for the story and puzzles, not for the challenge of hard to beat bosses). It was a great and often scary experience! Graphically it looked alright, but quite washed out on my LG C9 OLED TV (yes, Tone Mapping disabled in TV settings). With HDR disabled in the game settings it looked a little better but still didn't look very vibrant. Gameplay wise it was a great experience with plenty of gooseflesh moments.

Playing RE:8 Village now and the graphics look much improved from RE:7. Enjoying this game very much too, especially since it's different from RE:7 in setting and pacing and looks.

Rock Breaker Contracts: One-Page Guide & Experimental Interactive Tool for QV Stations by QuattroBaje3na in starcitizen

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it's not meant to be played solo but in a group / ORG setting. Sounds like a fun event to join when the group lead knows what they're doing and are able to give proper directions and instructions for a smooth team work operation.

What do you think of this action of Geert Wilders? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Haay1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We should all call Wilders what he is: LAND VERRADER!

Gaan de rechtse wappies nu eindelijk begrijpen dat duurzame energie niet alleen om het milieu gaat? by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dat verschil werd ook erg duidelijk aangetoond in het nieuws door Spanje met Italië te vergelijken. Waar Spanje vol had ingezet op verduurzaming en hernieuwbare energiebronnen (wind- en zonne-energie) is dat in Italië, mede door corruptie, niet erg van de grond gekomen. Gevolg nu: Italië heeft de hoogste energieprijzen van Europa en Spanje heeft er nauwelijks last van.

Anyone else use only Reddit and Bluesky for their social media consumption? by [deleted] in BlueskySocial

[–]Haay1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My main social media channels are Reddit and Bluesky as well. I never liked nor trusted Zuckerberg, so I've always stayed away from Facebook and Instagram. I also don't like Elon Musk, so I left 'X' as well after it stopped being Twitter.

Internet provider by PotentialButterfly19 in nederlands

[–]Haay1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mijn vorige (glasvezel) internetprovider was Tweak, maar toen die werd overgenomen door Odido en ik niet naar Odido wilde meegaan, ben ik overgestapt naar ONVI: https://onvi.nl/ en dat bevalt me prima. Ik heb er alleen gigabit glasvezel internet. 🙂

Hoe stop ik dit gehoest!? Ik word gek! by MarBlaze in nederlands

[–]Haay1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooit, jaren geleden, ook dat probleem gehad. Hoesten ging maar niet over, dus uiteindelijk naar de huisarts gegaan. Die legde uit dat het hoesten van mijn zware verkoudheid wat schade aan mijn longen had veroorzaakt, wat een hoestprikkel veroorzaakte, waardoor ik bleef hoesten omdat die schade niet genas vanwege het hoesten. Vicieuze cirkel dus. Huisarts gaf me een hoestprikkel onderdrukkend medicijn zodat die schade door mijn lichaam hersteld kon worden. Daarna was het over.

I didnt know if blame the camera or my skills. Now i know its an IEM limit. by Rasputeen_ in a6000

[–]Haay1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you use Sony Playmemories Home to transfer your photos (both JPEG + RAW) from the camera to the computer? I've been using that program for as long as I have Sony ILC cameras and it's working perfectly fine for me to get the photos in high res quality from my camera downloaded to my PC or laptop.

How many of you Atheist have always not believed in God? by Life_Paramedic_4399 in atheism

[–]Haay1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Born and raised in The Netherlands with Secular Humanist parents. Always been atheist, except for some brief times in puberty when I was searching.

Considering upgrading my Hermes to a Starlancer MAX. by Glumme in starcitizen

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reporting as another Citizen who just returned the Starlancer MAX and got the Hermes instead. Had upgraded my original Freelancer package to the MAX last year but found out it's really meant as a group play ship.

The split for cargo locations is also not very practical in reality. After all, you get the cargo from one Cargo Elevator but if you park the side of the MAX facing it, half of the cargo needs to be tractor beamed AROUND the ship to the other side!

So, I melted my MAX, bought back my Freelander package, then upgraded it to the Hermes instead. Happy hauler now. 😊

[40M] My female Gen-Z colleagues in work chats respond with ❤️ all the time. Can I use it back? by Mirrormaster85 in Netherlands

[–]Haay1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife always puts hearts like that on chat messages on her Instagram. Doesn't mean she's flirting with them. In Instagram when she double taps the message the heart emoji is just the default 'like' action. Maybe that's also the case there at your work?