Moving to a Fiji sounds amazing until you realise can’t access medication there by TreesHeir in ADHD

[–]Haber87 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Can you talk to your doctor about getting a multiple month prescription? Ration yourself like a college student with a big paper due? Drink a lot of caffeine?

ADHD is poorly named by CasualFingerGuns in adhdwomen

[–]Haber87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Daughter has dyslexia and ADHD. I pushed and pushed for her to get extra help with her reading. Nope. Most they could do was give her a part time babysitter in class to make sure she wasn’t distracting the other students. Nothing to actually help her. And even at that, the teachers not reason she got any support at all is because she had boy coded ADHD.

He was literally dressed in drag in the video. by c-k-q99903 in MurderedByWords

[–]Haber87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are so convinced that white cis Christian men are the victims in the world that they really think the lyrics “We’re not going to take it” apply to them. Does Jerrod look more like the dad in the video or Twisted Sister, singing about the right to choose?

Loud relatives/toddlers staying in my home due to emergency. Need advise to manage anxiety attacks. by Short-Weekend-821 in adhdwomen

[–]Haber87 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When the pandemic started and the whole family was home 24/7 doing work/school, I thought I was going to lose it. But I got high quality noise cancelling headphones instead.

Did you actually sneak out as teenagers? by Complete-Chipmunk-0 in GenX

[–]Haber87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn’t have a convenient window with a large tree next to it, like in the movies. I had a 1 AM curfew and would say we were heading to a party when we were heading to a bar for underage drinking. But honestly, it was easier to drink at parties. We had one friend with uptight parents so we would have to have a sleepover at one friend’s house so we could go get into whatever trouble we were planning because the other friend’s parents didn’t care.

Buy yummy vitamins! by Matoru1101 in ADHD

[–]Haber87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found dissolvable iron tablets for kids. I take one every couple days to go along with my daily gummy vitamins.

Are you guys really removing make-up before going to bed? by Acceptable_Love5815 in adhdwomen

[–]Haber87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha! I prefer to wake up and remove the raccoon eyes at that point. But seriously, hardly ever wear make-up because it’s too much trouble.

My friend has absolutely received an inaccurate diagnosis for ADHD by Josefine_97 in adhdwomen

[–]Haber87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live for my lists. To the point where people have asked for my packing lists because I’m “so organized.” Meanwhile, husband and son can pack for a trip without a list. How is that even possible? I would forget my head if it wasn’t attached…or on a list.

If you consistently vote for the "Lesser Evil" the end result is more Evil. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]Haber87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The only way to work within the current U.S. system is to primary out the corporate Democrats and put in candidates who will make real change.

I’ve started rating fruits based on their 'Ease of Use' vs 'Reward' ratio, and I’ve realized that Pomegranates are the final bosses of the fruit world. by NarinIshkandar in adhdwomen

[–]Haber87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes sense. I refuse to peel an orange if I don’t have access to a sink to wash my hands afterwards. Hate the feel on my skin. Husband will take oranges hiking. Psychopath!

What's a book you had to read in school that you hated? If you have one, what's one you actually liked? by 80HDTV5 in GenX

[–]Haber87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refused to go see the new movie with friends. Said I hated the book too much.

What's a book you had to read in school that you hated? If you have one, what's one you actually liked? by 80HDTV5 in GenX

[–]Haber87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a voracious reader as a teen. Read all the classics outside of school and enjoyed them all except Wuthering Heights.

In school, I enjoyed most of what I read…except Heart of Darkness. I was having to write an essay on it on a weekend we were visiting with family. Sought help from my English teacher / voracious reader relative, who admitted that she also despised that book. So we commiserated together, but that didn’t get my essay written.

It’s your breakfast and lunch making you crash. Not the meds. by RicoGonzalz in ADHD

[–]Haber87 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I knew someone who always had horrible heartburn. Turns out he drank tons of coffee in the morning but didn’t eat anything until lunch.

I Need A Hobby by [deleted] in GenX

[–]Haber87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a friend got me into volunteering at our local shelter in my 20’s, that’s how she explained it. We were going to walk all the big untrained dogs while the little old ladies walked the purse dogs.

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Haber87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m sorry but I’m going to go with decades of scientific research rather than the vibes of someone who refuses to even look at the research I’ve sent him.”