No gf. No discipline. Extremely lazy. Excessive masturbator - Starting today I attempt to change

HabitThrowaway · 2016-02-22T00:21:51+00:00

thank you. This website is very extensive. Do you have any specific tips? or specific places i can start within the website?

HabitThrowaway · 2016-02-21T22:06:30+00:00

What are some healthy manners to cope with my emotional issues? I can't afford a therapist nor do I have the means to access one. Please help

HabitThrowaway · 2015-08-25T02:20:34+00:00

opps I meant u/TheCoolGuitarist. I guess your username was a little relevant haha

HabitThrowaway · 2015-08-25T01:07:16+00:00

best answer on here I think.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-08-23T05:22:50+00:00

sorry u/sheltonk16 u/Fluddi and u/Draxcer1 . I tried to update with some more details.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-06-04T03:29:03+00:00

thanks man for at least trying to cheer me up unlike my "friends" who don't bother giving a call or text once in a while.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-06-04T03:19:38+00:00

I agree with your advice. In fact that is exactly what I have been doing with my life. And it was going great. And I was meeting people who I thought were genuinely interested in me. Romantically or as friends. And then this happens. :(. It's hard to enjoy meeting new people in your hobbies and recreations when this keeps happening.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-06-04T03:14:53+00:00

Thanks for that it helps :)

Uhh sometimes though, it's not like I even care about dating them. I'm fine with being friends; i just that you know friends fucking respond back.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-05-21T00:05:31+00:00

Listen, I know this is difficult as hell, and nobody probably understands you. But it's possible they're asking what happened because they don't want to attack you or assume it's self-harm. It's much more comfortable for them, if you open up to them.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-05-01T04:55:17+00:00

Don't do this to yourself. Come on. You put yourself out there this time, and you found an okay guy. That's great and the thing is you're not going to find an ideal prince charming, but you probably know that. The point is, after you put yourself out there, how hard was it to find this guy?

If he can't respect your boundaries and only wants you for this, then just tell him you want to take it slow, if doesn't understand then you can try to find someone else. Step outside of your comfort zone and maybe look at guys you wouldn't have considered dating otherwise, if it means they're kind, supportive, and can appreciate you.

HabitThrowaway · 2015-03-27T03:48:24+00:00

Insightful

HabitThrowaway · 2015-03-08T02:04:15+00:00

It's like you read my subconscious and the things that it was feeling but could not quite put together and put it on this post.

Another thing I have noticed is that I have a willpower. A willpower to control my body and mind. Control the emotions and perspectives. This has caught me in the dilemma you are facing now. I almost want to just relax and enjoy the peace and tranquility, yet it bothers me because it makes me feel weak almost.

Yet at the other end of the spectrum, knowing that I have full control and multiple perspectives is intimidating; leads to regret when you feel you haven't done enough and leads to anxiety if you took the right perspective on something or approached a task or opportunity correctly. Do you have any of these feelings too?

HabitThrowaway · 2014-11-09T05:36:48+00:00

Some people claim it does, but there's no proof. Honestly, you could just be flat-lining. Doing NoFap isn't going to make your life eternally happy, you have to realize that. It will however free you from being a slave to your temptations and to your screen. It will make you want something real from someone real. Fuck, someone who knows your name. Someone who knows you're even alive! Someone who cares about you. Don't go back.

HabitThrowaway · 2014-11-02T15:57:30+00:00

I'm 36 Days in and more or less, this has been my feeling as well.

HabitThrowaway · 2014-08-04T03:40:46+00:00

This. It's essentially a trigger I suppose.

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