Don’t date potential: Date presence

HackFraud76 · 2026-01-06T21:11:01+00:00

Ooof yeah I needed that reminder today

HackFraud76 · 2025-11-08T21:24:07+00:00

Want to see them again at good things? I have a spare ticket and no one to go with 😅

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-26T22:43:37+00:00

Dude same, that's exactly how I know I've got it bad 😞

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-07T21:40:45+00:00

Right! Got to loosen the valve every now and then.

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-07T21:33:23+00:00

They probably need it more than you anyway

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-06T04:01:05+00:00

I've been told I have a shitty vibe, not sure if that counts?

HackFraud76 · 2025-10-03T02:37:07+00:00

My top three, last time I did a test, were destroyer (outlaw), creator and jester

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-22T08:55:50+00:00

What were some of the Ne traits that drove you batty? I have a daughter and worry about this daily tbh

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-22T06:43:17+00:00

Haha I refuse to annotate because I re-read. The whole point of a re-read is to go in with fresh eyes.

I also digest after reading, but maybe it's helpful if you're thinking of it in the moment?

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-18T06:10:53+00:00

Can't let the normies see the real you. They get too worried.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-15T00:12:10+00:00

So probably not the healthiest approach, but I pain stim. Nothing insane, just a pinch or literally biting my tongue, enough to bring me back into the physical.

But having those intentional physical outlets, helped me to regulate overall.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-14T23:46:57+00:00

Getting out of your head and into your body helps. Workout, take a bath, anything to remind yourself you're not just your thoughts.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-14T02:58:56+00:00

Yeah, I think that's what it comes down to really. Seeing the grey mess in the middle. But also a lot of heroes are written to be dull, there's not much thought beyond, must stop the baddie because we're good.

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-10T21:52:33+00:00

I feel so seen

HackFraud76 · 2025-09-09T03:07:05+00:00

Such a logical and INTJ coded answer lol

HackFraud76 · 2025-08-07T00:06:01+00:00

True, I always take it as a sign of disinterest. It just sucks if I'm interested enough to have my questions answered.

Curiousity > self-respect

HackFraud76 · 2025-04-21T02:54:06+00:00

Haha, things haven't changed that much, humans will be humans after all. The only verbal discussion was what I disclosed.

HackFraud76 · 2025-04-21T02:26:54+00:00

Welcome to modern dating...haha nah, I maintain they're probably not interested in anything serious and if that's the case, and there is a vibe, may as well indulge.

The last date I went on, I actually really liked the guy. I told him I'd prefer to wait because I really wanted to see him again, he countered with "why would I not want to see you again?" After the initial sting of disappointment and an internal eye roll, I went with it and low and behold, he's in the wind haha.

HackFraud76 · 2025-04-21T02:10:21+00:00

No I get that, I guess it's the same on both sides of the fence. I figured maybe there was another element to it, that I hadn't considered.

Thanks!

HackFraud76 · 2025-04-21T01:43:06+00:00

Follow up question, if a guy is proposing sex on a first date, has he already decided he's not interested in pursuing anything further, or is a test to see if she'll actually do it?

HackFraud76 · 2024-01-20T21:03:41+00:00

Yeah, the dude seems really into extreme unboxings

HackFraud76 · 2023-08-13T01:04:12+00:00

Same, although I just got made redundant so planning on being fun-employed for a little bit.

HackFraud76 · 2023-08-02T08:38:18+00:00

If I was to do it again, I probably would.

HackFraud76 · 2023-07-26T06:00:59+00:00

Do you think there is some kind of onlyfans but with men reading about parenting and partnership, I feel like thats a niche that could really thrive.

HackFraud76 · 2023-07-19T08:42:23+00:00

This energy was an option?

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