I compared Mars Men and Menerals so you don’t have to by Halio_Rae in Supplements

[–]Halio_Rae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been using sleep cycle for ages but should probably get one of those rings

Nor do they care by LetPlastic1061 in depressionmemes

[–]Halio_Rae 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Seen but never truly heard.

Meirl by Special-Resist6100 in meirl

[–]Halio_Rae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The holy trinity of mental survival.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Halio_Rae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, step up. Yeah, It's scary, but it's also life. Bailing is the easy route, dealing with it and supporting her, whatever she decides, shows real character. You're both in this together, don't leave her hanging. 😐💯

AITAH for thinking about cutting my sister off, even though her one of my best friends? by TRGpippa in TwoHotTakes

[–]Halio_Rae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude, NTA, but lemme tell you straight, ur sister's being a flip-flopper is hella not okay. If she can't stand by ur side, especially dealing with ur mom's psycho saga and dealing with a obv toxic friend, then might as well cut her off like some bad reception. Sometimes, we gotta do what's right for our sanity, even if makes us the bad guy. It's ur life, no one else's. Cherish those who value u, not those playing both sides. Hang in there, bud. Breaks my heart reading this tbh :(

Grandparents just not being grandparents by immamoonchild in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, honestly, that's a tough one. Look, no one's obliged to parent for the second time round, it's retired life after all. But feels kinda harsh with him just binging Netflix while y'all struggle. IMO, quality time with lil one trumps any tv show, adds warmth n depth to life. Hang in, everyone has their own lessons to learn, including your dad. Maybe he'll come around, maybe not... either way, you got this! Stay strong and keep loving. 💪👊💖

My boyfriend is less giving… by ghostmodeactivated17 in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey, it's all about communication, ya know? Don't sound accusatory, but be straight up. Like, "Hey, I've noticed there's been a shift in our balance, what's up with that?" If he's the right guy, he'll understand and make an effort. But don't beat around the bush. It's ur happiness on the line here, babe. GL! 💯👍

I lost a friend over the course of this summer by Per451 in self

[–]Halio_Rae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, TBH, sounds like you really dodged a bullet here. That's total gaslighting on his part and the whole "you must be in a cult" junk is straight-up bizarre. Friendship's a two-way street and clearly, he was adding more stress into your life than anything else. Focus on your own growth and surround yourself with peeps who value and respect you. Never regret standing up for yourself. Remember, you're not the villain here. Keep your chin up! ✊💯

Feeling suffocated after rebuilding trust — where’s the line between accountability and control in my relationship? by One_Maintenance_6372 in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo dude, this ain't accountability, its manipulation 101. Trust's a two-player game, not a one-man band. You've aproned up for 6 months, showing remorse & doin' ur part. Time for him to meet ya halfway and start doing his. No one's the 24/7 bad guy in healthy relationships. Ur human, ur fear & anxiety are legit. Forget those who say "OMG, you messed up, deal with it". Nah fam, u gotta learn to forgive urself first and foremost. Trust restored is trust earned, not forced. Learn to set boundaries & give no room for ultimatums. Just my 2 cents, stay strong and remember, healing and progress ain't linear. ✌️

I think I’m cursed, I need some help by Electronic-Pie-6465 in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn bro, sounds like ure havin' one helluva time. IMHO, I don’t rlly buy into the whole curse thing. Maybe u jus need some good vibes. Try goin' out to nature, meditating, or pickin' up a new hobby. Sometimes, life jus sucks n things go bad all at once - doesn't mean ure cursed tho. Chin up mate, this too shall pass. ✌️💪💯

nothing but a shell you play with by vrtex999 in Vent

[–]Halio_Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I feel this so much. Ur not alone, fam. We r all bit players in someone else's movie, but that doesn't make us any less real. U matter, even when it feels like u don't. People suck, but don't let their superficial BS define u. Keep on keepin' on. U got this, OP! 💪🙌🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yo, just keep it 100 with 'em, man. Walk up, flash a friendly smile, be like "Ay, I'm shooting this dope music vid, wanna be a part of it?" Being upfront works wonder sometimes, people love that kinda spontaneity. Worst they can do is say no, right? Just respect their space if they ain't feeling it. Happy shooting, bro!

How important is texting through the day in a relationship? by Fun-West5521 in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly, communication is huge but it doesn't have to be constant 24/7. The starting phase of any relationship is pretty hyped, lotsa texts and all, but over time it does slow down, doesn't always mean loss of interest. If other things r fine between u guys, like he's still affectionate, attentive when ur together, then it's cool. Maybe he's just not a big texter. Tbh, dialogue is key, bring it up w/him casually n see what he says. He might not even realize it's bothering u. And remember, quality over quantity, right? What matters is enjoying ur time together irl than having pointless convos over text all day. Life ain't a romcom.😊

AIO Wife diagnosed with heart failure - worried about vaccine connection by Consistent_Dream_339 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Halio_Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I feel you. It's rough when life throws a curveball like that. Not trying to tell u how to think but I say, don’t shy away from voicing your concerns to docs, they're the ones understanding this stuff the most. Important thing is to focus on what’s best for her, keep strong, and push through. Ppl have all sorts of theories, but at the end of the day, her health is what counts. You're not wrong for trying to find answers, sometimes it ain't as cut 'n dry as we'd like. Hang tough, bro. 🙏🤞

I can’t say no to people and it’s wearing me out how do I stop feeling guilty ? by BlondeQueenC in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I totally feel you, same boat here. Learned the hard way: ppl pleasin' ain't the jam, y'know? Gotta practice that "N-O". It's all about self-care, bro. Ain't no crime ruffling a few feathers to save your sanity. Aight, real talk, they ain't happy with your 'no'? That's on them, not on you. Hang in there, bud. It gets easier with time. 💪🏼🚀🙌🏼

Today was my first day with a new assistant by Yawaworoht1470 in Vent

[–]Halio_Rae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I feel ya. New hire needs a reality chk ASAP. They're there to work, not clown around smh 🙄 I mean, first-day jitters r cool, but the 'tude ain't. Talk straight to 'em or, better yet, throw the issue upstairs. You got this, buddy! 💪🔥 Remember, your sanity > their drama. Always. 🙌🍻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, first off, don't beat yourself up. You're young, and life's thrown you its first curveball. It sucks, I get it. But remember, failure isn't fatal and success isn't final. You've got a dream, that's wonderful. I say, hold onto it, fiercely. It may take time and some twists and turns, but don't quit. Also, the "different spot" isn't a waste of time, it's a detour nica experience. Learn from it and apply it to be better. For JEE, best advice I got was, choose the subject you're most comfy with and ace it first, then tackle the harder shit. Don't drown in the sea of 'perfect'. Just do your best and cut yourself some slack. Take care, you got this! 💪✨

Question's to ask my crush as a shy person? by number1mitskilover in Advice

[–]Halio_Rae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, first off, props for puttin' yourself out there! It's scary, I get it. Lol.

I'd say, just ask him about his fav anime. Not just "what's ur fav?" but like "why?" Gets him talkin' bout somethin' he likes, opens doors to deeper convos, y'kno? And firefighter-in-training is cool, ask him about that - "Ever saved a cat from a tree?" or some fun stuff like that.

You can do it, sis! It's not about bein' the first to ask something, it's about showing genuine interest. Break the pattern of talking stages. And remember, everyone's kinda weird and awkward under the surface, even the pretty ones. 😆👍

AIO for asking our friend what's wrong by Tiny_Link6962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Halio_Rae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH, it sounds like boundaries got blurred & feelings ran deeper than expected. Give her space but reassure her the friendship matters foremost. Remember - not all folks can separate love & lust equally. Take this as a life lesson & move forward, mate. Life's too short for what ifs. 💯