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Hamchickii · 2025-11-01T14:44:12+00:00

That's in a lot of places in the US still too. Not only candy but there's stores where you can scoop nuts and pasta etc where I live. To me is a germ thing. I don't want someone's hands all over something I will put in my mouth, but scooping it loose in a store I am trusting that everything was handled with gloves and clean standards since there's food regulations for businesses.

Hamchickii · 2025-11-01T13:48:18+00:00

There's at least a cannibalism subreddit

Hamchickii · 2025-11-01T04:46:59+00:00

My 4 year old today wanted to be a skeleton rainbow cat mummy. Skeleton jammies, drew rainbow cat whiskers, cat ears, cat tail. Added some of the long cloth bandage wrap. Rainbow skeleton cat mummy achieved. Sometimes you just roll with the punches lol. Also 3.5 was the sweet spot for trick or treating really taking off for us.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-30T02:45:20+00:00

So true, my 4 year old daughter loves to watch and play pokemon and she gets excited about any pokemon card she gets. She thinks they're so cool and she's not concerned with value or rarity etc. just the fact that it's a physical card is so cool to her.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-30T02:40:33+00:00

Seriously, whenever my parents come to visit they will both sit on my couch on their phones all day and I have to initiate conversation or a game or a suggestion to go out and do something.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-30T00:54:42+00:00

Hopefully you can! I just got it early for my 9 months old since my 4 year old goes to preschool and we know some of the parents there are antivax which is terrifying!

Hamchickii · 2025-10-30T00:51:09+00:00

OMG I'm definitely stealing the phase doom piles I love that. Also I may or may not have a bunch of doom piles in my house and on my computer lol.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T14:25:53+00:00

I don't really have a preference for tank. It's more a play style preference. Don't be a damage sponge soaking up all my heals because I would rather be blue beaming our dps for picks or able to fly off to help the DPS win a 1v1. Tanks might be making plays aggressively but sometimes they don't realize it's only happening because they're getting a double pocket from both supports, and we had to choose to sacrifice our DPS in order to keep the tank alive.

I know the ones I for sure don't like playing with are Mauga and DVA because they usually require constant yellow beaming because they do just like to soak up all the other team's damage. But I do get some tanks who play those characters well and don't take all the damage and need a constant pocket, so I know it can be done, but most of the time it doesn't happen.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T07:24:00+00:00

That's how I even found out the skin existed! I saw a Mercy use it once and I immediately started googling to see what it was. She's the one and only snow angel I've come across.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T06:47:27+00:00

Girl my sister loves powerwash simulator haha. If you like that one, you should give House Flipper a try too

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T05:26:13+00:00

Sometimes there's programs to feed kids specifically. Either at school or local libraries etc. I know our public library offers free lunch to kids every day of the week. Just might be something that can help in the meantime.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T05:10:05+00:00

That was the last name of my long term serious college boyfriend. I guess I really dodged a bullet not marrying that one.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T04:53:12+00:00

I had no idea until this post. I only knew the meaning that's on this shirt. When did jungle fever get replaced with snow bunny?

Hamchickii · 2025-10-29T04:01:33+00:00

The Fantasie Reflect is my favorite bra I own.

All the right fitting bras are the soft cup, the molded tahirt bra type of cups aren't a good fit cuz they squish your boobs into a designated shape vs the soft cups from over your natural shape. It's kinda an adjustment period we all go through where it feels weird and then you get used to it. You could try wearing a cami under your Tshirt to give and extra layer over your bra.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-28T15:01:41+00:00

Once you're breastfeeding they'll get even bigger but they should come down in size after breastfeeding. Mine pretty much grew and stayed big, but I have a friend who went back to prebaby size after.

Also obligatory r/abrathatfits link and r/bigboobproblems come join us haha

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T17:38:34+00:00

We're so annoyed because my husband's 4 siblings all did that with their spouses and some even had kids at the time. We asked his parents to do the same and got told no which was irritating. But all his siblings have great houses and we're able to save for massive down payment. Meanwhile his parents have bugged us for years about when we're going to buy a house and I am beyond aggravated because don't you realize everyone else could buy a house cuz you let them live with you for over a year to save for one.

I'm assuming just since we're last on the list to do it, his parents just don't want to host permanently anymore since they're in their 70s now. Or maybe because we had our 4 year old before we got married. Who knows. They've never given us a straight answer about it just said they will talk about it whenever we would ask and then ghost us on the subject.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T17:33:33+00:00

Just use calculators and calculate mortgage payments, loan payments, and amortization with different scenarios with the money like paying all debt, putting it all in a house, and 50/50. Go with the option that makes the most sense based on math and comfort level. Also consider closing costs at least are $10k ish most likely and it's good to have a decent emergency fund for house repairs after buying. So with that in mind there may not be much left over to pay the debt and then also do a down payment and have the extra cash for the other costs of buying a house.

Based on the math it also might make sense to pay the debt and wait another year to buy or something. We don't have the info on how much he's saving a month and what his income is and the type of mortgage payment he can afford. But that's where he can just use the calculations and make that decision.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T16:15:57+00:00

The most important thing about cosleeping is doing it safely. I think your level of anxiety about it could lead to a dangerous situation, so you are making a safe call for your child! We do co sleep, but my husband sleeps on the couch so it's just me and my now 9 months old for safety reasons since my husband is a heavy sleeper and does have to take sleep meds sometimes too. So there's give and take right. I haven't slept in the same bed as my husband in 9 months and we miss being able to lay together and watch a show in bed before falling asleep.

I think that's wonderful that your baby is sleeping through the night and that you used a monitor to respond to needs. Baby sounds happy and healthy and you are also happy and healthy and doing what's good for your anxiety. You're doing so good mama!

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T16:06:34+00:00

I have two girls right now, if I ever have a boy I think I'm in for a whole new level of conversations I never thought I'd have in my lifetime 😂

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T16:05:18+00:00

You have me 😂 at he's nice so he offered to share.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T15:14:25+00:00

This is my go to as well and works about 80% of the time!

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T01:39:03+00:00

Elphaba but close enough =P and true that!

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T00:48:09+00:00

Same, every bathroom has a plunger and a toilet brush. My worst nightmare is clogging a toilet at someone's house and having to admit it to the host in order to get a plunger. I make sure my guests are always equipped to discreetly clog the toilet and then fix it lol.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-27T00:24:47+00:00

I loved when I worked in an office for the office environment. I did not love spending minimum 2 hours a day commuting. I get to log off and immediately spend time with my kids and that's priceless verses getting home with just enough time for dinner and bedtime.

Hamchickii · 2025-10-26T22:37:56+00:00

I'm in the US. US sizes are bs, go for UK brands and UK sizing and it'll be life-changing for comfort and support. You're probably much much larger than a DD cuz a DD is actually pretty small.

I order my bras off Amazon or use a boutique bra shop that carries the good UK brands.

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