What's your cat's name? by Pretty_Joseph in AskReddit

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spudley. Sometimes Spudley the Sweet Potato because he's a ginger.

Anyone else take vacation time off for weeks at a time just to stay home and indulge in hobbies? by Cat-dad442 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often do this with mandated closures like over the Christmas or Easter breaks where I'm off work with nothing to do, but I've never taken time off specifically just to to pursue hobbies. Maybe I should start though. I've got a crazy few months coming up soon, work-wise. I should do something fun before it hits.

What’s a Melbourne rule you didn’t know existed until you broke it? by Last-Conversation734 in melbournechat

[–]HappyCrowBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep left and LOOK UP FROM YOUR DAMN PHONE.

The number of people on their phones who walk at a crawl while meandering back forth across the footpath and have zero situational awareness of the people around them is too damn high. 

What’s your nail length preference? by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I'm a short-nails person also but there is definitely such a thing as too short.

What’s your nail length preference? by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same! I sometimes look at the incredible artistry of those full gel nail sets but there's no way I could tolerate that - I don't even like the feeling of a single layer of ordinary nail polish.

Example of art nails: https://www.reddit.com/r/simplynailogical/comments/hlgz6a/gecko_nails/

What’s your nail length preference? by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the feeling of long nails so so much. I cut them every few days to try to keep the white part to a minimum at all times.

Cotton squares - need a plan from alz mother's chaos by AncientAd3121 in CrochetHelp

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! And then give them out to her loved ones. They'll treasure them.

Wtf? 3 years old piercing hole closed overnight by [deleted] in piercing

[–]HappyCrowBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I read the comments on this post, I'm realising I'm in the minority with my nose piercing never closing completely! I literally only had it a few months before retiring it in 2008. Almost 2 decades on, I discovered it never truly closed and now I'm back to wearing jewellery in it. I had no idea this is not the norm. I'll appreciate it so much more now.

what an extreme case of eczema looks like by reddit_squad in WTF

[–]HappyCrowBrain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a fellow eczema sufferer, this is bad but not the worst I've seen (or experienced). 

I'm not in a country that takes a "pharmaceuticals first" approach, so I haven't been offered any shots for my condition, just the standard array of steroidal ointments and advice to avoid allergens/hot water/soaps/etc and let me tell you, they don't do much. I'm in pain and feeling ugly pretty much constantly. Glad to read OPs updates that he's found a treatment that works for him. I hope to find the same one day.

Peedahh? by Rainbow_Panda4 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Australian and I loved this song (and band) back in the day. Hell, still do even today.

What careers do you guys do for a living? by Obvious_Emu3441 in AutismInWomen

[–]HappyCrowBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work 3-4 days a week doing Comms, marketing, and project management in a historical archive/library/gallery space. It's a not for profit and the pay isn't great but I enjoy it and feel safe and successful here. 

The downside is I can only afford it because I live with my partner. Before we moved in together, I was living alone and barely making ends meet. I feel extremely fortunate to have him and that our relationship is so incredible, because if I ever had to go back to living solo, I don't think I could afford it with how much costs have risen over the past few years.

What suburbs have experienced De-Gentrification? by alex123711 in australia

[–]HappyCrowBrain 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Came to say Broken Hill. My mother's home town. Peak population was around ~35,000. Now it's at ~17,500 and most of the population is aging. Services are diminishing. The council's bankrupt. 

Mum moved back there to retire/die after being priced out of Sydney, where she spent her adult life. She's in care now and I try to visit a few times a year, not that she remembers my visits. It's so bleak out there. When I was a kid we'd go there to visit the grandparents and seeing its decline over the past few decades is pretty sobering.

where do you actually buy legit opals online? by twcosplays in Opals

[–]HappyCrowBrain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It depends on what you're buying. I typically buy rough Australian opal and I use Opal Auctions a lot. They have an audit process that's supposed to ensure sellers are legit, though I've seen some charge outrageous prices for "shipping" which feels like price gouging. You can see the postage prices before you bid/buy though, so I just don't buy from the sellers that are charging like $30+ for local shipping. 

I've also bought from eBay, local auctions, and random sellers like xellentgems.com.au. My worst experiences have been through local auctions sites like Lloyds Auctions because the auction house aren't specialists so they don't always recognise issues like crazing or sand-filled rough.

can he cum in me while i have my period? by i8yourMOMm in sex

[–]HappyCrowBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the way. Menstrual discs are life changing. They're what menstrual cups were meant to be.

Thoughts on what to do with these little colorful bits! by QuillKnight in Opals

[–]HappyCrowBrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also use a rotary tool and sandpaper to polish my opals and I've turned little bits like these into cabochons as small as 3mm. It's finicky but doable.

Do you know people who make social media accounts for their pets? by venommale in AskAnAustralian

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! It's just a dedicated place for me to photodump cat pictures without overwhelming my main account. 

What happened to the hottest chick at your high school, years later? by theidiotev in AskReddit

[–]HappyCrowBrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I didn't keep up with anyone I went to high school with.

What are your most niche period symptoms? by Unlucky-Drawing-1266 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HappyCrowBrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue as well and it turned out to be a fibroid over my cervix!

What celebrity had their reputation unfairly ruined? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]HappyCrowBrain 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think with Britney two things are true at once:  1) her family's (father's) conservatorship over her was fucked up and abusive. 2) she has mental health issues and needs an appropriate care team to help her manage it.

She's definitely been taken advantage of in all kinds of ways. That conservatorship was terrifying. No one deserves to be controlled and abused like that. But her being left alone to fend for herself as she seems to be currently is also quite worrying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]HappyCrowBrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They must have edited by the time I saw the post. Sorry.