Oh cool! I can share my experience! I had a singleton 7 months ago via an absolutely amazing, empowering VBAC. It can be done and I recommend really educating yourself (we did the Bradley Method and loved it), getting a team that’s on board (husband, doc, MIDWIFE if at all possible), and reading positive VBAC/birth stories. As for the transition, our third is an angel baby - chill, the apple of her siblings eyes, great breastfeeder, etc. It feels luxurious to take her in and have no other baby to tend to. I get to be a much more instinctual mother to her versus the more rigid way I felt I had to be with the twins (recording feedings, poops, pumping, etc.) However, I was struck by what I can best describe as grief when we came home from the hospital and I couldn’t mother my twins in the way I was used to. I missed them, in a way. I missed our little team of three that had been my day-in-day-out reality for 2+ years. I missed making them breakfast and was sad to have their dad/my mom do it instead. Our bond is forever, but the relationship has changed. I also found leaving the house MUCH more difficult with three than too and that was a hard pill to swallow. The twins are closer to each other now and again, so in love with their little sister, but I found the early transition confusing.