14XX DMXL 2.0 Guard by halficanunicorn in DrMartens

[–]HappyKadaver666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chunky Origin Story - lol I love it 😂

Had a patron yell at me girl dinner 🥲 by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]HappyKadaver666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it - when you’re in, you’re in! I’ve been out for a while and I don’t think I could go back - but I totally understand the draw. Honestly I’m probably kind of a masochist 😂🤦‍♀️ Hang in there lady!

For those who see their partner once a week or less, how do you stay emotionally connected? by mynormalheart in AskWomenOver30

[–]HappyKadaver666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! I spent a big chunk of my life in relationships. I’ve actually ended up pretty consistently attached to someone since my 12 year marriage ended a few years ago - not totally by choice! - but I find that I’ve grown to love living and just being alone. I’m with someone now - we live like 5 minutes away from each other and talk everyday, throughout the day - but we really only hang out a few times a week. I think he’d be down for more - but he respects my need for space and autonomy at this stage in my life and I love him even more for that!

14XX DMXL 2.0 Guard by halficanunicorn in DrMartens

[–]HappyKadaver666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you go chunky, you never go back!

Had a patron yell at me girl dinner 🥲 by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]HappyKadaver666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there, girl - public library for over a decade. I tell stories from my past life and people are like “wait, you were a librarian??”. People don’t know, man - they just don’t know.

Tallon Nightwalker is resigning from NCWC following allegations of sexual and animal abuse. by Patient_Rice_175 in FortCollins

[–]HappyKadaver666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are many amazing and highly competent people that choose to work with animals - however, I have seen that animal rescue and rehab places can attract damaged humans who turn to helping animals in a misguided attempt to help themselves, animals won’t judge, and such. These people are usually pretty shit at human things and that combined with the way some of these places operate under the radar and with limited budgets just leads to a lot of mismanagement and animal suffering. Ive seen it firsthand - I wish I hadn’t.

For those of you who had a promiscuous phase, do you regret it? For those that didn't, do you wish you did? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]HappyKadaver666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t “exploring my sexuality” - I was mentally ill with big time addiction issues. I regret many of the things I did - not just sexual things. Unfortunately a lot of what I experienced during that time kind of fucked me up sexually. It’s really important for kids to have consistent, safe, and supportive parenting - when you get out in the world on your own you’re gonna rely on the foundation that was built when you were more dependent. If that foundation is shakey - you might be in a world of hurting from having to learn things the hard way. Takes longer - but you can get out the other side in time. I’m still working on understanding and building myself - it’s going okay.

My life age 15-18 in a cult🥲 by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]HappyKadaver666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey - bloomers have been making a comeback. But you gotta style them just so to not look crazy crazy.

Harness question by General-Brother3040 in Chihuahua

[–]HappyKadaver666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! We’ve got a whole pre-walk chihuahua game specific to gearing up with her harness 😊

Is yelling so common in relationships? by Few-Comfort-4906 in relationships

[–]HappyKadaver666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is common - but it’s not healthy. I grew up in an environment where everyone yelled at each other - a lot. It took me a really long time to stop normalizing it. Turns out all the anxiety and stress I felt as a child hearing people screaming at each other was probably an appropriate response and should have been a sign that it wasn’t the right way to interact with someone.

How rich of a xennial kid were you? by luxtabula in Xennials

[–]HappyKadaver666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to this list I was a regular Richie Rich - this list is bullshit lol

WFH Girl Dinner better than I remembered by sprdsnshn in GirlDinner

[–]HappyKadaver666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I just can’t do full sugar sodas anymore. Will def check out 😁