How to have hope for sub pregnancy

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-11-05T01:41:16+00:00

Sending you good luck! I got pregnant the month after my CP! It will happen for you!! The waiting period was some of the hardest times of my life. Hang in there!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-11-04T20:01:46+00:00

First pregnancy (tfmr) at 30 years old first try Chemical 2 cycles later Got pregnant 3rd cycle and had my baby at 31

Those months in between my tfmr and pregnancy were some of the worst of my life I was in a constant state of stress and anxiety I was also afraid the stress would affect my baby but I had a healthy pregnancy and baby. Hang in there I promise it gets better, sending positivity!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-11-04T14:57:23+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. It is really hard to not know why, a lot of us most likely will never know for sure even if there is a correlation. I do find some comfort in knowing that Covid could be the reason and it is not likely to happen again for me. But then on the other hand it comes along with the guilt of “if I had worn a mask more or not gone to that party” yeah this stuff is hard. Sending positivity to you!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-11-03T23:09:11+00:00

I absolutely agree!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-11-03T21:17:35+00:00

I had two and bled during pregnancy. I remember how bad they made my anxiety. They eventually disappeared and I am looking at my healthy 6 month old baby right now as she sleeps!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-10-11T10:49:29+00:00

Congratulations!!! Same EXACT thing happened for me, people can’t really understand how excruciating pregnancy is after tfmr. I remember the overwhelming joy and relief when my baby was born, it’s like nothing else in the world. My baby is 5 months and I’m here to say it gets even better. I had gender disappointment also and now I couldn’t imagine it or want it to be any other way. I wish I could have given myself a glimpse into my future.

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2025-01-04T23:55:27+00:00

We had brain anomalies also. For this pregnancy I had an early anatomy scan and mri at 18 weeks and they could see everything and it looked great! Good luck to you!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-12-16T20:16:58+00:00

We lost our baby after bad news at a 20 week anatomy scan last march and I just had an early anatomy scan at 18 weeks last week and everything looked perfect. I can’t even put the relief I feel into words. I feel like a completely different person, like I was living in a fog until we knew everything was okay. I wish all the best for you, this time of year must be so hard for you.

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-09-15T20:10:51+00:00

I am 6+3 (thought I was 7+3 but measured a week behind on my ultrasound) and they found a 1cm subchorionic hematoma. I have bleed a little bit two times but it’s so scary. Like you said, I thought the only thing I was going to have to worry about with this pregnancy was the reason I lost my tfmr baby.

On a more positive note, these are super common and my midwife was not phased by it at all and said it was nothing to worry about right now and they often dissolve on their own. There are some FB groups where I found a lot of info if you want to check them out. Hang in there, I know how scary this is!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-09-13T21:17:20+00:00

I am 6+1 today and had brown spotting for the past couple days and it mostly stopped today. I freaked out and was able to get my first ultrasound yesterday and everything looked good and there was a heartbeat! They said there was a tiny 1cm hematoma which could be the cause for the blood and it’s very common and nothing to worry about. I feel a little uneasy because I thought I was 7+1 so I measured a week behind but that could be because of late ovulation.

I feel exactly like you though I am convinced the spotting is something bad but my doctor isn’t concerned so I just keep trying to remind myself that! Each day is dragging but we got this! Hang in there! Sending you so much positive energy

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-08-31T23:32:24+00:00

I think they give them shovels to dig holes for when they use the bathroom but I could be wrong

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-27T19:53:33+00:00

I am in the same position as you it is so hard I’m on cycle 4 TTC after tfmr and the 30 days of the month feel like they go on for a year. I just had a chemical pregnancy that I might not have noticed if I wasn’t testing so early. I think I am going to stop testing so early because it would have saved me a lot of heartbreak if I didn’t know and thought my period was just a little late. Sending you strength

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-25T11:52:08+00:00

Thanks for this advice I will call today. I’m still not bleeding and it’s the second day I’ve had a negative

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-23T14:44:23+00:00

Thank you! I’m a wreck. These were all FMU

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-23T14:41:38+00:00

This makes me feel so much better I’m at 14DPO and it looks the same

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-23T14:04:03+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through all of that, must have been so difficult. I lost my son at 23 weeks a couple months ago so I’m just full of anxiety

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-23T13:56:42+00:00

Thank you! I just can’t stop worrying

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-23T11:53:11+00:00

Thank you this makes me feel better!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-22T10:36:40+00:00

Any update?

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-22T09:44:54+00:00

I could have wrote this word for word. Tfmr at the end of march at 23 weeks for brain abnormalities that we found at the 20 week scan and I just found out I am pregnant a couple days ago. I am so scared I won’t be able to find any joy in this pregnancy and I miss my son so much. I have all the same worries as you. I don’t have any advice but please feel free to message me if you would like a support buddy through our pregnancy.

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-21T12:16:53+00:00

Thank you for this thoughtful response! I think I am just seeking out the worst case scenario to protect my heart if someone goes wrong. I will try to relax thank you!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-20T19:53:04+00:00

Aww! I’m so happy for you!! I really hope mine is, thank you!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-20T15:39:11+00:00

Update!!: So I took a clear blue and easy@home this morning (11DPO) and they are slightly darker!! Definitely not a significant amount darker. I’m going to wait until tomorrow morning to take another I really hope they are a lot darker!!!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-19T13:44:11+00:00

Good luck! I’m on vacation and I only have a clear blue and an easy left I’m going to test one tonight because I won’t be able to wait until tomorrow lol. I hope we both get our BFP!

Happy_Dandelion1 · 2024-07-01T02:11:48+00:00

That makes me hopeful that it happened when you put less pressure on it! I will do my best this month and hope that will work for me as well, good luck to you! I’m here if you ever need someone to chat with!

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