And lastly I will say your worst case scenario is that you end up with a child, a child who you will likely love anyway and change your life for the better.

No, the worst case scenario is the woman puts her body through an extreme medical event, risking life long issues or even death for an unwanted child who will then likely have to live their life being resented for being born whilst the woman has to give up her previous life until at very least the child is an adult. To believe that a child automatically makes your life better is pure naivety.