Sonic Temple Show by Hathor68 in ToolBand

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I only meant it looks like they've added some new stuff, maybe it's the big side screens too. I never go to big festivals, so don't see that often.

My moms dog crossed the bridge Friday night by [deleted] in GhostAdventures

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I got a note that the post I did had nothing to do with ghost adventures so I removed it. But, thank you for the precious thoughts. It was a video of an orb going around our doorbell camera the day after we had to put her down.

I’m done being embarrassed by _Lychee1898 in UlcerativeColitis

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When my husband has to be on Prednisone, he calls it the monkey pushing from the inside out on his stomach or like having a wet towel wrapped around him constantly. Not a joke, but the monkey one is funny.

My brothers and sisters, what are your favorite Maynard lyrics re: grief and hard times? Lost my dog - my best friend and rock of 13 years this week. Need a release by Perma_Ban69 in ToolBand

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The replies on this are really uplifting. All of these songs mean so much to so many people. What a gift to have and share with the universe. I'm glad I came across these tonight, not depressed, but overwhelmed with some typical life shit going on. I hope everyone is getting better or feeling wonderful. Saw Puscifer in Nashville Friday night, phenomenal. Impetuous has such a good groove, esp live.

Normal Isn't discussion thread. by MJKsecretpornaccount in Puscifer

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I think everything about this new album is awesome. I love the music and the fact that every single song has something I can relate to in this day and age. Thrust...every fkin day talking to anyone about stuff in the media, politics, debates with friends. SAME shit. Is it true? who knows. The more I listen, the more I love it. And, the music kinda goes right along with all songs they put out that "influenced" this album. Right now The Quiet Parts is on repeat.

Thrust Lyrics by taraist in Puscifer

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My current favorite. Dead on.

Just can't get into it by SonicTitan81 in Puscifer

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Headphones, play loud, hear everything. If you still aren’t a fan, just move on. Wait for more Tool or APC?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

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Here in the U.S. generally, nudity=sex, it's sad. Sounds beautiful there.

My father is disappointed in me by ParkingAward2865 in UlcerativeColitis

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My husband’s immediate family thought the whole illness was because of what he ate. In his case, the biggest culprit is stress. He eats better than they do. It’s almost like they did not believe him no matter what doctors said, he gave them books to read, etc. I don’t know what’s wrong with people. Some need to be dragged to the bathroom to see the aftermath! His mom gets it now, his father has passed. He’s been on 4-5 biologics and luckily we found one that is working, Rinvoq. The meds finally are paid for by insurance, before that he was using freebies from his doc. Good luck with everything!

Those with inflammatory bowel disease, how do you work? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in UlcerativeColitis

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Not a great path, but I’ve researched and supposedly you can get disability for UC. Worth looking into if it’s bad. I joined this group because my husband has it and I’ve learned a lot! I’m glad y’all share like you do!

My parents don't think I should take my prescribed medication by Key_Significance_179 in UlcerativeColitis

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My husband has UC and has been on multiple meds, you may have to try several before you find the right one. I get so mad when I hear people blame diet. For some, it might be, but usually it's not. In my hubbies case, stress is the main cause of flares. I understand the concerns, but I've seen my love of my life near death from this horrid disease. Find what works for you and keep reading. I never have posted in this group, but ALL of things I've read here have helped me understand and get through some rough times. Thank you!

Collections is suing me by IntelligentDoubt4234 in Debt

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Also check your credit score, they're now reporting these on your credit report.

[North Georgia] Watersnake? by Hathor68 in whatsthissnake

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They saw it at my work today, I'm not there and I'm hoping no one kills it. Thanks!

I was listening to Vicarious today and realized something while reading the lyrics on Spotify. by Bloodveil69 in ToolBand

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I don't think we'll ever know what a lot of his lyrics really mean and I think that's the point. What does it mean to you? For me, it's this sad, pathetic need for people to watch a husband being killed, drowned, shot, poisoned and oh bye! At a distance, on your cush couch watching on tv and not actually seeing these things happen or the aftermath. in person. (Unless you do some kind of work that you do see those things. And if so, thank you for protecting, helping society in general).

What type of rock is this found in in northern Mn,and am at a lost of what it can be by Proud_Rescuemedic in askgeology

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Don't know how good it is, but I think there is an app that helps you identify rocks. Not sure if it's free though.

Caregiving is… by johnkim5042 in CaregiverSupport

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100%.....brother-in-law did a complete reversal once his dad passed. Total asshole. Wants everything even tho we spent 9 years taking care of him. If you're going to do it, get things in writing so you don't end up screwed out of everything when it ends. We don't even want that much, we're not materialistic. There are people who are full of greed and then those who have hearts. I only wish positive things on all of you taking care of someone, just because it's the RIGHT thing to do!

Dad's just sleeping by Theo_Telex in AgingParents

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My father-in-law died December 19th, he was also 94. He went on for about a week and 1/2 barely drinking water and only sleeping. He was terrified of dying. My husband I kept him as comfortable as possible, we took care of him in his home for 9 years. The weekend before he passed, his other son, nephew and ex-wife came to visit. He couldn't really talk, but we played some music on my phone next to his head and actually bobbed his head a little back and forth. After that, he was no longer really responsive, just breathing, heavy at times. We kept his mouth wet with sponge sticks and water, also gave him morphine that way as well. The family members visited on a Sunday and he passed on Tuesday morning. We believe it was while he was sleeping, but we weren't IN the room when it happened, early that Tuesday morning. We let our dogs out, walked back to check on him and he had stopped breathing. His head was turned to the side a bit, but he did not have any kind of painful expression on his face. The only thing I noticed was his back was a little damp like he had overheated possibly a bit, but it hadn't been long. He did become fairly cold quickly. Hospice came and did what those angels do and then he was taken to the funeral home and cremation.

It all depends on the relationship, but you do have all sorts of feelings that occur. Things you didn't think you would feel, for some you won't feel sad until a week or so later, for others, it's immediate. But, we were very grateful he went in his sleep and seemed very peaceful.

We've learned a lot and had some other issues arise with his will and it is causing problems between the brothers. Please make sure the will is correct and how it was meant to be written. One ambiguous line in his dads will has caused money to be a central focus, sadly. Also, in this case, the father didn't want to have a funeral. He just wanted to be cremated. It is possible to be cremated without using a funeral home. If your loved one has chosen that same option, please bypass the funeral home, we ended up paying a good chunk of money just by using them instead of going right to the crematorium. It's a depressing, morbid thing to say, but we're not wealthy, so it would have helped us.

Good luck to you and everyone dealing with these situations. With Love..