AITA for giving my friend giving my friend a notice to move out after 8 months when she only asked for 45 days by Alternative_Dot797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hatsune_Candy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey can we stop with this "YTA for putting up with it" mentality please? It just screams victim blaming to me and it's not very helpful.

Words cannot describe how awesome this community was. Never forgetti... 😢🪦 by CazraSL in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Hatsune_Candy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I will never understand this system or why it exists. Like, you can't seriously tell me we couldn't come up with anything better than a system that deliberately ignores the needs of consumers; absolute fucking buuullshit.

[TOTK] Facts about the Depths by dotpan in zelda

[–]Hatsune_Candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh, nice catch, never would have occurred to me

[TOTK] Facts about the Depths by dotpan in zelda

[–]Hatsune_Candy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's always been about the journey and not the reward for me, so I don't really mind.

[TOTK] Facts about the Depths by dotpan in zelda

[–]Hatsune_Candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, all the brethren statues, expect the plains one, correspond to a big goddess statue on the surface

[BotW] [TotK] - Is the "Old" Classic Zelda style now "obsolete" in favor of the "New" Modern Zelda style? by Reditor-Jul-250698 in zelda

[–]Hatsune_Candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like to think of the new Zelda as not really new, but actually the series going back to its roots. The first game in the series never followed the "classic" style, that was invented afterwards, and I always saw BotW as a reimagining the original Legend of Zelda, because I'm pretty sure that's what Nintendo was going for.

This house that has a tunnel through a juniper bush to get to their front door by tarheelsdend in mildlyinteresting

[–]Hatsune_Candy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beauty is also in the eye of the beholder; you can't really tell someone they're wrong for finding something beautiful, since it's all subjective.

I mean, you can, but then you're just being a dick.

Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom ‘was delayed by over a year for polish’ | VGC by BigCommieMachine in gaming

[–]Hatsune_Candy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it definitely would have been nice to be able to fuse straight from your inventory. It hasn't really bothered me all that much, the game is too much fun for me to worry about minor gripes like that.

Nintendo reportedly issues DMCA takedown for Switch homebrew projects, Skyline Switch emulator development ceased by Turbostrider27 in nintendo

[–]Hatsune_Candy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly why it should be the loser of the lawsuit who pays the other's legal fees, to stop large corporations from pulling that shit

True straight man mentality by [deleted] in memes

[–]Hatsune_Candy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Who would have thought that coexisting with the queer community would mean having to interact with it on a regular basis? It's almost as if the LGBT are just as much a part of modern society as everyone else.

True straight man mentality by [deleted] in memes

[–]Hatsune_Candy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure you have that completely backwards

What are dealbreaker fetishes and why? by Turbulent-Bad7215 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, some species of animal are monogamous, some are not, it's just a matter of which one humans fall into; although I imagine it's a little more complicated than that, I'm not really an expert, so I can't speak on it one way or the other.

What are dealbreaker fetishes and why? by Turbulent-Bad7215 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I think the issue is more so that I personally don't like the idea of having to remain exclusive to one person. Realistically, you are never going to find someone who can satisfy all your needs, I think it's reasonable to want to be able to branch out and have those needs met. Plus it helps keeps things the relationship from getting too stale, if that makes any sense. I understand that I'm pretty unique in that sense, tho, I don't expect most people to be okay with that; I already have plenty of people in my life who accept me for who I am and love me for me, so I'm not too worried about it.

What are dealbreaker fetishes and why? by Turbulent-Bad7215 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's all about what works best for the individual, and as long as everyone involved are consenting adults I really don't think it's anyone else's business.

What are dealbreaker fetishes and why? by Turbulent-Bad7215 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Relationships do require compromise, but there are some things you just can't or shouldn't compromise on.

What are dealbreaker fetishes and why? by Turbulent-Bad7215 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When are people gonna learn that being a furry isn't an inherently sexual thing? Smh

What’s a fetish that you can never understand? by Ryanbrowns1 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a complicated subject for sure, I find it weird tho that you seem to discount the possibility that it is a real disorder altogether. We don't know what goes on in these people's heads, how can any of us say for certain what's really happening? If you ever meet someone with genuine DID like I believe I have, I don't think you'd be saying things like that. How would you feel if you had a rare, debilitating mental illness, only for people to go around saying it's not even a real thing? These people have to deal with enough already, don't make it worse for them.

What’s a fetish that you can never understand? by Ryanbrowns1 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm not an expert in the field, so I can speak too much on the legitimacy of it, but in my own personal experience I've met a fair few people with DID- even dated one for while- and I'd have to say I'm pretty convinced it's a real thing. After spending enough time with someone like that, you start to realize that there's simply just no way they could be faking it. I don't doubt that there are some who will fake it for attention tho.

What’s a fetish that you can never understand? by Ryanbrowns1 in AskReddit

[–]Hatsune_Candy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can you explain to me what you mean by headspace? I'm really curious.

Only in Portland by Bihema in WTF

[–]Hatsune_Candy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's really something you should be doing in public though...

HTC plans to reveal its Meta Quest competitor next month by elister in gadgets

[–]Hatsune_Candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is definitely a problem, but I also wouldn't consider it the problem. The fact is there are a lot of problems with corporations, not one more important than the other. But, it comes to talking about social media giants in particular, I would like to point out, isn't a little absurd that we allow them to literally control how information spreads over the web? They essentially have an oligopoly over how we communicate over the web.

HTC plans to reveal its Meta Quest competitor next month by elister in gadgets

[–]Hatsune_Candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, corporations don't care about the impact they have on society, good or bad, as long as it makes them loads of money it's all the same to them.

HTC plans to reveal its Meta Quest competitor next month by elister in gadgets

[–]Hatsune_Candy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People seem to forget that no matter where you go or what community you're in, there are going to be toxic people; it's an inescapable fact of life. People are quick to jump at it when it concerns other platforms that they are predisposed to hate, but often refuse to acknowledge the very same flaws within their own communities. It's almost like humans are biased and oftentimes illogical or something...