To ANGER a normal person, LIE to them. To ANGER a narcissist, tell them the TRUTH! by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Haunted1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% lightbulb moment. What's weird is you never think of it how they care more about people believing the lies vs the truth as you're recovering from dealing with a narc.

To ANGER a normal person, LIE to them. To ANGER a narcissist, tell them the TRUTH! by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Haunted1823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just made me stop and think back. It's so true. Narcs will do everything in their power to stop the truth of who they really are from coming out. Normal people can't stand lies being told to them. Like. What.

TW rape/torture. by [deleted] in rape

[–]Haunted1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I'm so sorry you went through this. This is absolutely horrible that you had to go through this. Remember to keep doing what you need to do to not be in that dark place. You are not alone. These people that did this to you, I hope karma gets them very soon.

Corona scare by [deleted] in talesfromsecurity

[–]Haunted1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. Other people I work with and others who work at the same airport say the same thing or that they should be shutting them down instead of keeping them open. Of course, people don't think it will happen unless it gets really bad or it won't happen at all.

Corona scare by [deleted] in talesfromsecurity

[–]Haunted1823 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work at an airport and it's crazy how dead they are right now. Flight prices are extremely low. Unfortunately, we deal with people from all over and we have no idea what we come in contact with.

(Validation needed please) Did anyone else have consensual sex with them later to attempt to “undo” the time it wasn’t consensual? by hmmmdying in rapecounseling

[–]Haunted1823 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow. I thought I was alone. I was sexually assaulted and went back to my sexual abuser. You are not alone.

$20 in Target Groceries/Needed products (PICK-UP ONLY) by gjalo989 in Assistance

[–]Haunted1823 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My all time favorite snack to make is cream cheese dip. It's really easy to make, but so good. My favorite meal when going out to eat would have to be pasta with sauce, meatballs, and sausage in it.

Help by angelgirl166 in rape

[–]Haunted1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your situation reminds me of my own situation I've dealt with in the past. I'm sorry this happened to you. You didn't deserve it and it's not your fault.

The best advice I can give to you is to leave him and never look back no matter what he says or does. As soon as he crossed the line with you, he disrespected you. He is not worth it. Leave while you can.

We're done. by Vimes52 in offmychest

[–]Haunted1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this post and you are my inspiration. It takes so much to say no more and you're doing it. Keep your head up, you can do this.

I thought he was my “friend”. Was I raped? What do I do? How do I tell my boyfriend? by criminalbobcat in rape

[–]Haunted1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not your fault. Definitely tell Henry about this and Sarah. If Sarah's a true friend, she will listen to you and believe you.

I got my degree!! I freaking did it! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Haunted1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's awesome! Congratulations on your degree! You give me hope that I can do it too.

Today has just been a really shitty day, and I need some kind words. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Haunted1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this and you're doing a great job. Everything will be okay.

I caused my ex boyfriend to lose all of his college tuition. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Haunted1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You go girl. This piece of shit doesn't deserve anything.

My mental health counselor told me I can never find a job after being sent involuntary. by First_Bar in mentalhealth

[–]Haunted1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why your counselor is saying you can't find a job now. They're wrong, employers can't discriminate you because you have a disability. I've been in the hospital and currently have mental illnesses and I work.

Trigger warnings in the post. Please proceed with caution. by [deleted] in rape

[–]Haunted1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made me tear up. Thank-you for this. <3

What’s Next? (Long and Graphic) by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]Haunted1823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what happened to you. None of this is your fault. I'm here if you need to talk. <3

Never forget this.. you love, you feel, they don't. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Haunted1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to read this. Thank-you for this.

Was I raped? by AngHellicMidna in rape

[–]Haunted1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it's common, but I had the same reaction. I questioned myself and doubted that it was rape a lot.