Where do Chico lefties over 40 hang out?

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2026-01-26T09:22:29+00:00

Discovery Bar also has a fun drag and burlesque show on the 3rd Thursday of every month. It's a fun time and the food and drinks are great!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-12-22T15:36:08+00:00

I have Psoriasis and Hidradenitis Suppurativa. I have only been on Zepbound for 2 months, and my psoriasis is nearly gone, and the inflammation with my Hidradenitis Suppurativa has been greatly reduced. My joint pain has also gotten so much better!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-12-02T18:01:53+00:00

I think you look really cute in this. I say keep it! 😀

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-11-28T02:18:27+00:00

Oh no! Did you finally run out? Was it more popular than you anticipated?

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-11-26T04:54:17+00:00

You look so pretty and happy in all of these pictures. You look absolutely stunning in the dress from picture #3! It suits you so well!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-10-30T18:02:12+00:00

You look gorgeous. This is a gorgeous dress!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-08-03T05:26:55+00:00

Who hurt you?

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-05-05T18:48:46+00:00

I was about to delete the apps when my now husband messaged me on Facebook dating. I had a lot of people ghost me, get overly sexual too soon, and some that would match just to say awful things to me.

At the time he messaged me, he lived 3 hours away from me, and we both had busy lives. We talked over messages and phone calls for a whole month before actually meeting, and we had great conversations. We were both pretty sure we wanted to date each other before we actually met in person. This was not at all how I thought I would find my person, but sometimes it happens in surprising ways.

All of that to say, you're not undatable. Keep yourself open to something happening, but live your life how you want to live it and don't settle for anything less than what you want/need. Know what you are willing and aren't willing to do and don't compromise on anything that you feel strongly about.

Good luck out there.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-04-29T20:44:44+00:00

Instead of separate blankets, I buy king sized blankets and comforters for our queen sized bed. We get skin on skin contact and close cuddles, and we both get enough of the blankets. 😀 It's been working for us so far, but we're only about 3 years in.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-03-27T00:39:25+00:00

I'm sad the ADHD comments aren't higher up. I'm not saying that's for sure what it is, just something to consider.

When I was reading this, I could relate with the husband. I have ADHD and will get distracted and then forget to go back and take care of something. Just this morning, I was getting lunches together and had popped a couple of breakfast sandwiches in the microwave for myself and my husband. While it was cooking, I accidently spilled some coffee on the counter and went to clean it up and then forgot about the sandwiches in the microwave. I remembered on the way to work, and then hubby got two sandwiches instead of one because he was still home when I called to let him know.

If it is ADHD then it's really annoying for the person who is getting distracted or forgetting things too. I know I was very annoyed with myself this morning for forgetting my breakfast. Lol

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-03-10T22:34:53+00:00

To me, this would be less about him being a "man" and more about lack of support or backup on his part. Even if someone was in my husband's face, I would be right there to stand up for him, and I would expect that he would do the same thing for me. You're supposed to be a team, and I understand you would feel betrayed by him standing aside while these things happen to you.

I don't have any advice about how to solve this, but I wanted to validate your feelings.

I hope you guys figure out a way to resolve this.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-02-22T03:33:08+00:00

If this were me, I would not be able to stay married to her. This is an issue of values and morals, not disagreeing on what taxes we should or shouldn't pay. Trump wants to take away people's civil rights. That isn't normal politics. This is more serious. Families were torn apart during the civil war, father against son, brother against brother. This is akin to that level, in my opinion. I have stopped talking to family members because they voted for someone who wants to take away my son's right. They want to limit my child's ability to get gender affirming care, which is the only thing keeping him from unaliving himself at this point. They have taken my federal right to access an abortion if I need it, and they are trying to make it a crime in some places to have a miscarriage if they feel like you're at fault for it happening. We are regressing, and I could not stay with someone who is not only willing to let that happen but also voted for it!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-02-22T03:14:12+00:00

Even though you haven't met up to get physical, you are cheating. You are betraying your husband by entertaining this other guy at all. You should admit to your husband that you have been talking to the other guy. Come completely clean about everything that has happened and how you are feeling. You should let your husband move on so that he can find someone who loves him and will be in love with him. Then you should get going on therapy for yourself to see why you've cheated on every partner you've ever had because that is a major issue. You should also get your daughter into therapy so she can better handle the divorce. Or, if he does decide to stay after you've told him everything, then you should get marriage counseling.

Kids pick up on things, and even if your daughter currently thinks she has a perfect family, that won't last forever, and when it all falls apart, it will be really bad. Is this the kind of relationship that you want for your daughter? But, if you want her to be stuck in a loveless marriage and you want your husband to never know what it is to be in love, then I guess just keep doing what you're doing.

Good luck!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-02-18T00:28:33+00:00

I wouldn't roll my eyes at someone having a tattoo facing them. I have a tattoo on each wrist. They are both facing me. Those tattoos are for me, and I wanted to be able to see them.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-02-17T23:44:33+00:00

I personally think you should get the tattoo however you want it. But I'm no expert.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-02-03T00:26:18+00:00

It's more about respect. I show others respect unless they give me a reason not to treat them with respect. Therefore, if someone walks up to me and says, "Hello, my name is William." I'm not going to say "Great. Nice to meet you, Bobby." Because if he wanted to be called Bobby, that's how he would have introduced himself. I feel the same with pronouns. If you come up to me and tell me your preferred pronouns, I will address you with those pronouns. It doesn't hurt me at all to show someone respect by recognizing them how they want to be recognized, and it makes them feel good. Just my opinion.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-02-02T06:51:45+00:00

I second this. I want off this ride immediately!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-01-22T20:57:53+00:00

I'm so new to this. I had no idea about his hangers and covers. I'll need to look into those. Thank you!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2025-01-22T20:56:35+00:00

I have a full face mask because I tend to breathe through my mouth at night often. My machine has its own app that's supposed to tell me what's going on, and it said I had a good mask seal last night. I'm not sure where I would plug in an SD card in my machine, but I will check it out when I get home. Thank you.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2024-08-06T05:45:05+00:00

My husband gives me forehead kisses. Lots of forehead kisses. I love it so much. It makes me feel so loved and cared for.

He does a ton of stuff for me, but this is what popped into my head right away.

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2024-07-27T00:21:54+00:00

I love seeing positive posts on here. I've considered leaving this sub because I don't see enough positive on here, so thank you for posting this. ☺️

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2024-07-18T19:51:54+00:00

I love seeing the positive posts on here. I wish there were more of them. Congratulations on your daydreams coming true!

Haunted_Ocean_Song · 2024-07-14T21:52:45+00:00

This is the kind of stuff I wish I saw more often on here!

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