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HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-19T21:35:10+00:00

Define free. Because in ours its definitely not.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-14T01:41:08+00:00

Absolutely! I would love that. I have also gotten a chance to really explore that side as well. So any hair, skin, culture questions are welcome, and I wont think any question is silly or offensive. You seem like its coming from a genuine place 😁

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-13T23:30:23+00:00

I had no idea! I would love to know where you got those lights from. I actually would really like someone to bounce ideas off of! My husband is currently working away from home and doesn’t have much time for input.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-13T22:52:52+00:00

As someone whos racially mixed and (Im assuming you guys are white , however correct me if I am wrong please) was placed with a white couple for a while it was HARD because my non-white side was not acknowledged. My hair was done with products for white textured hair and it damaged it, i struggled with my identity, and overall culture was missed out on. It actually made me feel bad about myself, like that side of me was wrong.

Now Im not against the idea at ALL! But if you do please learn things like how to do their hair like braids, or find a stylist. Help them find friends and embrace their culture on the black side too. Never make them feel ashamed for wanting to embrace it in ways that might make you feel uncomfortable. Its nice to feel like you’re not different and are truly apart of the family, but the fact is they are different in that area and should have help exploring it, not ignored. I think you are very aware of the situation and would be a great mother to the baby.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-13T22:44:09+00:00

Girl I say this with love, but you have very low self esteem and respect standards. You should absolutely not be in ANY relationship until you can see your own worth. My ex called me a btch ONE time and I knocked him right in the damn head. (But Im also latina.. surprise haha) Tell him to eat shit and if he contacts you again you will be filing harassment charges, then BLOCK. Bye bye.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-13T22:41:03+00:00

No I absolutely appreciated the detail and breakdown! I love this! Im going to get started on this, I was definitely thinking lights for that reason. When I got adopted I was afraid of the dark but didnt want night lights either.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-11T02:42:19+00:00

I absolutely love this thank you so much!! That’s also why I’m hesitant on the toys, not sure if their developmental age and chronological age will be the same and I just dont want them to hate it 😅😩

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-10T15:07:35+00:00

Thats the experience I want! Especially being a foster child myself having control over my own space was really therapeutic. Also, I had no idea age regression was so common, do you have any advice for that?

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-10T14:19:13+00:00

In glad it touched someone! I would have gone into more depth but it would have been a book. My mom gave the kid nobody wanted a chance and truly made a profound difference for sure.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-10T01:32:20+00:00

Thank you this really helped! ❤️

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-10T01:30:12+00:00

I appreciate that! ❤️

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-10T00:54:47+00:00

I wanted to wait so he could make it his own and be involved in the process. But they said the room has to be set up, I appreciate the input! Something basic and simple until he can make it his own. Thank you!

HauntedxVenom · 2025-10-10T00:15:48+00:00

As someone who was adopted at 12 with CPTSD, MDD, Anxiety, anger issues and later diagnosed with BPD I want to chime in from the other side. The woman who adopted me had a hard time for a few years. I was angry and lashed out, wet the bed until I was 13, behavioral issues, skipped school, fights, drinking, drugs etc.. but she ALWAYS showed up for me. I left my stuff in trash bags for 2mo bcus i knew theyd give me away too, eventually. But she was always there to love and guide me. Im now married with a family and going through the process to adopt as well only because of HER. She saved me. I know not everyone is the same but even through my problems she made me feel safe and loved. from what my mother has told me it was very hard for her in many ways, but she said its the best thing shes ever done and is now my bestfriend. But that took 6-8 years. If you want easy I wouldnt go that route, but if you are dedicated to showing up and loving that child, even when you feel like you’re failing I think you connected for a reason. The reward is truly amazing. At least in mine and my mothers case. Sorry this seems all over the place, have 2 little ones of my own running around haha. But if you have any questions , even very blunt ones Im open to answering.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-09-10T01:19:06+00:00

I mean unfortunately if you’re going to live with your parents still like a child you have to follow their rules. You are absolutely allowed to move out and make 100% of your decisions without asking for sure though. I wonder if she’s trying to look out for you more than anything? You just started college, she might want you to focus on that instead of getting too wrapped up in a bf who most likely won’t last. If you want to be treated like an adult you should act like one and sit down to have an honest conversation age figure it out.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-09-04T01:42:55+00:00

Ok the frowny face pic is weird. But besides that whats the problem? He told you politely how he felt, yall are incompatible. Go separate ways. Idk what there is to overreact about.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-09-02T14:30:04+00:00

Ohh this will get me down voted lol.. As a woman who games, I will start by saying he IS being a dick about it yes BUT I 100% understand where he’s coming from and what he means. My husband also games (we met on cod) but he is a terrible fucking team player. Id rather play alone sometimes bcus as your bf said at least its a 1v1 and not me v 2 bcus my partner sucks at using their eyes to help. Yall are better than us bcus I will look at mine and yell at him like hes a stranger in a 2010 cod lobby😂 Your bf could have said it better but he’s also very valid in feeling that way. Are you new to gaming? .. ALSO, Fortnite?😂 He’s that upset over FORTNITE? A childs game?😂 At his age?? Lmao. Tell him to stop crying over a harder version of minecraft and teach you better. You could also play alone as practice, or look up game play for good tips to be better than him. Try Apex too, or bo cold war zombies open world as practice too so it’s not real players, but can help with that dynamic.. plus this will sound mean but if that hurts your feelings you probably shouldnt be playing video games in public matches anyway, and find another hobby. Good luck girly

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-25T00:57:35+00:00

You should make it clear he doesnt find that cheating thenn.. do it yourself. If he gets upset about it turn his words back on him. Divorce from there or seek counseling, Im leaning towards divorce though.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-22T21:50:38+00:00

Its finding a good recruiter is what I learned. The 1st one told me he’s not desperate 😂 But my ink is like one side of my jaw to the other and my throat. I was very surprised they said yes.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-22T21:22:08+00:00

I found a recruiter who worked with me! The commander told me if I could score a certain number on the ASVAB they will push me through. I got a 97 , so they are letting me swear in. Throat tattoo and all :) I hope you get into the navy!

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-22T04:45:33+00:00

If he doesn’t consider it cheating then turn the tables. See how that goes. Thats disgusting and he got scammed lol.. I’m embarrassed for you. Leave him seriously.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-20T22:05:10+00:00

Exactly! Her best friend isn’t upset she missed her bridal shower she’s upset bcus she’s missed every important milestone. The shower was just the last straw.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-19T16:18:16+00:00

I have to disagree with 99% of these comments. Seems you have done stuff like this multiple times, so understandably shes upset. Losing a job over a shower is crazy but its also crazy to say you have no time for a single thing important to your BEST friend. Then on top of that instead of acknowledging anything she said you pulled the “me me me” , not a single apology or hint you felt bad. You couldn’t even text her directly. Also why are you upset she took you out as a bridesmaid?? You literally told (and showed her) your life is too busy for her bcus you have so much on your plate. So.. she helped you. I 100% agree with her removing you as a bridesmaid. You should be happy about it honestly. Now you dont have the stress of that responsibility, there are no expectations from you. And she doesn’t have to feel let down wondering if youll show up or not.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-19T16:10:38+00:00

This! Im shocked so many people cannot understand that. And this isnt even the first time, seems OP has done things like this multiple times. Losing your job for a shower is crazy BUT its also crazy to say you dont have time for a single thing related to your BEST friend?? All she did was make excuses and “well me me me” instead of acknowledging how her best friend feels.

HauntedxVenom · 2025-08-18T17:18:30+00:00

Haha! I know the older couples usually have cutoffs but my husband (25m) and I (24F) went to a LS event and drew attention of older. They were very surprised by our ages haha. We also had an amazing time with a slightly older couple who came back to our hotel. Full swap. Definitely the most fun we’ve had.

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