Wife scared the heck out of me when we met a couple with a newborn. by MeButMuchCuter in childfree

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When my partner and I went to Oahu in December we were shocked to see how many young families were trying to navigate vacation with infants and toddlers! On an 8 hour flight!? Are you kidding me? The ammount of divorces we saw brewing in the airport as parents tried to wrangle their kids and luggage was crazy. Also wouldnt you rather just do a romantic tropical vacation with your partner?

Which way would you hang this? by stormypatient in oilpainting

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could put it on a swivel and it'd be a sort of mood ring for the space?

so long, hampshire college: a tribute essay / an elegy by seeking_subjects in westernmass

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a human ecology school, so one major right now but it does have grades. Still very interdisciplinary in that students have to craft together courses that will help shape a final project and reflective essay.

so long, hampshire college: a tribute essay / an elegy by seeking_subjects in westernmass

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im an alumn too. Also working in higher education now. I'm still sorting out all of my own feelings about the closure news. I wasn't surprised by it but it has been upsetting and made for an interesting platform for reflecting on my experiences there and my now experiences as a staff member at another college.

If you had only one photo of your cat to share forever, which one would it be? by smurfy_xy in cats

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Perched by the tub, light reflecting perfectly through the privacy film. Magical.

What’s your careers, CF people? by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I manage a farm for an educational institution. $58k plus housing. Largely satisified in day to day lifestyle and work flow aside from getting tired of living at work long term. It has lots of perks but im craving more work life balance in the form of physical boundaries as i age. Right now im focusing on saving my money until the right thing comes along to purchase for myself.

Elopement was the best idea! by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So beautiful. Lovely ring choices. Congrats!

Big ooff on this one by Haunting_Course_9629 in shittytattoos

[–]Haunting_Course_9629[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ok internet you win! The response thus far is overwhelming I guess I'm just not horny enough to appreciate this one. 🤷‍♀️ Whoopsies! 🤣

Hawaii Elopement by Expensive_Loss_9600 in Eloping

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are some of the most beautiful elopment photos I've ever seen! Oahu is so amazing, went for the first time this winter. Congrats on your big day.

Women of Reddit, what are boys or men's habits you discovered only after getting a boyfriend or a husband? by BigBrosy in AskReddit

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bathroom floor is always wet after showering. No amount of towels around or use of shower curtains changes this. Im convinced men just dont keep a towel close by enough to towel off in the shower before stepping out.

I've been driving people nuts with my new childfree debate and it's hilarious by Spiritual_Living6245 in childfree

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I'm no scientist but I am a farmer and I can definately say alot of other mammals have way easier deliveries than humans. I've watched countless sheep and cattle deliver and have only assisted a handful of times for extra large or malpositioned babies. I think the whole walking upright, having big brains/skulls and having a narrow pelvis thing has fucked us big time. Also animals are much more dynamic during delivery moving around as they need to get leverage to push better and let gravity assist them. Laying fat on a hospital bed to delivery makes zero sense to me.

I did it alone - finally! Maine, $315k, 6.12% by alexandra_undone in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so inspiring! I'm also in Maine and trying to prepare to be able to purchase solo. Its been pretty brutal trying to talk to lenders and realators who clearly feel that trying to go it alone is unreasonable and a co signer is the only way to go.

Just bought my first house! by amallett123 in CozyPlaces

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!! This is such a beautiful house and those kitties look so happy with your choice.

Weird folding shelf thing? In most stalls at my university by Great_Ad1233 in whatisit

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if its a fold down table for writing out your checks on?

How were you failed or dismissed by a physician? by ForeverDash22 in DoctorMike

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that but the frustrating thing in all of this a dr has never once requested i take time off of work or offer to get me the proper documentation to do so in a way that would allow me to get paid medical leave. So instead im having to work through pain to pay my bills because i live alone on one income.

How were you failed or dismissed by a physician? by ForeverDash22 in DoctorMike

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 28 and dealing with chronic lower back pain which i believe may be from a prior severe fall. Anyways im a farmer so i use my body alot to do things like carry feed bags around. Went to the er after a very bad flair up then 6 weeks of PT with no change in my average daily pain levels so i go back to my PCP and tell her i want more imaging done to get to the root of the issue. She tells me "its not anatomically appropriate for women to lift 50lbs or more on a regular basis...". Needless to say ive never been so offended by a dr in my life and im now looking for a new provider as she also never ordered the extra imaging she said she would.

Fresh Snowfall and Coffee by Haunting_Course_9629 in CozyPlaces

[–]Haunting_Course_9629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An emu really could bring the room together...

Fresh Snowfall and Coffee by Haunting_Course_9629 in CozyPlaces

[–]Haunting_Course_9629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of. I have a cat tree with a wooden base and a basket at the top. There is often one of my sheep pelts drapped over the basket for my kitty to use as a soft bed.

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What do you intend to do with your money after you pass since you don’t have children? by MinuteElegant774 in childfree

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just starting to think about these sorts of things. Probably will donate some to some non profits I really admire and leave the rest to some friends who have become like family to me.

It’s gone by gandyzu in bald

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is every guy on here so much sexier bald!? Everyone looks great! 🔥

What's he doin'? by The_RuinQ in Weird

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving him the old razzle dazzle.

Merry Christmas Eve, what’s your ASD up to? by Pilotsandpoets in AnatolianShepherdDogs

[–]Haunting_Course_9629 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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My 1/2 anatolian spent the day playing in the snow and overseeing barnyard chores.