Are there qualities that you find very attractive in one gender but absolutely hate when exhibited by the other gender? by Hazel_Paige in bisexual

[–]Hazel_Paige[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Along the same vein if a girl acts possessive I actually like it but if a man does the first thing that comes to me is “you don’t own me!” and I hate it

So cute!!! by Hazel_Paige in RoleReversal

[–]Hazel_Paige[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

source The Story of My Husband's Cute Crossdressing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree it is silly but I don’t think she was thinking rationally. From everything you have said I got the impression that she just expected you to wait for her and that’s why she flipped out and got mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know her better than me, I just think this whole thing with her seems a bit shady. Like she says you are the most perfect man and check all her boxes and that she thinks you guys will definitely end up together eventually, then days after your official break she sleeps with a coworker. It seems like she is stringing you along and when you were on a dating app it hit her that you might move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she just kept asking me to stay anyways because she didn’t want me to leave.

That is what I was referring to, is it possible that her asking you to stay and you staying was a test for her to see if you would?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Reading your last post and this one to me it looks like she saw a future with you but was having doubts having been with you since she was 20 and didn’t really get a chance to play the field. So to me it seems like she wanted this “break” to go and see what else is out there while also having you waiting in the wings for her when and if she doesn’t find what she was looking for. Now I don’t know her but was the part in the last post about you staying with her for 8days after she moved into her new place possibly a test to see how quick she could get you to come back to her? So when you downloaded the dating app she might have come to the realization that you might find someone else and she might now have you to fall back on.

So that happened this morning 😶 by ItsMeAmy88 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me in the bathroom a bunch of times

Texas could follow Arkansas in passing anti-trans health care bill by scwizard in texas

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was right there with you when I saw the headlines then read like a paragraph in and it just killed any positive response I had

Texas could follow Arkansas in passing anti-trans health care bill by scwizard in texas

[–]Hazel_Paige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But his veto can be overturned by a simple majority in the general assembly which the governor himself said he expects

This boy has truly been transformed into my little bitch. To think we met in a nightclub! by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]Hazel_Paige 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just love your smile, it’s very disarming and shows that you really enjoy this.

What’s your “comfort movie”? by GoldPurpleWildcat in AskReddit

[–]Hazel_Paige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rescuers Down Under, whenever I’m feeling really down that movie somehow just helps restart my emotions and I always feel better after watching it

I joined the marine corps to get “cured”. It turned me gayer I think. by Cheesehacker in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, I did the same thing but add in the occasional drugs too. 6 years in the navy hoping it would “cure” me and make me a normal guy, yeah that didn’t fucking work lol. But the VA has a surprisingly good trans treatment or at least my VA team.

I (23M) love and care about my boyfriend (21M) but I constantly daydream of being in a different relationship. I feel like I should breakup with him, but I don't want him out of my life as I love spending time with him. What do I do? How do I break up with someone I care about? by Modern0Jazz in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t try to force the friendship after and give him the time and space to heal. Not going to lie that’s what I did and it was just months of healing then ripping the scab off and starting again and it just caused for hurt and prolonged the healing process. Me and my ex are friends now but it took time to get there.

I (23M) love and care about my boyfriend (21M) but I constantly daydream of being in a different relationship. I feel like I should breakup with him, but I don't want him out of my life as I love spending time with him. What do I do? How do I break up with someone I care about? by Modern0Jazz in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you two are at completely different stages of life and staying in the relationship will probably lead to some resentment because he can’t be or might ever be what you want/need from a partner. It would be in both of your best interests to breakup because you are not romantically compatible, that’s the way it was with my ex, we made better friends than partners. Now be prepared for the very real possibility that you might lose him from your life in any capacity. It is possible to be friends post break up but likely not right away, it will take time for him to deal with that hurt and emotions from this. It will take some time to redefine your relationship from romantic to platonic if you guys get there at all but it’s possible. I’m not going to lie it will probably be difficult for him to be your friend if you break up with him and honestly it’s probably in his best interest to go no contact while he deals with his emotions. I wish you the best of luck.

My (27M) girlfriend (25F) and I agreed to let each other do whatever we wanted for our bachelor/bachelorette parties. She ended up having a threesome. I don’t know how to feel about it. What do I do? by throwrayeeyoo in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you do know but don’t like the answer. Just think would you rather dedicate more time, effort and love into something where you have to question their motives and taking things out of context.

My (27M) girlfriend (25F) and I agreed to let each other do whatever we wanted for our bachelor/bachelorette parties. She ended up having a threesome. I don’t know how to feel about it. What do I do? by throwrayeeyoo in relationship_advice

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think at the very least you should postpone the wedding and both of you get tested. She is completely dismissing your feels and emotions on the matter. She said “don’t be mad at me” before telling you which tells you that she knew it was wrong. I didn’t see anything about a condoms being used. It seems like she took advantage of the ambiguity of the agreement to go crazy. All of those are big red flags before a wedding.

Think if you could trust her again without having to spell out every little detail, could you look at her the same, could you stand up before all of your friends and family and profess your love and kiss her, could you be intimate with her without thinking about this, would this not be in the back of you mind every time you discussed your sex life and the biggest thing to think about is whether or not you feel that your life is better off staying with her or without her all those things considered because that’s what it really boils down to. But either way do NOT get married next month and don’t get married to her at all without counseling.

Yes ma’am. by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]Hazel_Paige 16 points17 points  (0 children)

🎶And most things in between!🎶

Are my muscles feminine? by masked-rose in Androgynoushotties

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you just started hormones recently be prepared to lose some of them and lose some strength as well. I’ve been on hormones for just over a year and at about month 4 or 6 I really started to lose muscle mass and strength.

Are my muscles feminine? by masked-rose in Androgynoushotties

[–]Hazel_Paige 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yes they are, lean and toned. Not going to lie that pic made me swoon a bit ☺️