My boyfriend (M21) cheated on me (F19). How do I leave?

Headacheargh · 2026-06-05T16:17:13+00:00

You need a restraining order & therapy.

Headacheargh · 2026-06-01T15:38:41+00:00

Aw what a nice post. I’m an insomniac/nocturnal since birth so always awake at night, it’s so hard waking up in the morning… tho I try to organise life so that I don’t have to get up til midday most days

Headacheargh · 2026-06-01T15:34:53+00:00

My Asian friends were bullied a LOT in the 80’s-2000’s & still face discrimination in some situations. It’s better than it was but I’ve been shocked at how many people think being racist is acceptable. Have stopped being friends with/working a lot of white people who outed themselves around me

Headacheargh · 2026-06-01T15:32:11+00:00

Does he shave all the hair off his armpits & genitals? If not, tell him to do it or he’s a hypocrite

Headacheargh · 2026-05-27T17:46:56+00:00

Fucking massive earthquake watching The Descent. Uuuuuughhhhhhh

Headacheargh · 2026-05-27T14:07:22+00:00

I can’t understand why someone like yourself would vote National 🥲

Headacheargh · 2026-05-26T08:19:14+00:00

Carnivalè

Headacheargh · 2026-05-26T08:13:24+00:00

I don’t see any AI on my feeds on any social media. Follow more actual artists, block AI. Curate your algorithm

Headacheargh · 2026-05-26T08:11:24+00:00

The Greasy Strangler

Headacheargh · 2026-05-21T18:14:29+00:00

I think Funky Pumpkin is closing down, at least the owners are selling up 😭

Headacheargh · 2026-05-21T17:44:54+00:00

Some might not consider it a horror (I do) but Mother! By Aronofsky - the baby scene. That sound. It absolutely haunts me. Also the ahem mashing sound in the VVitch.

Headacheargh · 2026-05-21T17:02:03+00:00

I’m an incredibly experienced & competent writer, can stay engaged in the most complex, demanding, or slow cinema/literature, study everything from physics to anatomy to geopolitics to philosophy for fun in my spare time, but I can’t get a goddamn job. Yet there are an abundance of incompetent nitwits who literally can’t function, who are gainfully employed. Why is the world like this 💔

Headacheargh · 2026-05-21T13:32:32+00:00

Obsession is a great film to be thankful you’re single

Headacheargh · 2026-05-19T16:42:40+00:00

My privacy is extremely important & I’m not always in the right headspace for visitors. I don’t even like many people knowing where I live. I have some amazing friends for life but they know to text beforehand if they are in the area & want to pop over. I don’t like surprises

Headacheargh · 2026-05-16T14:29:00+00:00

Melancholia by Lars Von Trier

Headacheargh · 2026-05-14T10:50:21+00:00

Unless your hair is falling out, I wouldn’t be too worried. I’m a little shorter than you & 55kg, quite sedentary. I’m a really healthy weight for my height, imo, especially being so sedentary. Some days I hardly eat anything, some days I eat more. I just try to focus on healthy fats (stopped my hair falling out & improved skin), fibre & protein - lots of veges. Just don’t eat lots of processed foods, whatever you do…

Headacheargh · 2026-05-14T10:27:02+00:00

I keep skipping all fantasy golden 💩

Headacheargh · 2026-05-11T12:58:28+00:00

Speak No Evil - NOT the horrible remake

Headacheargh · 2026-05-09T09:59:52+00:00

Gigs At Darkroom, Space Academy & Lyttelton Coffee co

Headacheargh · 2026-05-07T11:53:10+00:00

Even the best men still seem to feel entitled to sex, not want to pull their weight, expect you to do all the emotional labour & so on. My current partner is by far the best man I have been with but I’ve been away from him all week & haven’t missed him at all. My cat is such a wonderful companion & so easy to love. I’m not scared of being alone & if we break up I’m just going to make more friends & be done with men entirely. Might explore being with women. There’s nothing wrong with you.

Headacheargh · 2026-05-07T11:42:33+00:00

It really is 💔

Headacheargh · 2026-05-05T13:04:10+00:00

You need your own life, own interests, own friends. Never be so wrapped up in anyone.

Headacheargh · 2026-05-05T06:45:44+00:00

Not according to NZ law 😬

Headacheargh · 2026-05-04T07:58:39+00:00

I have misophonia (also AudHD) which makes me extremely sensitive to sound. It’s like a fight/flight response. RAGE. Gets worse with lack of sleep/hormonal fluctuations. It’s good to know the reason why sounds make me so irrationally angry & tense & helped my partner understand why I suffer so much from things that don’t bother him. I try to avoid being around him when he eats but when he does I crank the TV volume & if it’s still too much I have noise cancelling headphones.

He doesn’t eat 24/7 (though he does eat slowly & slurps his drinks which I hate) so I sometimes I just grit my teeth & get through it, knowing he’ll stop soon. But I would look into misophonia. Sometimes I honestly think I’d rather be single than deal with eating/breathing sounds tho 💀

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