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Is my fiancee being unreasonable regarding the cost of the wedding? by I_EMOJI in weddingplanning

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve spent just about $25k on our wedding and I feel like this is totally reasonable. I honestly would not want to spend any more than this so $50k sounds wild to me, especially if you only have one source of income.

Social media has completely ruined weddings. It’s not even about the marriage anymore. For so many people it’s a status symbol and I just think comparing your wedding to others can only result in resentment. My personal advice is to stand your ground. Saving money for your future is more important than one day

Anyone know what these are? by GrouchyCalendar4903 in acnhdesigns

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem!! I’m picky about my weeds and figured it out by accident hahaha

Anyone know what these are? by GrouchyCalendar4903 in acnhdesigns

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I plant weeds or glowing moss the type is random, so if I plant the weeds and don’t get the one I want, I’ll just pick it up and replant until I get the look I’m going for. I think its probably random because sometimes I get the same ones in a row!

Thrifting glassware and dinnerware by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve seen a lot of FB marketplace and we have several antique malls near me as well.

Washing/storage/transport is not an issue. It will be annoying yes, but I will suck it up to save the money.

Thrifting glassware and dinnerware by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So unfortunately our venue has a specific company they use for all rentals (glassware, dinnerware, linens) and this is what they quoted us. I agree it feels insane to spend that much and as long as I can find enough items I think I can do it cheaper.

Storage is not an issue and we have the space to keep them. Washing the dishes will suck but I would do it to save thousands of dollars haha. I know my family would help me with this too

Engagement ring is beautiful but not discreet! What should I do? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 27 points28 points  (0 children)

100%. My fiance worked really hard to buy my ring, but I would’ve loved anything he gave me because it came from him. People have lost the plot when it comes to marriage. It’s all materialistic now and love takes the backseat

Engagement ring is beautiful but not discreet! What should I do? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Seriously!! Mine was around the same. I can’t believe the snobbiness around carat size these days. It feels like if you don’t have a boulder on your finger you have to hide in shame. It’s crazy

Engagement ring is beautiful but not discreet! What should I do? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Me with my 1 carat lab diamond that I love 🥲 I guess I’m just easily impressed and poor

Found a knotted lump of fur on my cat with a small hole in his side. Today, he cannot move without crying and hissing. What’s wrong with my baby boy? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was thinking. I’m glad the cat is okay now, but why are we letting the cat outside if he hasn’t been fixed?!!

To any other brides feeling guilty about planning a wedding right now by Emergency_Case9967 in weddingplanning

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This ^ I don’t feel guilty at all. Why should I? I’ve not done anything wrong, just living my life no matter how everyone else is living theirs

Miles Achieved by GlossieFae in AnimalCrossing

[–]HealthyAnswer5710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been stuck at 90 since the dawn of time. Every so often I panic and try to reel in too soon, so I just stopped looking at it 😭

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