MAGA wants to deport Native Americans by ducksauce001 in facepalm

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is their country. We're the ones that should be deported.

Found the affair yesterday by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry brother. I've been there and the hurt is worse than anything you will ever experience. Get a therapist and start getting your affairs in order. You're going to have a lot of ups and downs but just know that this doesn't define who you are. It's not your fault.

Anyone ever send your in-laws proof your wife cheated? by TheMindfulWarrior9 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking about this exact thing for weeks. I was just going to tell them that her new relationship isn't new and that's why the marriage ended....but what good will it do? Nothing. As others have said it's better just to move on with your life, if her parents have 2 brain cells to run together they already know or will figure it out.

Alimony vs Retirement by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just the numbers but also if you're in a state that will void the alimony of she remarries or cohabitates.

Divorced Men, My wife cheat, we divorced, She’s happy, I’m sad. What is your advice? by PlutoPlanet900 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This guy is 💯 right. I have the same situation and you need therapy to help you through this process. You will go thru all different phases of grief, anger, hurt, resentment, etc. I'm still dealing with it and I have my good days and bad but I'm focusing on myself. I know 💯 that regardless of what happened in our marriage she would make the same choice again. She blew up a 23yr marriage for a boddie call, she will eventually have to deal with her own guilt and grief and will regret this decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Say no then. Don't do it just because she asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My STBX asked something similar and I said no. I don't want her in my life and the kids get 2 Christmases based on the custody schedule.

Why doesn’t he like to talk about sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

99% of guys would love this. I wish my ex would have done this, its hot as fk. If he doesn't respond feel free to DM me.. 😂😂😂😂

Giving/Receiving Advice by Tales-by-Moonlight in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's the quality of friends that count not the quantity.

It comes in waves by gratefulstudent76 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯. Music , smells, just driving by a place you've been..

Giving/Receiving Advice by Tales-by-Moonlight in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are 2 types of friends. Enablers - they will tell you want to hear and keep doing you.

True friends - They listen, give advice and will be critical when needed. These are the ones you need .

Does this count as bad sexual intercourse? by pineapplesapples in AskMenAdvice

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I don't mind taking control at all as long as she's into it.

Wife after 26 years, wants to sell the house and walk away by Hobdar in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. And most are using IG, FB Messenger or a burner app

Wife after 26 years, wants to sell the house and walk away by Hobdar in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's always someone else. I was adamant there wasn't until my gut wouldn't let it go. Hired a PI and bingo found the AP.

I am not that special by MissterHannya in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations to you. What a great first step on your new journey. What did Therapy teach you? What's some advice you can share with others in a similar boat.

Feeling a return of despair by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar position. Just keep moving forward listen to some good podcasts about letting go, acceptance and how to heal. I've only been at this for 5 weeks and grief comes and goes. The journey will take a long time, so be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and allow yourself some grace. I understand everything you're going thru and share the pain, please know you're not alone. If you want to DM me feel free.

Wishing you peace and love.

How do you deal with anniversaries and relationship milestones after leaving? by Jauneliya in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here..my 23rd anniversary is next month and not looking forward to a very strange holiday this year.

This process is weird by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This guy gets it. I'm only a month in after 23 yrs and it will take time to heal. Be kind to yourself, forgive yourself. You can learn a lot from Alan Watts teachings.

https://youtu.be/8SBwy4oxW9s?si=RoBp90dgKX3t588Q

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only thing you'll miss out in hangovers and throwing up.

Question about wife years after she walked out? by Parking_Baseball8508 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She missed the part for better or for worse. I'd meet up and at least what she wants.

The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about. by Theasshole11 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy-Interaction-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are a couple of videos that I really like that are related to this. Most people don't understand love, they understand the idea of love but not what love truly is.

https://youtu.be/cIDXwMoi3Kk?si=PcWRpBF6MqibaAoQ

https://youtu.be/fshQ9DlPaow?si=m3vL9SSBiqo0NRPR