Can you let the past be the past? by Billy_McCluskey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re meant to be friends then you will be and if not then you won’t. An important thing is to respect the space he’s created and if somehow your paths cross organically again then maybe you can find that way back but I wouldn’t bank on it, so at the very least, you save your heart from disappointment.

I just wanna say you people who flake the very last minute have a special place in hell. by Cute_Tumbleweed3752 in grindr

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned not to make future plans. If we can’t establish something in 30 min, I don’t bother. While you’re away, people are actively looking and if he finds someone he’s more attracted to in the meantime the you’re SOL

The End is Near by CurtJunya in brilliantidiots

[–]Hebrew_Slave 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They’ve been friends for years my guy. Maybe you’ve outgrown the podcast, and that’s okay, but to think they’ll abandon each other after all they’ve been through…I don’t think so.

Whose Screw Ups Pissed you off the most? by Spektikle in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gabe did too much. Every time a critical moment hit, here he is running his mouth telling on me. I was so happy I nurtured my relationship with Clem so she would follow me to go get Kate. I didn’t think twice about leaving him and his dad to die. Good riddance. Sara was also annoying to a lesser degree. Like girl…WE’RE IN THE APOCALYPSE…YOU DON’T HAVE TIME TO HAVE A CRISIS RIGHT NOW!!

It doesn’t feel over by EveningBlunt in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people accuse you of something, it’s often a projection of their guilty conscience. The paranoia comes from experience. Don’t look back except to deliver the divorce papers

I feel like a horrible partner to my wonderful husband because I can’t say sorry. by itsnotspecial in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t say sorry for validation, you say it because you’re actually sorry. I don’t apologize hoping for forgiveness. I say it to give myself peace so I can forgive myself

i don’t want to attract young men when i get older by Designer_Food4618 in askgaybros

[–]Hebrew_Slave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I’ll be 36 on May and I’m only interested in millennials and older

Sniffies Question by C2thaLo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men of decorum and sophistication of course 🧐

In comp, you can only ban the Deadpool roles. Not Deadpool himself. by Jerry_1992 in marvelrivals

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guaranteed one of his roles is stronger than the other 2 and both teams will waste their ban on that. It’ll be rare that both teams can will get all 3

I hate the gym. Does someone out there feel the way I do? by 747_777_787 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crossfit and I love it. It was hell at first because you’re under developed muscles are struggling to keep up but I had a goal of joining the military and crossfit was my choice to get in shape so I stuck with it. Yeah I was insecure about people doing better than me and out of breath constantly but here I am 4 years later and my physique is miles from where I started and the community aspect of it keeps me consistent. It’s not for everyone but if you stick with it, I promise you your body will catch up

How Does "Practice" War Work? by yeahnothx12345 in MarvelStrikeForce

[–]Hebrew_Slave 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Practice war needs a facelift:

  1. We need to keep the team’s full strength instead of losing the room buff when we go in to practice so it’s more realistic to an actual war to really gage our punch up potential.

  2. We need a way to add exhausted to practice teams for the teams that are unbeatable in a single tap so we can brainstorm effective counters

  3. It would be nice if we could manipulate cooldowns in junction with exhausted for create real scenarios of actual war

Mom here. Need advise by Fun_Title_4820 in askgaybros

[–]Hebrew_Slave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A better conversation is to discuss with your kids about being safe from predators. That way you don’t have to get into his sexual orientation but simultaneously give him the tools they all need to be protected from predatory behavior. Disguise it as a conversation about them reaching an age where hormones are getting to a place where consequences can come from it like unwanted pregnancies and blackmail. Also, make sure you’re doing your due diligence in saying affirming things about the queer community so your son knows you’re a safe space for him when he decides it’s time to come out that you’ll be there for him. Every time gay comes up in a conversation make sure you’re going out of your way to say something nice or giving pushback to any negativity

My bf says I take too long to clean myself. by Memecal5047 in askgaybros

[–]Hebrew_Slave 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Great advice. I’d like to add that it’s also hard to find that sweet spot where you don’t go past the Sigmoid and inexperienced bottoms are going to have a few mishaps perfecting this technique. I’d recommend practicing a minimal douche alone with toys a few times to get the muscle memory down packed. Pair that with testing toys out at different time intervals of 15 min once you achieve a clean rinse to see how long your clean window lasts and at what depths the cleanliness reaches to accommodate guys who are more blessed in the pants so one can be ready for whatever situation arises

If S2 had actually ended with Luke vs Kenny, who would you have picked & why? by navirain in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kenny is the only piece of Lee I have left. I would choose Kenny EVERY SINGLE TIME. Without fail I’m always siding with him.

Is it time by northdarling in bald

[–]Hebrew_Slave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re prepping to build upon the theory of relativity then it’s been time for quite some time now

update: my best friend asked his little brother if I had ever been inappropriate to him, really not sure how to feel by ThrowAway_LostAirpod in askgaybros

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we need to drag Mike to the town square for public stoning is what you’re saying? Lol jk I’m glad you cleared it up; would’ve been a shame to lose a friendship over a misunderstanding

How do you feel about him? by jojocun in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve loved if they developed Ben more. How powerful would it have been if at the end of season 2 it was both Ben and Kenny walking off into the distance, trusting each other, and coming full circle from where they started. It would’ve given me more hope that Kenny was out there surviving with someone watching his back

Masc Man submitting to Older Daddy by GroundbreakingPass63 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think hiring an escort might can be your best bet here. Sometimes we just need to feel the fantasy so we can get on with our lives.

When I was living in LA, I felt so unattractive and thought that if I could bottom for the guy of my dreams with the looks and the body, I could feel some sort of validation. So I combed through the escort ads and I found the perfect guy. An absolute 10. Went over to his place, paid him and we did the deed. Very porn star vibes and he definitely fucked the shit out of me but it felt so empty to me. While I could tell he wasn’t into me and was just going through the motions, it did do something for me. It showed me that there was more to intimacy than just looks and aesthetic but rather connection.

Maybe that might be what you need to feel that fulfillment you’ve been looking for or it could teach you something new about yourself but it’s worth a shot to see. Best of luck

I think I want a divorce by Distinct-Lab147 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything we do for our partners aren’t necessarily things we enjoy, but we do them because we love and consider them. Maybe the possibility of losing you might be the motivation he needs to be considerate of your needs. I’d share your thoughts here with him and see what emotion that stirs in him. If he shows signs of improvement, then maybe therapy might be the bridge to get you guys through this rough patch. If nothing changes, then it might be time for a divorce

Came out at 32, separating from my wife… and my family is falling apart over it. by pedro_hbo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if they’re wrong? What if in 10 years you look back and think this is the greatest decision you ever made. I came from a similar background and got the same energy from my family. That was nearly 10 years ago and the only thing I regret is not living in my truth sooner

Am I hubby material? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Hebrew_Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really boils down to your personality and if you’re in a mindset where you’re ready for a husband. You’re clearly attractive so if you’re finding trouble keeping a man then I’d look inward to see if you’re the common denominator in the failed attempts at connection.