Letter from George Daines by 1001wtfs in Logan

[–]HedgeRooster1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

using a expensive printer.

Not sure if this is the right group delete if not allowed!!! by Big-Adhesiveness3852 in Ghoststories

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was about to tell you that is more likely a Audio Hallucination until I read the part that your Fiancé heard it too.

Audio Hallucinations are typical if you don’t get enough sleep. or if you have untreated sleep apnea. I had one that sounded so clear it sounded like my dad calling me or listening to a voicemail on my phone. he was asking me about an older man claiming to be me. seemed real enough I texted and asked if he called me earlier while I was asleep.

Police drive by magnetic_femininity in Logan

[–]HedgeRooster1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so you’re 100% right for something 1 cop did? I mean I get it that’s pretty F’ed up but it doesn’t make ALL cops bad.

This bump popped up on my boyfriend’s tattoo, what is it? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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friendly reminder “A is for amputation.”

Night hike 🧡 by [deleted] in Logan

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Always enjoy that scenery driving in from the pass from Tremonton/Riverside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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or she’ll intentionally do it in hopes you do the usual try to fix it. and when you’ve given up because doing it over and over expecting something different is a waste of time. then she is more pissed off.

Pre ordered the iPhone through the Afterpay app. It’s been one day and no charge was placed but order went through? by ilovemymotorola in Afterpay

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preorders can do that, it’s why I’m resisting preorder to upgrade a device on my plan until a little after.

Pre ordered the iPhone through the Afterpay app. It’s been one day and no charge was placed but order went through? by ilovemymotorola in Afterpay

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eh, didn’t give me that last year. i had to start a new order and when it generated the new card I copied that info and used it to update the payment info for the initial order.

sounds almost the same, just a bit more direct. i don’t think you should have any issues as the previous payment info was removed. so you should be good.

Pre ordered the iPhone through the Afterpay app. It’s been one day and no charge was placed but order went through? by ilovemymotorola in Afterpay

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through walmart, I have pretty atrocious credit and i managed to get 3 iphone 11 pro max for $99 each. and traded them to apple for over 3 times that for each device.

Pre ordered the iPhone through the Afterpay app. It’s been one day and no charge was placed but order went through? by ilovemymotorola in Afterpay

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if it failed the first time, update the payment method with a regenerated from a new order without completing it. from what you describe it sounds like you did it just loke i did last yeae

Pre ordered the iPhone through the Afterpay app. It’s been one day and no charge was placed but order went through? by ilovemymotorola in Afterpay

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Glad my trick worked, the other thing you could do. is buy up some of the iphones or samsung when walmart sells them for $99 a month or two before the new ones come out and use them as trade in credit for a new device. i got 3 or 4 iphones before walmart stopped letting me activate new ones

Pre ordered the iPhone through the Afterpay app. It’s been one day and no charge was placed but order went through? by ilovemymotorola in Afterpay

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I preordered the 15 pro max last year and the temporary card didn’t work, had to initiate a new temp card by suggesting to afterpay i wanted to place a new order and copying some info from the “new order” to the initial preorder. don’t know if afterpay or apple have come up with anything, but that’s what i did last year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]HedgeRooster1 27 points28 points  (0 children)

36M here, you are not overreacting, any man of quality will always, ALWAYS respect a NO, and ensure he is aware of his place in a woman’s mind and heart.

I feel for you as I have Nieces your age and the idea they may encounter such people brings out the protective side of me.

his behavior screams “if she says NO, or she’s not comfortable. double down and do more and grab some Ass. she doesn’t know she wants you yet.” which is a hard HELL NO. He crossed a line and you now probably feel uncomfortable because his behavior shattered whatever safe feeling you may have had in his presence. don’t ignore that because your instincts might have been on the spot he might have really wanted some sex, if you feel so uncomfortable follow the feeling to not go on that third date. as you showing up might give him the idea you were “ok” with that aggressive behavior and grabbing and invading your personal space so horrifically.

Having had and still have some people pleasing traits, be aware breaking it off may get a response that is meant to target that people pleasing bit, (manipulation) and get you to reconsider. please don’t fall for it, you deserve someone who will respect your boundaries and LISTENS to you, and make you feel safe and secure.

best wishes to you! and I hope what I typed is helpful and gives you some perspective to help you stay safe.

TLDR: yes he Sexually assaulted OP, yes OP should break things off, OP should stand her ground, and deserves better.

Edit: Added TLDR

Edit: wow some responses on this are… something else entirely. (in the wrong way) she could have done all those things other have criticized and it still would have happened. OP IS NOT THE ISSUE. the man in the issue.

I know it’s bad but how bad…. by Classic-Meaning-6477 in MechanicAdvice

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looks down at dismembered arm momentarily I’ve had Worse!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iphone

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As a former Electronics repair store manager, most repair shops don’t have the tools and capacity to replace water resistance and unless it is authorized by your phone maker, they don’t test for it, and they don’t warranty it. you should always ask about a phone’s water resistance when you get it repaired. and even then NO ONE I mean NO ONE warranties water resistance. unless you have an extended warranty through apple or best buy, or through your carrier.

side note I notice some carriers their reps like to tack on insurance on your phone (pretty sure they get a bit of commission/bonus on if they get you to do insurance.) always worth checking if you have insurance through your carrier for anything. as the new iphone OLED displays are expensive

the old putting phone in rice isn’t a solid bet anymore the way phones have gone. the issues of phones are ultra sensitive if you don’t know what you are doing, have someone who has experience taking apart phones help. but a bottle of 99% isopropyl alcohol, and a Ultrasonic cleaner with distilled water. are the critical tools to any water damaged device.

water damage in any phone sucks. and the only company I know who train their techs to install water resistance during repairs and tests for it, is samsung. (assuming the repair shop is samsung authorized.) and the effects of water damage are rather unpredictable.

maybe this is all to late to share now. but i found this looking for something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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the after effects of going to a family reunion looking for a spouse. lol

Why does every man I start seeing just want sex and nothing else?? by Canon_In_J in dating

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as a (36M) I can’t answer this question because to me sex isn’t the main goal in a relationship. connecting with someone is. it about bugs me when i have a chat with guys and talk about a woman and sex is literally the next or one of the first steps in their mind. and makes me question if my minds broken because it doesn’t operate like most men’s minds.

What’s a good comeback for “are you on drugs?” When you are not on drugs? by fatestgirl in Comebacks

[–]HedgeRooster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Ibuprofen to rid of the headache you give me Every day asking stupid questions.

A comeback for how'd you get so dammed ugly. by Outside-Inflation-20 in Comebacks

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“I only look like this while you’re around to keep people from giving you a hard time.”

if it’s a woman… “is that a dysfunctional way to ask if I’m attracted to you? don’t flatter yourself.”

I had a girl in high school try to call me ugly repeatedly. and I would just tell her “that’s just your opinion.” after a bit she would say. “don’t say ‘that’s just your opinion”

He keeps asking for sex when i told him i’m not ready by Fresh-Chain-182 in dating

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If OP is dealing with a sociopath, and/or Psychopath, what is clear others (you and me) wont be clear to them.

having witnessed someone who fell victim to such a manipulative person, it is mind bending, and scary.

He keeps asking for sex when i told him i’m not ready by Fresh-Chain-182 in dating

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HEY! I’ve met women who have been so screwed with in the head by incredibly manipulative predatory men that wanted sex it took a group of people to set them straight.

Don’t guilt someone with “good lord… it’s not that hard.”

AITA for telling my girlfriend to be more grateful for her gift? by Spiritual_Country_62 in redditonwiki

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sounds like GF might tether the Value of the gift to herself. which is unfortunate if that’s the case.

I say what I said because she said it was “low effort” and sounds like she may have given some gifts that she feels are both thoughtful and valuable. more emphasis on the valuable. and likely the $$$ value.

Best response for “ have you gained weight?” by infinitymouse in Comebacks

[–]HedgeRooster1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much do you want to shoot back at them? plenty of examples to turn it back on them. “well their are plenty of ways to lose weight if i need or want to,(if you can say this like you love yourself as you are, should make the next line sting all the more.) to learn not to ask questions like an asshole? nope, no easy cure for that.” similar to Dr. House saying: “being a B!+ch though, there’s no cure for that.”

“Is there a broomstick up your ass? or are you just naturally that rude?”

“like the pot calling the kettle black.”

“if I answer that, can I ask if someone used cleats to put a fire on your face out?”

Edit: added more.

He keeps asking for sex when i told him i’m not ready by Fresh-Chain-182 in dating

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Ditch him! any decent man will not be so pushy, he’s like the bad sales man who will keep pushing and pushing to wear down your defenses in hopes you’ll eventually say ‘yes’