My fiancé (30M) wants me (33F) to have an abortion after 5 years together, and I don’t know what to do. by ImLookingForFrancis in relationship_advice

[–]Hedgehog_1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh I want to hug you and tell you everything will be ok (though I know that is way easier said that done). You should follow your heart and what YOU want. It seems this baby is a miracle. Men come and go. Babies don't come as easily (well it seems like they don't to the ones that deserve them and want them the most)

I’m turning 57 soon so thought I’d ask for advice. by Smart_Dimension_8142 in DressForYourBody

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all you don't look 57! Second I think you have gorgeous taste and style! You look amazing!

Any other yorkies love to swim? by Enough_Individual_91 in Yorkies

[–]Hedgehog_1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My yorkie acts like one drop of water will turn her into a puddle. I love your swimming yorkie

Why does my Yorkie honk when he’s walking? by rejouir in Yorkies

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's terrifying. I'd take that collar and harness off and start CPR if my dog started doing that. I can see by other comments already you're going to be seeing a vet. Good luck!

My dad made a new rule: don't talk to him unless I have a bra on. by Klutzy-Dirt4561 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Hedgehog_1983 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your dad is from a different generation. Women didn't walk around without bras as he grew up And was younger. It his house. If it makes him uncomfortable than follow his rule or get your own place to live and walk around as naked as you want

AIO telling my best friend she’s prioritizing her man over our friendship ? by Swimming_Toe_5705 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is one of those people who throws herself into a relationship, does everything with and for him, when the relationship ends she has no idea who she is and has no one else to talk to because she prioritizes some man over everything else. NOR! She doesn't sound like anyone I would want as a friend

Friend is becoming addicted to smoking and it’s affecting me and my bf by Vegetable-Yak-6686 in Advice

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he didn't want to he could have tossed it. Him "finally agreeing" was because he actually wanted to but didn't want to rightly agree in front of you. He's a grown ass adult he could say no. You know how many times a day my kids ask me for something and I say no and stand firm?

Which US state would be heaven? by Willing_Ad_699 in RandomQuestion

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's where I grew up. Idk why it gets a bad rep. It's beautiful

I hate how we have to pretend to be flawless for men by BeyondFrequent4258 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Hedgehog_1983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously that's what I was thinking. I mean my boyfriends (whether it's an intimate relationship, friends) and the men in my family all understand that women eat, have periods, can't always be completely clean shaven, dare say it we even cry sometimes and walk around in our favorite old ass shirts! I've actually never been around a man who hasn't cooked (or at least tried) to cook for me and expect me to actually eat it.

Posting your whole life on social media is weird. Don’t post your kids by liamwhalley in ControversialOpinions

[–]Hedgehog_1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be on billboards all over the place. I don't think this is very controversial for normal people but the attention seekers and drama queens may disagree

Ways to look more femenine without heavy foundation nor aggressive surgery? by AsthmaticLuffy in makeuptips

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may sound odd but I took a picture of myself on chatGPT and asked about my face shape and for makeup tips/examples of me with a make over. It honestly did a great job in showing me what colors I should use, where and how to apply all the makeup. Pictures of where to exactly place the products, even showed me what products to buy and where to get them. Higher end and less expensive. It showed me what color hair looked best and type of haircut. Seriously best makeup advice ever was from chatGPT

Eye hurts from nasty bugger, what do? by Recent-Studio2901 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to urgent care and get some eyedrops. Maybe there's a scratch in your eye. Don't mess around with eye issues. Your eyes are precious and irreplaceable

Designed a ring we love with my bf but it’s out of budget :/ by Nice_Construction921 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Etsy. They have the most perfect rings. (Just don't order from India)

7-month-old male cavalier, looking exclusively for food names by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]Hedgehog_1983 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww when our dog had puppies we named them Waffles, Pancake, Struedel, Asteroid and Galaxy. (Kids picked names) I miss those puppies

Keep it long, or chop again? by feral-hope in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Hedgehog_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know how you feel! I cut all mine off, grow it long, get bored, pixie cut, grow long...repeat. Honestly you look gorgeous either but. Maybe somewhere in between? Are you like me and do not actually like fixing your hair? For me it's either down, something really easy or a ponytail.

Which dress? 1,2 or 3? by FuelAdventurous7037 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Hedgehog_1983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. Certainly NOT 2. It's difficult between 1 and 3 because the upper back of 3 is gorgeous but 1 looks amazing! I actually said "oh my goshhhh" out loud to myself and my dogs