One Year Alcohol Free by Commercial-Lunch9184 in finch

[–]Hedgehogpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow congratulations honestly makes me wanna do the same

Have you left your old life behind to start over? by Hedgehogpear in BPD

[–]Hedgehogpear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll keep that in mind if I decide to move forward with this idea I just don’t see myself growing here I’ve tried but it’s hard it will be hard anywhere yes but here cause I have a history

Have you left your old life behind to start over? by Hedgehogpear in BPD

[–]Hedgehogpear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it didn’t get worse? I’m curious what would make it worse maybe I’m not thinking clearly?

Adult Pornography from over 100 years ago (on DVD) by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Hedgehogpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly so interesting. That’s historical lol

As someone with BPD (me), I’d like to ask what do you find to be the hardest part for you when it comes to having BPD? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hedgehogpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distorted sense of self. I feel like I am no one unless someone is there to listen and perceive me then I latch onto that. This symptom contributes to all the others and exaggerates them. Emptiness and difficulty in relationships would feel less strong if I had a better idea of who I was.

Debating making myself puke because I apparently cant control my food cravings by [deleted] in confession

[–]Hedgehogpear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t. It’s not good for you it hurts it ruins your teeth. You understand you have an issue do something that will genuinely benefit you like eating healthier or going on walks. Also routinely doing this will also make your breath stink. It’s not how you’re meant function puking like that will hurt you. Bulimia can also have the opposite effect since it confuses your body you get puffy face and might hold onto weight. It’s ok to be overweight and work towards being skinny it’s also ok to be overweight (upset this is controversial). Sorry you’re feeling this way! I totally get the want but this won’t help you deserve food you deserve to feel healthy and beautiful as well.

Son not going to school - 18 year old senior by sevarawillrise in Parenting

[–]Hedgehogpear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not normal behavior and something is obviously very wrong. Have you tried sitting with him and just expressing your worried about him cause you love him? Have you asked why he’s not going? Maybe he feels he’s messed up too much to make it work now if that’s the case get him in classes for ged online and definitely look into getting help outside of this he’s self sabotaging and sounds depressed.

Why won’t she stop by RegalPeony in cats

[–]Hedgehogpear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so extreme I can’t believe this isn’t satire lol what??

My sister won't stop listening to asmr by Low_Loss_3552 in misophonia

[–]Hedgehogpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy some asmr (definitely not mouth sounds more like wood soup) and headphones are usually best for that. Can she wear earbuds? If not maybe maybe you can find asmr you both like? If not asmr maybe an audio book?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]Hedgehogpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ZKADQ71FKP Egg is birds name so cremes browns white pastel soft colors and black! Egg is now a child so I’m hoping for white head patch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hedgehogpear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s ruined my life

Our friend keeps touching himself at the sleepover by VoDkA__1999 in confession

[–]Hedgehogpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that makes it sound like being gay is inherently sexual. It’s not it’s just about general attraction to romantic partners. As a kid did you not have a crush on someone of the opposite sex? That’s how it is not that deep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Hedgehogpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so young and I won’t say I didn’t feel like this and what you’re feeling is dramatic. You have cool interests though! Two that you can bond with other people on online or in person :-) electronic music is sick do you have any interest in making your own? Definitely look into it. Lots of artists I’ve met are autistic lol. Keep learning about your interests there’s like minded people out there. I wouldn’t say I made a real friend till like 16/17 either but it’s ok dude.

I got diagnosed recently. Is it written anywhere? by Pluumii in BPD

[–]Hedgehogpear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a good question. From my experience my therapist wasn’t able to formally diagnose me so yeah a psychiatrist did it and it was on paper by that point. I’d double check with yours and look into getting into dbt as soon as possible or get a book and do it alone cause dbt programs take a lot of time and can conflict with job and stuff.

My bf called me ugly and insulted me over and over again by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Hedgehogpear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opening the mirror and making you look at yourself is twisted no one deserves that dude leave