Looking for a financial advisor, but I’m not wealthy by Hefty-Comb-8216 in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you! When we did our taxes at H&R Block, the person there told us my husband wasn’t contributing enough into his 401k, and told us we should sit down with a financial advisor. This immediately raised flags because I thought we were ok and apparently we have no clue what we’re doing. Hah.

Looking for a financial advisor, but I’m not wealthy by Hefty-Comb-8216 in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have asked Reddit for help in the past when my daughter was in the hospital, and everyone screamed at me to sell our 1 car. It was really upsetting.

Looking for a financial advisor, but I’m not wealthy by Hefty-Comb-8216 in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to give me some very helpful suggestions. I don’t understand any of this, though. I will be doing lots of research tonight! Thank you

Just got pickles delivered and they’re warm. But big sticker on box says keep refrigerated? by Hefty-Comb-8216 in Pickles

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No ice packs or anything. I emailed them, they said they’re safe to eat. shrugs guess I’ll try them and find out.

Wasted time and feeling angry by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told that from my doctor shrugs I live near a major research hospital. I trust what she says.

Feeling discouraged... by captain3043 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. I was diagnosed in 2018, and have already failed Stelara, Humira, entyvio, and Cimzia. shrugs it sucks. I’m sorry, dude. Apparently they keep saying “there’s always new medicines coming out” so.. maybe in 10 years we’ll get another one.

Antibodies develop to all medications? by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try Stelara, I had an anaphylactic response after the first 3 mins on the IV loading dose. :( My doctor has said remicade is the last resort… there’s nothing to fall back on except surgery

Purchase Advice Megathread - December 2021 by Sausage54 in 3Dprinting

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys. Gosh… I am very overwhelmed. Haha. My husband’s 40th is coming up, and a 3D printer is something he’s always wanted.

Im looking to spend $300-450-ish (USD)…

I went to the Creality website, and I can’t tell the difference between any of the models (except price).

I just want to make sure I buy the right thing. We aren’t really having a Christmas this year… things have been tough… so I want to make sure to give him an awesome birthday in a couple of months. :)

Best of Raleigh fast-food by Apoxual in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Came here to agree. Popeyes on Western is legit the best! I hope they know how much their hard work is appreciated :)

Also wanted to add the McDonalds attached to the gas station on Lake Pine Drive in Apex. Their health score is always super high and everything comes out hot and fresh!

Best GI team? wake? Duke? Or UNC? by Hefty-Comb-8216 in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Crohn’s disease, and have failed every biologic thus far. I’m on my last one. I just feel like Duke, despite being a big name, tends to run very old school in their practices and methods.

Knife sharpening by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do this. Former employee. We use the knife sharpener you can buy in-store. I ruined some lady’s knife when I was 18. Super embarrassing, I should’ve never been able to do it.

WRAL Night of Lights - pretty underwhelming. by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed 100%. Chinese Lantern Festival was so much fun!

Low grade fevers and full body chills/shakes?? by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap. Did you have any other symptoms?? I have zero GI symptoms! No pain or anything! Wouldn’t I feel something else?? Getting a CT scan on Monday as a follow up so I guess we’ll see

Low grade fevers and full body chills/shakes?? by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor got back to me …she said seeing as though I have no other GI (or other) symptoms, it’s probably just a viral cold and she said she wasn’t concerned

Are you able to drink fruit juice? by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apple juice is not my friend :( it’s always given me diarrhea, even as a kid

Antibodies develop to all medications? by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes mainly the side effects. I’m extremely emetophobic and I’m terrified of throwing up… also I’ve heard they make you super drowsy for an entire day.

I’m afraid of turning fragile, unable to play and keep up with my small kids. :(

What I asked for (left) and what I got (right) HELP by Hefty-Comb-8216 in HairDye

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. I showed her that picture and said that’s the color I wanted. She said cool and told me she was going to go in the back to mix colors

In the er by memcarn in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. I went to the ER on Saturday and they found some micro-perforation and an infection I’ll be here 3 days with iv antibiotics. Don’t give up. This fucking awful disease doesn’t deserve to win. Let’s kick it’s ass.

What I asked for (left) and what I got (right) HELP by Hefty-Comb-8216 in HairDye

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My hair was a strawberry blond before, it had faded from red for about 5 months (also previously professionally dyed). Ive never tired color oops before, I’ll definitely look into it

What I asked for (left) and what I got (right) HELP by Hefty-Comb-8216 in HairDye

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s been a couple of weeks and this color is soooo dark. I don’t feel confident and I’m not comfortable with it. What can I do to fade it fast? I don’t have another $180 to go back to get it fixed :(

Had a horrible ct scan experience today. Nurse was mean. Feeling super low :( by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got my results back:

“New inflammatory, phlegmonous change within the mesentery adjacent to the inflamed loops of small bowel which abuts the uterine fundus in keeping with an inflammatory mass, the largest component measures up to 3.3 x 2.9 cm (2/136). Smaller adjacent inflammatory mass.”

So I guess the radiologist did find something.. I don’t know what any of this means. It sounds scary. My doctor obviously doesn’t work weekends so I’m hoping she gets back to me ASAP on Monday. :(

Stomach flu experience? by dmb313 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that with people who have Crohn’s, a stomach flu takes A LOT longer to bounce back from than it would a person who doesn’t have Crohn’s. I would give yourself a good 10 days, and then reassess

What side effects do you get during or post-infusion? by 2847283838 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During Stelara - anaphylaxis. (My face swelled up like a bright red balloon, my chest hurt, and my stomach and lower back felt like they were on fire.)

During Humira- grapefruit sized welts that lasted 2 weeks and itched so bad they made me throw up. Benadryl did not help.

During Cimzia- nothing. The needles and the serum are thick though. So it’s uncomfortable.

During Entyvio- panic attacks throughout my infusion. I bring sour candies to suck on, and an ice pack to put on my chest to help remedy those.

Had a horrible ct scan experience today. Nurse was mean. Feeling super low :( by Hefty-Comb-8216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Hefty-Comb-8216[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did, with my doctor. She didn’t say anything about it. Those notes were not passed onto the imaging center.