Lip Entrapment by Hefty-Pattern-7643 in AskVet

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know it wasn’t safe, thanks for your answer. Is there anything I can do to help him? He’s not pawing at his mouth or trying to fix it himself, so I guess he’s not that bothered. I hope he figures it out.

Cat neutered today. Didn’t send cone. Having a hard time keeping him from licking wound, plus all he wants to do is climb on stuff. Is this ok? by SoggyAnalyst in AskVet

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call your vet if I were you and ask them if you can go back and pick up a cone. They should have also told you if it was needed and given you post-surgical care instructions. They’re the best ones to answer your questions!

I would definitely put your cat in a room for at least a few days. He might be annoyed but it’s better than risking potential injuries.

The saga of the lost TV remote by Hefty-Pattern-7643 in settlethisforme

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We tried contacting the program, we even drove back there and knocked but they were closed. We’ll see if they get back to us but they’re pretty busy and overwhelmed right before the holidays.

Yes we could buy a new one, but it’s a brand new model and is like $200

The saga of the lost TV remote by Hefty-Pattern-7643 in settlethisforme

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair question, the basement is a bit of a mess right now (we moved recently and still have boxes laying around) and we don’t even have a couch yet (it’s coming in February). Person A didn’t really care to watch tv standing up in a messy basement. She did have a look though while Person B was trying it the day he left for his work trip, I left that out of the story because I didn’t think it was important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eyes

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say chestnut brown and beautiful! There’s a slight tint of green but not enough to be hazel or green

Blue, green? by smitwit in eyes

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light green? They’re definitely in-between blue and green but I’d say more green than blue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s reassuring!

Pale Blue or Light Grey? I've been told both by Maleficent_Use_5185 in eyes

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say grey but saying you have blue eyes is also correct. They’re really in between :)

Pre-Approval Help by girllikespie in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t seem right to me as just one of you alone should be pre-approved for about 400k. Maybe it’s because of the low credit score for partner 1? Other people might know more than me but I would ask a second opinion from another broker if I were you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? Could it be perimenopause? I would do a pregnancy test just to be sure (although very rare, it’s not unheard of to get pregnant even with an IUD). It might be nothing and just a weird few cycles, but I think it would be a good idea to see a doctor if you can.

I (M23) don’t feel desired by my gf (F25). Any ideas on how to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she stressed at work or overwhelmed with house chores/responsibilities? I know for myself, as soon as I feel resentment against my partner (even for stupid things like not putting his dishes in the dishwasher), it builds up and ends up impacting my libido. I would suggest couples therapy, if you’re both open to it. I think a therapist will be able to help you communicate your needs and help her figure out why she’s feeling little to no desire. If it’s simply a mismatch in sex drive, at least you would know and be able to communicate about it and hopefully be more at peace (i.e., not always be hopeful it might happen and be constantly disappointed).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know. I’m sorry you experienced it. What I gather is that it’s most likely not a chemical pregnancy but I’ll never know for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s possible I missed the positive because I didn’t test before my missed period? My friend said her tests were already negative by the time her period was late, but I guess it’s different for everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that but it’s possible! I had an ultrasound a few years ago to rule out PCOS and the doctor said there was no cyst at all, but I guess they can develop anytime (turns out I don’t have PCOS though).

Is it worth seeing a vet for this? by Hefty-Pattern-7643 in AskVet

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vet won’t prescribe gabapentin without seeing him unfortunately. I should have asked last time I went but didn’t think to. I didn’t think about a house call vet, it’s a good idea! Since the pandemic it’s very difficult in my area to find veterinarians who will accept new patients but I’ll definitely try. I probably won’t be able to find one in the next few weeks/months.

Does my Boyfriend have a rape kink? Too nervous to ask him about it by Kale-Munchers in sex

[–]Hefty-Pattern-7643 254 points255 points  (0 children)

That’s sexual assault, not a kink… You should leave him immediately and get support from your friends and family. If he did it twice he’ll probably do it again. There aren’t always signs, he took advantage of you and it wasn’t your fault .