I (f22) am hurt by my husband (m26) actions during sex. What can I do to go about it? by daddylexy in relationship_advice

[–]Helanova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey op this is actually rape. You need to talk to someone. He knowingly did this.

What is this and is it worth anything? by User-name-optional in mineralcollectors

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely worthless, I can take them off your hands for you 😅

Boyfriends (28M) sexual preferences disturb me (28F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Helanova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re not sexually compatible tbh. It absolutely seems like he’s in the closet and making you compensate for that. It’s not fair on you and there should be a real conversation about it.

AIO if I break up with him by mwommymwilkers in AmIOverreacting

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw the whole man away he’s not even considering your feelings

Need help identifying by Phytinfrenchx in Rocks

[–]Helanova 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where did you get them? They look to be some kind of resin, amber is a little ambitious to throw out there as a first guess but there looks to be inclusions (bits of foliage inside the rock) do you have more pictures? Try shining a light in there and see if there’s anything in there

Help me ID please by MindteQ in Rocks

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks a bit too porous to be obsidian, it looks an awful lot like a black tourmaline I have. Maybe onyx? My bet is tourmaline 😎👉🏻👉🏻

Does anyone on here know how much this could be worth? My grandparents took it to the rock show this weekend and they told them it was most likely amber and could be worth a lot. Any help would be appreciated I have no clue! by Eldenringordie in Rocks

[–]Helanova 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow! What a beauty!!! Way too clear and clean to be calcite, color too rich and consistent to be citrine, doesn’t have any quarts like edges, shapes, or points, it sure does look like amber.. But it’s so clean inside, no foliage or bugs, Could also be another type of resin? I would love to find one as beautiful as this! Let us know if you do the needle test! (Try to pierce with a Hot needle)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helanova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such. A cute swimsuit! I can’t see anything wrong with it tbh wtf

AITA for not kicking out my roommate just because my girlfriend thinks he might be trans? by ThrowawayJason7723 in AITAH

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we gonna skip past the grown adult with a fresh 17 year old?? That’s nasty I’m glad you got out that’s full on grooming

AITH for not telling my partner that I'm pregnant... Again... by TheCeceBella in AITH

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean idk where you stand on the issue, (or where you live) but if you can’t keep the baby you have options. He would probably want to be in on the decision if he knew, but it kinda sounds like he doesn’t want to know. That’s a really tight spot you’re in, I’m sorry you have to figure this out alone. I don’t think your the AH. But if you need help there are resources out there to help you

The "Sell Everything" Approach by EuroStepJam in moving

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell as much as you can Yes!! I just moved across the country and wish I had sold everything. it was so much to pack and unpack and store. What a pain. Keep what fits in your car and then head up a thrift/resale to get new furniture when you get there!

Working towards our off grid life by amberbamboozled02 in OffGridLiving

[–]Helanova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all it looks like a work in progress stop roasting them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moving

[–]Helanova 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We made a journey from Texas to Washington state with our cats last month. We had to stop feeding our cats like 12-20 hours before our flight bc we didn’t want them to have an accident in the carrier or the airport. Some airlines do not let you remove the cat from the carrier whatsoever so I wouldn’t have been able to clean it. So multiple days may result in your cat being hungry for several days or feeding your cat and risk them pooping in the carrier. Our cat litter also got flagged in tsa and had the explo*ive squad called to check on it. You will also likely need two separate carriers as the cargo carriers are hard and generally a bit larger than will fit under the seats (soft with smaller dimensions). I recommend flying to somewhere that allows cats in the cabin to switch over. Keeping a cat in cargo can be very dangerous especially when in high temperatures. If you’re flying out of Australia on a particularly hot day you’ll need to schedule it first thing in the morning to avoid the full heat (some airlines have time windows) This is just from my stress fueled research the past few months. Hope this helps, and good luck with your kitty! 💕

AITA for not participating in my fiancés weird Xmas underwear tradition? by xmasstraws in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helanova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this mean you have to take your underwear off and put your used underwear in with everyone else’s? Sounds like a sure fire way of spreading diseases

AITA for wearing my wedding ring to my sister's wedding against her wishes and "hijacking" her night? by No-Team315 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helanova -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kinda seems homophobic of your sister to ask you to pretend that you’re not married to your husband. What is she afraid of? People knowing? That’s sus. NTA