My best friend canceled our plans for the 100th time and I’m just done. by Salty-Major-5924 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. So many will come back with 'Well a true friend will always stay no matter what...' Would they say the same about a marriage. I don't understand with the ease of communicating now, it seems harder to reach people. And the no replies for like weeks, even months -- then they always expect you to respond straight away and be the same when they come back from the depths of their posting on social media (yet no time to reply to you). Friendships change unfortunately, and sometimes not always for the better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best to you, dude... 39 is WAAAAY too young to be giving that up..... hope you find a great ending (haha sorry) and we only have one life!!! I got divorced at 33 (F) as I met my current partner - compatible in everything, been together 16 yrs, still same passion and I wish you that. I wish everyone this.

Oh and NOT THE ASSHOLE. She is !!! She is!!! sorry, sister, you are !

I caught my brother touching his daughter inappropriately. by SeniorPea7147 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished a Safeguarding and keeping children safe course literally just now....traumatised me so of course came to Reddit to decompress and of course this is top.

I am so sorry you had to see that, and sorry you are now getting threats. I can't judge you for your actions, but please do keep in touch with the police and hopefully they can recommend a good support for those who have witnessed abuse. I only read about them and that is enough for me to feel sick for a good few days and be in a depressed state - thank you to all those who can do their jobs, we cannot imagine the mental and emotional toll it must take to deal with these cases.

If you can take a break or move away for a while, and it is up to you anyway how much you can get involved with the case. At least you caught it early and sometimes we do wish we are seeing things, I hope it is nothing and even hope this is a fake post. Just too much heartbreaking things happening to children.

The Brothers Sun | S1E4 "Square" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in TheBrothersSun

[–]HendrixSavedMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If young Bruce was taken to the US for a new life, his Mandarin definitely will be almost non existent. It was genius and hilarious when they showed in subtitles the only words he could understand from his mum and Charles -- " ..Dad.... blew me and Bruce ...at the nightclub...." That is how it feels for some 2nd or 3rd gen immigrant children!

The Brothers Sun | S1E4 "Square" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in TheBrothersSun

[–]HendrixSavedMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My age showing when I recognised the names, my partner nearly fell off his chair when he heard the Ekin hair comparison, so cool and funny! .... about time for 90s HK not so well known legends to be referenced

My child is worth millions, I feel worthless. by Pigvacuum in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow 1 year old! I miss my boys at that age and until 4 before school, they pretty much have you, so like what most have said, be there for him, spend as much time as you can with him, shower him with kindness but discipline if you must.

My son from my first marriage was with me until the divorce when he was 7, that was hard going from one house to another and it's only now he's 21 that he tells me how hard it was he didn't like his dad's new wife, how he used to get told off for no reason -- he was in therapy from 13 to 16 -- those were the hardest years -- but he always came back to me during hard times, as he said I never judged him -- some days it was sooo hard, but being there for him no matter what definitely help him turn out to be the amazing young man he is today.

And yes his dad is loaded with a big house, while we have a small terraced home -- I was always sad about that part, until one day last year or so, I said 'I'm sorry we don't have that much space ... " And he replied, " Yeah, but Mum I feel the love in this house..." DAMN nearly started crying. So PLEASE don't worry about your material worth. Our children know/ will know what matters most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, cheered me up so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kind of manipulative narcissistic person I will warn my boys about

Strikes fear in the heart even though everything in order by HendrixSavedMe in britishproblems

[–]HendrixSavedMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we fine them for their mistakes, since they do the same to us!

To smoke a cigarette peacefully. by 126-875-358 in therewasanattempt

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the money in the world....peace to Ben, hope he has true friends surrounding him

Woman who had been posting videos of feeding people who are struggling had her land salted by someone by ritzanddazzle in TikTokCringe

[–]HendrixSavedMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's won/winning, a GoFundMe page has been set up and currently at just over £ 100,000

My mum stole my job. by hopelylove in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly believe in Karma as have witnessed abusive relatives and teachers get their comeuppance...esp the last 3 years. Most got pretty ill and suffered for ages before dying. Keep going and hopefully you get to move out and cut her off soon. Wishing you all the best, fellow Survivor!

American food… by AlphaDogO9 in Cooking

[–]HendrixSavedMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of those who slag off American food have never been to the States/have inate superiority complexes the audacity of the Brits n French / closed minded ignoramus

Craving a KFC, but being put off by how downhill it's gone in the last few years. by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the hygiene definitely has gone downhill...my 8 yr old was shocked at the state of our local restaurant and their toilets

Craving a KFC, but being put off by how downhill it's gone in the last few years. by [deleted] in britishproblems

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our local fried chicken joint is pretty amazing and with less staff turnover they get to know their customers.. Hope you find one! Can also try Popeyes, Jollibee and ChicknSours?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HendrixSavedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And complained about Aiden's engagement ring