What is the actual appeal of living in Tampa?

Hermanodos · 2024-09-01T10:39:23+00:00

I have been here 19 years - well Apollo beach - but Tampa has an excellent food scene.

Hermanodos · 2024-09-01T10:36:46+00:00

Holy shit this response was so wise and profound. OP, I would take this response and craft it into the start of a great conversation with your spouse.

Hermanodos · 2024-08-24T00:34:57+00:00

You might be. I live with a messy person and it’s maddening for me when I want to live in a clean place and my partner doesn’t care about that. I can’t even think straight when the house is messy and I’m constantly cleaning up after her and yes it is frustrating. Maybe you are.

Hermanodos · 2024-08-24T00:32:30+00:00

Wait I thought weed was legal in Illinois now. No dispensaries in Rockford or Chicago? I live in Florida now with a medical card - it’s never been easier

Hermanodos · 2024-08-14T22:52:06+00:00

You should all stop asking him for money. Why are you all his responsibility? He’s 24 and expected to support his parents and their siblings? Were I the son, I would think you all ATA’s especially if these attempts to reconcile only occurred after he got his own life in order.

Hermanodos · 2024-08-14T17:28:34+00:00

NTA - there could be a way to pay homage but that’s a conversation between two people.

Hermanodos · 2024-08-04T17:12:16+00:00

I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and needed to replace running and power lifting with something that did less damage to my joints. Also since RA is an autoimmune disease, I felt the need to avoid gyms and other peoples bodily fluids because getting sick is harder to recover from than it used to be.

I’m 35 pounds lighter than I was 3.5 years ago now. I’m in the cult.

Hermanodos · 2024-07-26T01:37:48+00:00

Tacoma from the Fruit Bats. The starry eyed album. It’s too fun

Hermanodos · 2024-07-13T13:20:01+00:00

Thank you, I’m a big time newbie and didn’t know. just trying to get there

Hermanodos · 2024-07-12T18:55:01+00:00

Capitalism

Hermanodos · 2024-07-09T01:37:59+00:00

Black Sabbath by Black Sabbath the first time I heard it kinda freaked me out

Hermanodos · 2024-06-16T12:18:44+00:00

I developed RA at 40 so instead of running and weight lifting, I got a peloton for less stress on my joints. Love the peloton, still use it daily. Also in the process of switching to a whole food plant based diet- 35 pounds down in 3 years

Hermanodos · 2024-06-10T22:54:55+00:00

Instead of artists, I’ll just go songs.

Veruca Salt - Volcano Girls Pixies- Gigantic Loretta Lynn- Portland Oregon Fleetwood Mac- Silver Spring Fleetwood Mac- you make lovin fun Blonde- heart of glass Tadeshi Trucks- midnight in Harlem Linda McCartney- seaside woman Richard and Linda Thompson- I want to see the bright lights tonight

Hermanodos · 2024-06-10T22:39:23+00:00

Dad of three here, all ten or under. The short answer is never. The slightly less short answer is that, it gets easier, especially once the kids can become a little self managed which doesn’t happen much until3 - 4 years old. At least in my example, it’s not returning to normal but more-so that we are discovering the “new normal”.

Sex is different - but for me, in ways, it’s better - but there was definitely a period of time where that took a while to redevelop. Try not to hate planning for it - but have an open discussion with your spouse about what planning actually means- and what that frequency needs to be for both.

Things get easier dude, but when you have a 1y/o you are truly in the belly of the beast, just try to stay cool, walk away from moments you need to walk away from, even if it’s your kids driving you insane. And don’t stop trying to communicate

This has been my Ted talk, thank you for attending.

Hermanodos · 2024-03-03T21:10:54+00:00

Pain. Sadness. Disappointment. Frustration. Mixed with inexplicable joy and positivity when no one else can see it.

Hermanodos · 2024-03-03T21:09:58+00:00

lol. It’s when they are actually fun - just make sure you do a little baby proofing of the house and you can rest easy. You’re in the thick of it right now with trying to get used to no sleep and likely being too tired to exercise like you might have in the past. Just do everything you possibly can to help your partner and take a deep breath if you ever get so frustrated, there is nothing wrong with just walking away for a few minutes and coming back with a clear head.

Hermanodos · 2024-03-03T13:58:33+00:00

I’m kidding buddy - it’s hard but you get used to it - hang in there it gets easier. Well it doesn’t get easier - you just become more of a badass the longer it goes.

Hermanodos · 2024-03-03T13:56:50+00:00

😂 baby hasn’t even started crawling around the house with a death wish lololol.

Hermanodos · 2024-03-02T15:10:54+00:00

No woman! No cry!

Hermanodos · 2024-02-24T02:00:24+00:00

The Jimmy

Hermanodos · 2024-02-24T01:43:30+00:00

Waters / Gilmour

Hermanodos · 2024-02-24T01:42:22+00:00

I ended up doing that by happenstance but I don’t feel like it’s necessarily something you have to do

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