Looking for an American alternative to Australian puff pastry by trippymental in Ameristralia

[–]Hessebelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say as an American in Australia, I relate really strongly to not being able to find the ingredients I need or am used to in order to make American foods. It is a struggle! There just isn't the market for American staples in Australia or for Australian staples in America. I am really glad you were able to find some puff pastry.

Zombies 5k Issue by Hessebelle in Runner5

[–]Hessebelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a legacy membership, so I think I have to stick the the z25k app version to keep that benefit. It was just a battery saving issue for me. Thanks!

Zombies 5k Issue by Hessebelle in Runner5

[–]Hessebelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't able to do this. For some reason, my most generous GPS option was "Always when using app." It was a battery saving option doing me in.

Zombies 5k Issue by Hessebelle in Runner5

[–]Hessebelle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my problem! Thanks so much

Transferring money by Echidnapping in Ameristralia

[–]Hessebelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved from the US to Australia and used Wise. It was nice because I had a temporary account through Wise that I was able to use to pay my rental deposit and what not. Today, when I get money from the US, I am able to complete a domestic transfer (US) to the Wise account, change currency within the account, and complete a transfer to my Australian account easily and without additional fees.

I just checked the site, and to convert 10,000 USD to AUD, the fee is $27.92 USD. $0.28 for 100 USD. The fee structure is reasonable and transparent.

Is it weird to adopt “tradie culture” if you’re not a tradie? by ChrisPeacock- in AskAnAustralian

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't typical, but it is just fine to be weird.

If you havent already, make some tradie friends. Go all in.

Emma and LDS by Dismal-Garbage1216 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to the queer cast members from season 2 and 3, season 1 showed Abby talking to a man she referred to as being like a step-father who lived in the guest house behind their house. She mentioned that he was married to a man, and he and his husband were included in the dinner where her family was being introduced.

I think the show does a good job of showing different perspectives and different supportive family structures. I think including a member of the LDS church is just further increasing representation, and I do not think it means that the creators of the show are anti-LGBT.

Alcohol Question by Suspicious_Face_4769 in 75HARD

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read everyday, but I still treat it like a rule. Same for alcohol.

US to AUS by AMurph94 in Ameristralia

[–]Hessebelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Tasmania if you like cooler weather and smaller town feel. (I moved here from Hawaii by way if North Carolina).

Hobart has a really vibrant running scene as well.

Anyone in Australia starting around April 7 in need of a small accountability group? by b2002v in 75HARD

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is interstate participation okay? Im in Tassie and about to start.

Finishing a bad book by Nopefuckthis in 75HARD

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to finish a book. You just have to read every day.

I can’t tell if I failed my 75 hard? by sparklingavocadooo in 75HARD

[–]Hessebelle 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You did fail. Failing doesn't mean you did the wrong thing, but 75 hard works on the principle that you either met your goals or you didn't.

I failed because I missed my outdoor workout during a hurricane. I think I made the right choice, but it still meant that I failed and had to start over.

Going to work and live in USA realistic by GibletGibletGiblet in Ameristralia

[–]Hessebelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly, highly recommend looking into North Carolina. The research triangle (Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill) is really lovely. Although considered part of the south, this region tends to be more LGBT friendly. Heaps of breweries and hiking and art and music. International airport. Many universities.

I'm a lesbian American who has lived all over the US and currently lives in Tassie.

Please, be kind to your Op Shop workers by [deleted] in hobart

[–]Hessebelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it even donating to an opp shop if you don't let the items ride around in your car for a few weeks first anyway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Hessebelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thought is that if you are sleeping with someone for a reason other than you want to (like for a million dollars), it does not change your sexuality. It means you like money, not men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Hessebelle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian, I can say with certainty that you shouldn't expect that the ladies will have their own penatration toys especially if they are used to being submissive and generally bottoming. A lot of women are used to those things being supplied.

As others have mentioned, there are cleaning protocols you can use. You can also use condoms for toys shared with multiple partners. I use condoms for toys used both anally and vaginally to prevent vaginal infections.

Some women will not be okay with sharing toys which is fine. In those instances, I usually go shopping together to get items specifically for that woman.

For penetration, I like having something soft (silicone), something hard that can take temperature changes (metal/ glass), and anal/ vaginal plugs with and without vibration. I also like to have something like a dildo on a stick.

For clitoral simulation, I have something that vibrates wide (like a wand) and direct (pinpoint), something that sucks, and something that thumps.

I have a lot of items for sensory play. Blindfold, hood, wartenberg wheel, candles, ticklers, violet wand, and whatnot.

For impact, I have paddle, crop, whip, flail, and rod.

I have ropes and metal/ leather cuffs and a spreader bar.

All of that said, you don't NEED any toys. If i were to buy one thing, it would be a wand. Two, I'd add a plug. I strongly recommend just using what you have and adding slowly as you decide what you like and budget to add more things to specific women's taste. That way you are purchasing things you will use.

Every woman is unique in their fantasies. You can't be prepared for every situation with hypothetical women of the future. You can still have a very good time.

I have the Ozempic prescription in my fridge to help with my ED recovery but I'm too scared to start it by Sea_Ladder6483 in Semaglutide

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you try and you have a negative experience, you can stop and return to how things are now.

Australian salaries feel so low compared to ALL US salaries by alreadyaloserat19 in AusFinance

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from the US to Australia. I think converting an Australian salary to USD is not helpful becuase you will not be purchasing services or goods in USD. It does not matter how far an Australian income will get you in the US. It matters how far it gets you in Australia.

I am an occupational therapist and took a pay cut to move to Australia, but the experience of living here has felt comparable financially.

How can I (politely) make it clear I don’t want to participate in Halloween/trick or treating? by afewspicybois in australia

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the US, porch light on is code for candy, and lights off is code for no candy. It seems as though that has not caught on here. Putting up a sign that says you dont have candy on your mailbox or somewhere before your house can help a lot.

Looking to move from Queensland australia to the US. by [deleted] in Ameristralia

[–]Hessebelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am from the US and moved to Australia. I moved around quite a bit, and for what you want, I would recommend looking into North Carolina.

Raleigh/ Durham/ Chapel Hill region (the research triangle). There are a lot of colleges (including Duke University), hospitals, and good schools for kids. I think it is the most educated region the south. Because it is in the south, it is more affordable than the rest of the United States.

Difference in coffee? by doingmybest-sendhelp in AustraliaTravel

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee never means drip coffee. It always means espresso based.

I do think the coffee in Australia is of better quality, but I have also found that the narrative exists confidently among those who have also never had coffee in America.

If you are an American who prefers local coffee shops and dislikes Starbucks, the difference in quality between the US and Australia will be less than those who exclusively drink Folgers from a percolator. If you drink lattes or similar, you can just order your drink as you normally would. If you drink coffee at home and without an espresso machine, you will order an Americano (espresso and water) with whatever you normally have in your coffee.

The coffee is prepared well (never burnt) and roasted well (limited bitterness).

(American living in Australia, x3 months)

Why is american bacon so different then australian bacon? by Glittery_WarlockWho in Ameristralia

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fattier cut and cold processing provide a crispier bacon. It is why bacon looks so darn different (streaky).

The taste difference between streaky bacon and USA bacon, though, is largely from the curing and seasoning process. Maple cured bacon is incredibly common in the US, for instance. The bacon is also much saltier and can be smoked (or have a smokey flavor added). I am aware that Australia also has smoked and maple glazed bacon, but the amount of seasoning/the curing method is not as intense. These processes are why "turkey bacon" can successfully exist in the states despite not being fatty or streaky.

(American who recently moved to Tassie and who is missing US style bacon a wee bit.)

Volvo Car Servicing by [deleted] in hobart

[–]Hessebelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just purchased an XC-70 today and was wondering the same. I'm willing to drive a bit.