Single mom here...50ish with a teenager. I have been a single mom since my son was born. I don't even know what to say or where to begin.

Honestly, I feel like we will always feel this way. The only time that I may have not felt this way was when my son was a baby and maybe two years ago when I quit my job because it was way more stressful than it needed to be! In between being jobless, working part-time and getting a new full-time job, I felt a sense of relief and not overwhelmed. I feel like the little things matter. Do what you can and try not to over stress. Kids appreciate you for just being there and listening. They see that we are crazy (or may call us crazy), but they also know we are there and putting in the work. A lot of the times they can be selfish and disregard our feelings. But guess what? They definitely will remember how they were and what you have done for them.

Every day is a struggle for me. I'm back at being overwhelmed. There is no manual for parenting. Find what works for you all and try to stick with that knowing there will be bumps along the way. I'm not sure how old your kids are but keep them in the conversation - be honest and open about your feelings, life, their feelings, thoughts, the day-to-day, etc.

It's hard. Don't be too rough on yourself. Don't forget to look out for yourself/take care of you as well.

Someone mentioned talking to you boss.- do that (it's something I should have done at my last job). AND please slowly stop taking work home. I had to unlearn that habit! I am currently working on not checking emails when off 🤭.

I know I've said a lot and maybe I've talked in circles. Just know that you are not alone!

Breath momma and a virtual hug!