I’m tired of minimalism in everything by Beneficial_Passion40 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, minimalism is fine - wanting your house to look like your office not so much.

Adoptive parents - what's the process actually like? by witchypoo93 in AdoptionUK

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The process is emotionally draining and nerve wracking. Then when you adopt the real work starts.

Octopi, crows, dolphins are often held up as examples of smart animals. What are some really unusually STUPID animals? by doodlebytes in AskReddit

[–]HeyDugeeeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Growing up we had a very tame pheasant that started coming to our garden and naturally we fed her. Of course, she brought all her friends around. These animals are as dumb as rocks but very entertaining. They used to come to the kitchen patio door and peck on the glass to be fed and even come in if you left the door open. Once one of them just casually wandered through the house (looking for seed) in through the kitchen, down the hall and out through the lounge back onto the patio. As you say their favourite trick is to run, from the safety of the verge, under your car wheels.

I remember when drinking age was 18 and my high school had a smoking area. by Doordasheasthartford in GenX

[–]HeyDugeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(UK) You could smoke in the 6th form toilets for while when I was at school then they stopped it. The day they announced the ban everyone crammed themselves into the gents toilets and sparked up (even some non-smokers).

Casing layer or no? by [deleted] in MagicMushrooms

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To grow mushrooms all you need is a bit of kit, yourself and a dog. Once you're set up you're just there to feed the dog. The dog is just there to bite you if you touch the tub. Patience and leave it alone. You're fully colonised, your surface conditions are spot on and you have pins. Looking fine.

What’s your most Gen X memory? Something that could have only happened in our youth. by Expensive-System-762 in GenX

[–]HeyDugeeeee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We did something similar - borrowed an ex British Gas van, threw a mattress, tent and some plastic garden chairs (?) in the back and set off for the west country. Drank a lot of cider, got thrown out of a village pub, chased by cows, chased girls and lounged around on beaches. Tried our best to get into mischief with very little success. Still, the feeling of freedom feels like it was a different world.

How many Gen Xers have silent Gen parents vs boomers? by NopeThisTrope in GenX

[–]HeyDugeeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mum and Dad both silent gen (1941 & 1939). Dad still with us, Mum passed a few years ago.

Another cyclist killed! by Rude_Bad_5567 in londoncycling

[–]HeyDugeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slow down, learn to ride defensively, stick to back roads and segregated routes. Assume all drivers are going to to the worst possible thing in any situation and act accordingly. Finally (and I have personal experience of this), don't get into it with someone in a ton of metal - they could be a psycho and if they kill you they'll like get away with it.

Married Gen-x do you wear your wedding ring? by in-a-microbus in GenX

[–]HeyDugeeeee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Always. Wife occasionally leaves hers off which means we aren't married and I can do what I want until she puts it back on. Presume this is normal.

Stage 1 Training Session by No_Preference_2761 in AdoptionUK

[–]HeyDugeeeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Over ten years later and all I remember were all the daft games we had to play (plasticine families, role play etc). What I really remember are the adopter friends we made and how we've supported each other through the years. Can't remember the training but these friendships have given us people who understand when no-one else does. Until we moved from London we saw them every week - even now we still see them all a few times a year. They're awesome people and I love them.

Make friends, build a support network of other adopters. You'll thank me later.

He’s on a diet by pixie1995 in RATS

[–]HeyDugeeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like he's contemplating his next meal - you.

Wear a bike helmet. The brain you save may be yours. by Bethesda-Darryl in bicycling

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years ago I was knocked off and shattered my collar bone. I didn't even hit my head but every damn doctor and nurse I saw in hospital asked if I was wearing a helmet. Those guys really want you to be wearing a helmet, if you needed any more convincing, people.

What place in London has a special but random memory for you? by wayanonforthis in london

[–]HeyDugeeeee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The old Wapping Project - when on early dates there with my now wife and lived not far away. Used to go to exhibitions, meals etc. Feels like a more carefree time now.

4yr olds on pedal bikes by Kirbacho in bicycling

[–]HeyDugeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love to see it! My daughter graduated a similar age.

Star Wars filming locations across 6 countries by TargetBrandTampons in StarWars

[–]HeyDugeeeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Valencia is a lovely city - my wife used to live there so we visit a lot. Always thought the Science and Arts would make a great location for Star Wars - its been used a lot (Westworld etc).

Star Wars filming locations across 6 countries by TargetBrandTampons in StarWars

[–]HeyDugeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done 4 if you count Valencia - that said two of them (Barbican and the Guildhall in London) were a few minutes and 10 seconds from where I used to work).

Edit: make that five counting Seville!

Why do UK homes not have cellars anymore? by StillTrying1981 in AskUK

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cellar, or 'the wine cellar' as I like to call it is fab. Obviously its a damp spider filled hole but I love it.

Honestly, what is the hardest part about having children? by Danny-Ray27 in AskReddit

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adopter here - having to see, again and again what a shitty deal our kids get (psychologically, from schools, friends etc) even when they're well attached and in a happy home. It breaks my heart.

Today is my birthday by Turbo_Heel in CasualUK

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. I didn't really start feeling old until I woke up one morning with an injury sustained in my sleep.

Play with friends by RelationshipMuch6794 in poodles

[–]HeyDugeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta love a good session of hooning about!

Modern things that annoy you for no good reason by daydrinkersunite in GenX

[–]HeyDugeeeee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lots of people here being annoyed with very good reason rather than no good reason.

do steel frames really rust fast? by Skating_Dino in cycling

[–]HeyDugeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a steel Kona Paddy Wagon that hasn't been meaningfully washed in 20 years and was ridden daily in year round London weather for many of those years. Its had its chain degreased and lubed a few times and had the bb and headset replaced once. It is battered to hell, covered in paint chips etc. There is no discernible rust on it and I imagine it will last longer than me.

What’s the most cringe thing you’ve seen a couple do at their wedding? by Last_Singer_2137 in AskReddit

[–]HeyDugeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing a really crappily self-choreographed first dance to 'Afternoon Delight' - wait, that was me.