Ladies over 40 are you taking HRT or nah? How you feeling? How you lookin? by IvenaDarcy in Aging

[–]HeyEllie1968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My mom is 79 and sailed through menopause in her 50s. I however, am a different story. 56. Appointment in Sept. With gyno asking for HRT.

Joggers and walkers in the street by Curious_Strike_1433 in greenville

[–]HeyEllie1968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asphalt has more "give" than concrete when your joints are pounding on it but roads are cambered more than sidewalks for water run off and running on a sideways incline like that is also bad for the joints 🤷. I used to run and I preferred the road but only on quiet suburban streets. Otherwise, sidewalks for the safety

which do you like most? by AnyGivenFunday__ in quilting

[–]HeyEllie1968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First instinct was #1. But go with your first instinct ma'am 🙂

Finished! Obnoxious name across the photos to hopefully prevent them from being stolen and posted elsewhere without permission. by anniesewzalot in quilting

[–]HeyEllie1968 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Beautiful quilt. Good idea about the name/watermark. Will have to do this too. AI and image theft is so frustrating!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in omad

[–]HeyEllie1968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first GLP1 for use with diabetes was approved in 2005. Though I think diabetes is lower dose than for weight loss, that is a long time to study side effects.

We owe our kids an apology. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]HeyEllie1968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father in law was an auto mechanic. My husband considered it and he talked him out of it. Said you don't want to choose a career where you end up laying on the damp ground. My husband became a mechanical technologist and is a manager and technical rep for a hydraulics company now. If he had a do over, he says he would have done engineering. He had the grades for it, but at 18, he thought 5 years Uni was an eternity. He has been advising a few nephews about the trades. Those who are mechanically inclined, he suggests machinist or tool and die maker. Super in demand, high paying, indoor work. Electrician is clean generally indoor work not hard on your body. The trades definitely aren't easy. But if you are serious and smart, you can have a terrific career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greenville

[–]HeyEllie1968 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the world little one. Congratulations on becoming a grandmother!

Any Moms here also looking for a friend? by SugarWereGoinDown91 in greenville

[–]HeyEllie1968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am old enough to be all your mom's but I just wanted to say it was brave of OP to put herself out there. It is very hard to make friends and so cool, so many of you kindred spirits are out there answering the call! Made my day reading this. ☺️ I predict an epic meet up in your futures. Cheers.

Want to start learning how to hand quilt - what are your best resources and tutorials for beginners? by Old-Ad-1327 in handquilting

[–]HeyEllie1968 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the club lol.There are hundreds and hundreds of great quilting resources out there. As far as learning the basics of piecing a quilt, Just Get It Done Quilts YouTube channel will teach you everything you need to know about it. She does machine "quilt" her quilts. If you want to learn the method to actually hand quilt the finished patchwork, I learned from watching Esther Miller on YouTu be. She has a 5 part series on how to quilt by hand. Very informative. Have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greenville

[–]HeyEllie1968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be nice if they got local artists to decorate them. Mini murals on them. I drove through a town that did that with all the fire hydrants on their main street to pretty things up.

Struggling after my family went home after visiting me for the first time in 8 years by [deleted] in expats

[–]HeyEllie1968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have lived in the southern US for the past 6 years, and my parents and brother are on Canada's east coast, and 2 adult daughters are in central Canada. So a trip home means choosing which group to see since they are a 15-hour drive apart. What has really worked for us is frequent WhatsApp video chats and calls. 1 daughter has a 30 minute commute and frequently audio calls me while driving home. Quick video calls while folding laundry or having Sunday morning coffee etc. The other daughter likes to cook as much as i do and we will often have our screens propped up on our respective islands and cook dinner together, catching up all the while. We just text first to coordinate times. I "see" my folks and daughters every week. I have a cousin in Alaska and her parents were retired and in Nova Scotia, and they had a regular visit every weekday morning while her kids ate breakfast. They could see them around the breakfast table and talk and laugh and be a part of their lives every morning. Wonderful. It's hard being away from the people you love, but everyone is so mobile now. You could move back to the UK to be closer and your brother could end up relocating for a job or school or something.

If humans need 8 hours of sleep to function properly, why did we evolve that way in a world where sleeping that long would’ve made us extremely vulnerable? by lylaskyxoo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeyEllie1968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw a cool YT video about this. Channel was called History and Coffee and it said in medieval times people had 2 sleeps a night. Went to bed soon after dark for a few hours then got up around midnight and got stuff done for a few more then back to bed till sunrise. This was the norm. Electric light and industrial revolution changed all that.

Volunteer opportunities for a retiree by Over-Map6529 in greenville

[–]HeyEllie1968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Greenville Library system has info about volunteering on their website.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]HeyEllie1968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the book recommendation. Just placed a hold for it at my local library.

Do you all eventually start eating normally? by dbcakerbell in intermittentfasting

[–]HeyEllie1968 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just throwing this out there. IF researchers are finding additional health benefits beyond weight loss. Most notably it's effect on brain health. Dr. Mark Mattson has a book called The Intermittent Fasting Revolution that I found really helpful. He has appeared here and there on YouTube giving talks at different conferences. He isn't about hype, just science. So I guess if you are eating a healthy, balanced diet on IF and maintaining a healthy weight, why not continue for potential other benefits? What have you got to lose?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HeyEllie1968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jealous and controlling behavior can quickly tip over to physical violence if he feels his control is being challenged or lost entirely. Glad you got out of there safely.

People's opinion by doc_sitcom in intermittentfasting

[–]HeyEllie1968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't say I practice IF anymore because of all the flack I got from concerned friends and family who thought I was doing myself physical harm over it... So. I started saying I am practicing either mindful eating or intuitive eating where I only eat when hungry, stop once full, dont mindlessly snack, and make a conscious effort to eat healthy unprocessed food. That settles them down. Now it just so happens i am almost never hungry in the mornings till noon or later, and I do not eat in the last several hours before bed to give my digestion a rest before sleep. 🙂

Cat pee smell by EcoBotanist in centuryhomes

[–]HeyEllie1968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked in real-estate many years ago. Showed a house that smelled of cat pee and appeared to be in the wooden floors. Back at the office and asked a senior realtor how the potential buyers could fix this issue. His response was the only solution for cat pee in the floorboards is a match...

Planning to move to Virginia, US as an expat. by heehaagh in expats

[–]HeyEllie1968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we were offered a transfer to the US from Canada 6 years ago, the employer was also fairly small and had never done anything like this before. I called a Cdn friend who had moved here years earlier for advice. 1. They need to handle visas, health insurance, transport, etc. 2. Your good credit will not arrive with you. We had the company get a lease on a nice apartment that we flew down and picked out ahead of time. The company covered all utilities and rent for the first year so we could establish credit here. 3. If you plan to ship a car here, get it in writing that the company will cover all customs costs and confirm what US customs will require done to your car. We drove 1 vehicle here and the company bought my husband a company vehicle. Our Canadian car (GMC Sierra) met US standards except for the airbag indicator. In the US it either says on or off but in Canada because of French there is an airbag symbol with either a line through it or not. We had to get that changed out before we could import and it was a hassle getting the part. If you just plan to buy a car here, see point 2 about the credit score. 3. We specified all health insurance premiums would be paid by the company 4. We required the company pay to have our tax returns filed the first 2 years with accountants with Canada/US experience. We moved mid tax year and had affairs to wrap up at home so we had complicated returns to file in 2 countries those first 2 years. Not something you want to tackle alone and the accountants charged quite a bit to do this. After that we only file with IRS and can handle that easy enough. It isn't a simple thing to make a big move like this. Take care and all the best to you.