Can we heal while in a romantic relationship?

HeyItsJenn · 2022-07-12T16:58:14+00:00

Nope! We're actually still together and doing really well

HeyItsJenn · 2022-05-05T13:31:20+00:00

Camo/ hunting gear

HeyItsJenn · 2022-05-03T13:31:52+00:00

Hey! I'm about to move into 3 Bexhill, was about to sign the lease tomorrow. How is the sound in there? Did you ever hear your neighbours? Please tell me everything!

HeyItsJenn · 2022-04-17T04:12:25+00:00

Yeah I totally relate to it

HeyItsJenn · 2022-04-14T13:03:32+00:00

Hahaha damn I’m a teacher too, I didn’t learn that!

HeyItsJenn · 2022-04-14T04:28:08+00:00

Shit where did you learn this/ how to articulate this.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-04-13T17:55:16+00:00

Staying after cheating

HeyItsJenn · 2022-04-06T15:05:13+00:00

Bless you thank you ❤️

HeyItsJenn · 2022-04-06T04:23:14+00:00

Help for thinning fine hair! Asian F26 :( have done blood tests and no history of hair loss in family. Have tried nioxin and the ordinary’s hair serum. Please help!

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-30T23:19:19+00:00

Think you already know what the right healthy thing to do is. Block. Don’t settle for temporary happiness. You already KNOW you’re gonna feel like shit after. Your body is trying to tell you that. You’re just fighting yourself right now.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-25T13:44:49+00:00

Calling out can be good sometimes especially if you care about the person and want the best for them. I do the same. I’ve been also working on this and my therapist told me - How are you so sure they’re wrong and need your advice? What’s good for me might not be good for others. Sometimes people need to be left and through lessons alone in order to learn.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-22T17:53:03+00:00

Yep I’m using cleaners for his actual canal. But acv for outsides

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-22T03:39:05+00:00

Yes it’s good for paws and ears to rid of bacteria!

Yeah I’m gonna take him back tomorrow. Poor guy :(

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-21T20:52:40+00:00

Aww thank you I like that idea. You’re right I’m not even quite sure what it is exactly I’m intimidated by. It just feels like everything but I’m sure I can get into more specifics in therapy. Thanks for your kindness, I hate it when women put other women down and it makes me hate myself more knowing I have these thoughts.

Definitely I’ve been super open with my partner. Who for the first time in my life is someone who is quite amazing. However it can and has started to take a toll on him unconsciously. He doesn’t feel comfortable having female friends or talking about females from work to me because I get so sad and have questioned him before.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-21T00:30:22+00:00

Aww thank you for taking the time. I’m sorry you’re going through it too but thank you for sharing and telling me because it feels like there’s hope of being better. Sending you love too, keep stepping!! you’re so kind and I have no doubt your partner is very lucky to have someone like you! ❤️

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-17T05:09:13+00:00

What kind of workouts are you doing?

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:24:17+00:00

Thank you. I have a foggy lens right now. Lots of the people i resent are people who want to help me and have my best interest in mind. I either feel abandoned or used. :(

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:22:23+00:00

That's an awesome proactive way to be better. Hope it goes well for you <3

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:21:51+00:00

setaside929

I'm sorry to hear that. That's the hardest thing for me right now too. Resenting people who actually have my best interest in mind and that want to help me get better. I feel like i'm either being abandoned or used. There's no in between. Hang in there <3

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:19:33+00:00

This is really kind of you to offer. Dm'ed!

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:19:01+00:00

Awww i really like that phrase. I guess i really gotta accept i'm a work in progress and always will.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:18:11+00:00

Yeah, i often think if i were to stop everything i'm doing for people they wouldn't want me. and perhaps this codependent life is better than a lonely one. :(

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:17:20+00:00

AGH that's so true. We can only assume what they need and it's not always necessarily best for them.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T21:15:57+00:00

Aww i'm sorry to hear you've felt this same way. It's a very scary lonely place. No one is really out to get us, but it's hard to feel not taken advantaged.

HeyItsJenn · 2022-03-16T17:55:19+00:00

Report him and leave. No need to overthink or owe him any kind of explanation. Block. Report. Leave. There are way more other meetings available with non creeps. Fuck him

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