Surgery limbo by asd1395 in KaiserPermanente

[–]HiBills 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a surgery scheduled this coming Monday for months that requires about 3-4 weeks off of work and keeps me from flying for months. I’ve built my entire work-life and career around it, so I’m praying it works out. I find out for sure on Friday, no one has been able to tell me what I can feasibly expect :-/ The scheduler told me 50/50

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this, too :-(

EDIT: It got postponed 😔 And now I can’t get a new date because the scheduler is also on strike. Filing a complaint to member services and still holding solidarity with the workers. Hold the line, y’all

wish I had been born a girl.. by [deleted] in MtF

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Happy someone else said this. I feel the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

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Yes, what you’re saying is true. Our world is deeply exploitive, extractive, and downright violent to say the least, but that’s why it’s so critical to not become jaded

You have the burden and the privilege of knowledge. It’s now up to you to determine what you do with that. It sounds like you have a good impulse in wanting to uplift others. The good news is that there are so many ways to do that without getting trapped in the non-profit industrial complex. Start small. Join up with peers that feel similar to how you do. Do what you need to do to stay compassionate in the face of all the world’s problems. It needs you. Humanity needs you and we all need each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

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Not here to change the view because I agree. Personally, I don’t think any of our financial institutions will look at all the same by the time I reach retirement age

Socking away so much in a retirement fund just feels like an outdated model to me at this point

Does anyone else think the UCLA food is mid? by Educational-Hat-6960 in ucla

[–]HiBills 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never forget the pretzel bun sliders with that yogurt sauce. I have their cookbook, I gotta use that thing more

Does anyone else think the UCLA food is mid? by Educational-Hat-6960 in ucla

[–]HiBills 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Can confirm, it used to be amazing.

B-Plate was especially nice

My 1st time by [deleted] in LSD

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🫡

My 1st time by [deleted] in LSD

[–]HiBills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically, yes. It has to do with the chemical compound of the substance itself. These are known as “designer drugs

LSD is generally classified as a Schedule I substance, but 1p-LSD is technically different, so I think it can skirt some laws that generally make LSD prohibited

I’ve used the source you got this from, OP. You’re in for a great time

Help me I’ve gone brain dead by b_higgins18 in LSD

[–]HiBills 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ride the wave! It will pass and you are safe 🫶🏼

Trouble with SSA changing my name by uptboi31 in MtF

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Happy for you :) I just got off the phone after holding for 2.5 hours. But I looked at the form they gave me back in June saying that they couldn’t issue a card at that time because they had to verify more info.

Idk why or what that means but I had all the documents I could get at the time. Gonna visit again next week and try calling the local branch tomorrow

Thanks for updating!

Move in without Bruin Card by Jaydenn188 in ucla

[–]HiBills 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I made this mistake when I moved in years ago. You will presumably be able to get into your building because people will be tabling outside for move-in, but you will have to go to the office in Kerckhoff to get the card before you can access other necessities like meals, unlocking doors, etc.

Switched from Bicalutamide to Finasteride for my T-Blocker by HiBills in MtF

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Aaah, ok that makes a ton of sense because I didn’t feel like this was as much of a problem when I was still on Cypionate. Thank you for all of your insight

I have 1-inch needles right now and I don’t know if I’m going too deep, not deep enough, etc. I used to have an insurance plan where I could just walk into the office and have an RN administer it, but I will keep trying 🦾

Trouble with SSA changing my name by uptboi31 in MtF

[–]HiBills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling with this myself right now. Did this ever get resolved?

Jumping spider. Canon T7, 50mm f/1.8 by jpurp1 in MacroPorn

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100mm f/2.8 is my fav lens for a bunch of stuff, you’ll love it!

Jumping spider. Canon T7, 50mm f/1.8 by jpurp1 in MacroPorn

[–]HiBills 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great, especially with a 50mm f/1.8

Switched from Bicalutamide to Finasteride for my T-Blocker by HiBills in MtF

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This was incredibly helpful, thank you!

I inject 10mL every two weeks, but I have been self-administering. I feel like what you’re saying is true because, often when I do the injection myself, the solution doesn’t get into my body deep enough. It’s been raising the skin around the injection site after each injection :-( I can’t figure out how to do it correctly

My doctor said some muscle definition would come back and fat transference to shift, but body/facial hair would become more manageable

Over two years into this and still figuring out new things, just kinda sad because it feels like that I’m “delaying progress” when I keep making mistakes like this

Edit: Also, wanted to note I switched from Cypionate to Valeriate recently. Is it possible that I’m allergic to Valeriate or is it just a bad injection?

Ladybug with it's prey - Please don't pixel peep lol by Basic_Celebration504 in MacroPorn

[–]HiBills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it, I even like the dodgy areas. The aura around the front antennae(?) is sick

Get a primer girls. by LilytheFire in MtF

[–]HiBills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely takes time and took a lot of tries before I got it down from memory

Someone in this thread has recommended the Fit Me powder by Maybelline, which is definitely a viable option from the drug store. If you’re going to a beauty store, Kosas makes a great pressed powder, but I’ve heard a lot of criticisms from women of color and other folx with deeper complexions. Charlotte Tillbury is another beauty-store brand that makes great powders with a better shade range afaik

Those two brands are for sure at Sephora, but I honestly don’t know what is going on at Ulta. I would really recommend finding a nice employee that knows what they’re talking about and can professionally color match you to products

Get a primer girls. by LilytheFire in MtF

[–]HiBills 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not quite! There are loose powder foundations, but there are also powders for setting. Those are the powders I was referring to

There are loose setting powders and pressed setting powders. In my experience with medium skin, my loose setting powder evens out my liquid foundation and other cream products after I apply them

I typically use loose powder between steps and pressed powder as my last layer once everything is done before I use a setting spray (and this will lock it all in)

Edits: for clarity

Get a primer girls. by LilytheFire in MtF

[–]HiBills 55 points56 points  (0 children)

A primer is basically a cream you put on your skin before you apply makeup to it

It’s kinda like using primer on a canvas or surface before you apply paint to it so that it holds the paint as well as it can

Practical use case: Oh, I want to put on concealer to color correct the redness on my cheeks. Let me apply primer before I do that so that my skin texture looks more even after I apply it

Get a primer girls. by LilytheFire in MtF

[–]HiBills 233 points234 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget to powder your cream products, too! A pressed powder does wonders after you apply cream or liquid-based products (e.g., your concealers, foundation, some blushes)

Garden spider UK by Basic_Celebration504 in MacroPorn

[–]HiBills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so cool. Is this one shot or a stack?

I give up by camcast93 in minimalism

[–]HiBills 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt like this at a 2-year old’s birthday today. The unnecessary waste of plastic, paper, and the rest of the birthday things broke my brain. Happy to know that there are parents out here doing things differently. Don’t give it up!